爱一个人,男人在什么情况下，会迫切想挽回一个女人？

 dangtajiangchufenshoudeshihou，nizhenshinanyixiangxin，buganxiangxinzheiyimeiyicidoulaihongnidenanren，huiqinkoujiangchuneiliangzi，gengbuganxiangxintahuiyuelaiyueneimelengdanwuqing。neimeaiyigerendebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerendeganjuedewenzhangba。

wulunnizenmeyoukuyounaojiuchanbuqing，tayemeiyouzaikanzheniyiyan。nandaoshuoqueshibukeyiwanliulemeiyou?

 shijishangnishinenggouwanliude，tameiyouzaikanzheniyiyan，yebingbingbushiqueshiwuqingle，zhishinideyoukuyounaojiuchanbuqing，shitagengfanle。

yinci wanliubukedang，zongshiranglingyifanggengweiyanjuanni，yehuishizishenchuzaichuyubeidongdeqingkuang，zengjiawanliunanduxishu。

 yaoxiangwanliuwuqingqiannanyou，jiuxuyaomingbaizenyangyongqiadangdezitaiquwanliu，wojidahuoergongxiangyigewomenzijideshili，qidainengjidahuoerchanshengyixieqidi。

以前，大家接任过一位粉絲，叫小型(笔名)，她和老公谈恋爱四年，本准备2020年10月份完婚的。 和男友吵架闹分手怎么办？

 kequezaiqianbujiuyouyutongjushenghuoshi，chanshengyixiexiaofenqixiaomoca，youmeiyouhuodelijichuli，ranglianggerenmaixiangletichufenshou。

 yuanshiyixiebudabudadefenqi，kequerangliangrenyongyoufeichangdadejiedi，nanxingqinfenbajiawudouzuozhengjieyihou，ningjingdihexiaoxingjiangchuletichufenshou。

 yikaishixiaoxingrenweitashikaiwanxiao，meiyoufangzaixinshang，kedangtahuijialefajue，renyuxinglixiangzaoyimeiyouleshi，zheicaiwanquanhuangle。

 yinci，tagangkaishizhaonanxingsichanlanda，dachaodanao，nanxingyeyouyikaishisuihebianchengleyanjuan，naizhizuizhongbatalaheishanchu，meifadeta，jiuzhaodaodajia。

 zaiwanliushi，xiaoxinghenji，danlaoshiquerangtapingjingxialai，youyuxinlizhuangtaibushulihao，buguanduomehaodewanliufangan，douzongshijuyoufanzuoyonglibale。

恰当的挽留姿态，应该是这3步。

qingchulingyifangdepaichitifangxinlizhuangtai

 dangganqinglaidaowanbihou，lingyifangyibanxintaihuihenlengmo，zheiyeshilingyifangzhenduizishendeyizhongweihubale，biaomingtabingbuyuanzaizheiliduanganqingzhongshoushangle。

zheishihou，qianwanbiezaijiuchanbuqinglingyifangle，zheihuiranglingyifanggengpaichi，naizhiwanquanxiaotui。

 yinci ，laoshicairangxiaoxingpingjingxialai，xiancongfenshougangkaishi，zhongshilingyifangdetiaoxuan，rangzishenyingduitichufenshou，yerangzishenchuangjiangenghaodexintai，neiyangcaikeyiyuqinguzong，jilingyifangxiaohuaxishoufumianqingxudeshijian。

打磨抛光自身、认清难题

 aiyigerendeganjueyoushenmeni？pingjingxialaihou，jiuxuyaorunwuwushengdequqiaoqiaodamopaoguangzishenle，yiyizhonggenghaodexintaihewaimaoquyingduiwanliu，yaolejieyiwangdedajiazaoyiguoqu，jianglaideyiqiebixucongtoukaishi。

 wulunniduirujindezishenyouduolingrenmanyi，bixujiejinquanliquwanshanziwo，quyundongjianshen、suxing、yujiajianshen，jiejinquanliqurangzishenmangqilai，bahuolidouhuibizaiwanshanziwoshang。

 weizijisangeyuedeshijian，nengyouduoqinfenjiuduoqinfen，buyijieguo，zhiqiuquanguocheng，nikeyiweichusetourushiduoshao，chusejiunengjinihuodeshiduoshao。

试着从头开始

 jinglilesangeyuedeqinfenhejianchibuxiehou，xiaoxingdequefashengbianhuaxuduo ，laoshizaizheiqijian，haixuexipeixuntaxuelexuduo tanlianaijiqiaoheyunyingfangfa。

 yinci xiangbiyuyiqianxiaoxing，tarujinyuelaiyuegengxinxin，kandaiganqingyegengtanranle，yinci，laoshigangkaishijutizhidaotakaizhanxiayibufuchouzhelianmeng4。

 damopaoguangquanxinshengjideguanlian，shibixuyouhuolide，yinci zaifuchouzhelianmeng4qian，laoshijiuyaoxiaoxingzaiweixinpengyouquanganlefeichanghaodeyouhuolimaixiafubi。

 yihou，yunyonggongtonghaoyoudeyaoqing，rangbicizaidupengmian，pengmianhou，lingyifanghaiqinzisongxiaoxinghuilejia，yeyinererzaicifuchouzhelianmeng4。

 aiyigerendebiaoxianshizenyang？wanliudequanguochengshiyouzhangqiejiankude，zhejishichibushangxishidoufude，jinguanquanguochenghentongchu，danninenggouhuodede，yidingnenggoupeidexihuannidetouru，nixuehaolemeiyou