什么叫爱？这样冷落前任

 wojianguoyouhenduonvxingzaiwanhuishangdoujinruleyigecuowuguannian，bianshijuedefenshouhoukendingbukeyirangzishenyuqiannanyoudeguanlianzhilengchulai，buranyaoxiangwanhuikejiubuyile。neimeshenmeshixihuanshenmeshiaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmejiaoaidewenzhangba。

 neiyangdeniantoushijishangyebingbushichedibudui，jinjin“bukeyizhileng”dexianduquebingbushirenherendounengzhangwoqiadang，yincibuyiburaodeqingkuangyejiucengchudiejian。shishishangtashishifenbuliwanhuidezuofa。

 guoduodejiuchanbuqinghuirangqiannanyouduinixincunyanjuan，youqishizaifenshouhou，qiannanyoudehuaixintaibingweihuanjiejieshu，nibuduandizhaotazongshitutiantaduinidedichu。zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，nixuyaoxuehaodeshishidulengdanqiannanyou。

neima，gaizenyangshidulengdanqiannanyou，tacaihuizaiciaishanglenini?lengdandewanhuifangfayigongfenchengxialiesangeliucheng：

01.闲聊点到即止

 zaifenshouhoudefuchouzhelianmeng4huanjie，henduonvxingxiaibutingdishuogebuduan，taizaobaoluyaoxiangfuhexingdemudi，congerfandaogongkuiyikui，rangqiannanyouganjuezishenzaoyichidingnile。

 yidanqiannanyoujuedeniduitazaoyishiququweixing，neimatajiuburongyizaizainideshenshanghuashijiansixu。yiner，zaifuchouzhelianmeng4qianqidexianliaozhongnixuyaoxuehaodiandaojizhi，bukeyikankanertan。

 zaidiyicifuchouzhelianmeng4dexianliaozhong，ninengguanzhuyixiaqiannanyoujinqiderichangshenghuo，haikeyishuoshuozishendexiankuang。dayueliaobanxiaoshidaoyigexiaoshishangxia，nijiushuozishenyeyoushieryaomang，xiayicizaigentaliao。

 ruciyilai，qiannanyoubianhuicaixiangnijinqidouhuimangnaxie，gennaxierendaowanglai，yeqingxizheigeshijieliyeyoubiedederenshiqing，bingbingbushizhijinjinweiraozhetayigerenzhuan。

02.让他摸不透

 shenmejiaoai？zaiyuqiannanyoufulianyiyiduanshijianhou，ninengzhaojiekouzaizhaotaxianliao，zheiyituocizuihaoyouxindexindianyingshangyingle、youxindecanguankaizhangle、youmoumoumoudapaimingxingyaojuxingxunhuiyanchangzheixie。

 tuocishishabuzhongyao，guanjiandeshizheiyituociwubiyouyouhuideyuyi，erqiezaixianliaozhongnixuyaobaqiannanyouwangnuanweidefangweiyin，rangtajuedenihaoxiangshixiangyuetachulai。

 kezaixianliaodezuizhong，nixuyaogaozhiqiannanyou，niyueleguanlianfeichanghaodenantongpenyouyiqichulai，congerdaozhiqiannanyoudexinlizhuangtaiqifu，rangtaganjuezishenhaoxiangbumingbainini，jinerduinigengyouxingquaihao。

03.装作巧遇

 jinxingzhishang2geliuchenghou，zuihouyigeliuchengbianshizhongyaodeyibule。gezhejiaoyouruanjianshuozaihaoyebibushangpengmianxianliaolaidequeshi，yinernixuyaoshengchanzhizaoyicipangbianrenqiaoyudejiyu。

 ninengsuanzhunshijian，zaiqiannanyouyidinghuichuxiandediqudengdai，suihouzhuangzuoyutaqiaoyu。cicipengmianjianjufenshouzaoyiyouyiduanshijianle，zheishiqiannanyoudefumianqingxuyingdangyixiaotuileyidaban。

 yinci ，dangjinrenzaijianniyimianshi，neixinbidingyouyidingdegantan。zheishihounikeyiyougaozhiqiannanyou，nibeipenyoufangfeijile，benzhunbeigenpenyouyiqiquxinkaidecanguanqiangxian，rujinquemeiyoulaobaneryiqichiwan。

 jiexiaquniyejiunenggoutuocishuoqingqiannanyouyiqichifan，qiannanyouyibanshiburongyihuijuede。bixuliuyideshi，yongcandediquniwubiyaotiaoxuanyichuqingjingqiefenweihaodecanguan。

 zailingjulidexianliaozhong，ninengzaiqiannanyouyanqianhuailianguoqu，suihouzhuangzuochuoqidigaozhiqiannanyou，shijishangniyizhihuanshitexiangta，qidainenggentafuhexing，danzhenduiqinggandeshinijuebunengsheqiu。

 shenmeshixihuanshenmeshiai？neiyangdejiaofajibiaoshuleniyaoxiangfuhexingdeyixiang，youtuxianlenidexiaosahuoda，shuomingzishenburongyizuosipilailiandeshi，qiannanyouduinidejieshouchengdubidingyousuozengjia，wanhuiqudechenggongbianyeweiqibuyuanle。