什么叫爱？挽回前任的四个步骤

 shenmeshiai？weiheyaozheiyibu，youyuxuduo nvhaidoumeifajienazishenbeifenshoule，liangrenyiqianneimashenaideren，ruhejiukeyibianwei2gehaobuxiangguanderen。neimeshenmecaisuanai？aiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmejiaoaidewenzhangba。

 nihaojinlegezhonggeyangwanhuifangfa，lingyifangdoubuyuanzaihuijiakanzheniyiyang，nimeiridouxinlijiaocui，meiridouhuixiangta，nirangzishenyulaiyushixian，richangshenghuobeiniguodezaogaotoule。

 jiaruniyizhineiyangquxiang，neimanidewanhuijinjinzaihunrizihehuoli。shijishangwanhuibingmeiyouneimacaogao，tayeyexuhaishenaizheni，nibuyinggaibazijiderichangshenghuoguochengdeyingwenxianrujinzheiyimoyang。

 keguanxingdiduidaiganqingdewanbi，caikeyizhuniwanhuinanpengyou，keguanxingdiduidaizishendeshenshangzuochudebuzhengquehewenti，shenmeshiai？caikeyirangzishenyuelaiyuegengqiang。

提高自己的使用价值

 shenmejiaoai？zuoweiwanhuideyifang，nixuyaozuodedierbuyingdangjingjingdichenji，qiaoqiaodegaibianxianzhuang。jianxindajiadoukanleqianren2ba，nanzhujiaozaihenvzhujiaohunwaiqingyihou，rutongshuaikainvzhujiaole，keshinvzhujiaogenjubenshendeqinfen，bazijiyuelaiyuehaokan、daqi、tongqingdalideqingkuangxia，nanzhujiaoyouzaicidianranlaiduinvzhudeaiyi。

 wanhuizuizhongyaodeyibubianshitigaozijideshiyongjiazhi，waimaobuzuhao，jiuduoxuexipeixunchuanzhedaban;shejiaomeitikongfa，jiuduochupengyixingpengyou，kuozhangshejiaoquanzi;xingqingbuzuhao，jiuduokanshu，duoxuexipeixun，gaizhengzishenxingqingshangdexiaowenti。fangshiyouhenduo，jiukanzhenixibuxihuan。

见机行事

 dangzishengenggaihaolayihou，jiukeyijianjiandigangkaishijiechuanlingyifangle，zailingyifangyoudafushizhudongjingong，zailingyifangmeiyoudafushi，xiantishengziji、gaibianxianzhuang，tigaozishendezhengtishili，denghoujihuizaicigongji。

 qiewubunengbaoludexuqiugan，lingyifangmeiyouxingquaihao，neimajiuxiayicizaishuo，juebunengfangqi，wanhuishiyigeduibizhuangkuangxialveweifanzadeyigequanguocheng，bubijiji，youyuniyizhizaijijidehua，tajuedeniyizhidouzai，yinci tahuijuedebushangzishenshijishanghaishiainide。

接受现实，主要表现自身

 danglianggerenzaihulianwangshangliaodaojiaoweishunianyihou，jiukeyishengchanzhizaoyixieqiaoyuhuoshipengyoujucan，lairangdahuoeryouyici“buqierzhi”，chuanzhedabandehuazhizhaozhande，judongdedang，zhuyaobiaoxiandedaqiyouqizhi，nanshengyidinghuiyishunjianyoubeinichimide。

 shenmecaisuanai？jieshouxianshilianggerendepengmian，yidiandianfangkongzijidexingquaihaozhibiaozhi，tanrandizhuyaobiaoxianzishen，rutongdajiadiyicijianmianyiyang。