爱一个人,挽回中有哪些错误99%的人都会犯？

 woyizhizaizhuzhongyigedadaoli：xuduo qingkuangxia，qudechenggongbingbuzaiyunizuozhengquelenaxie，erzaiyunimeiyoufancuonaxie!qingganwentigengshiruci，jugejianyideshili，qiannanyouburongyiyouyuniguanzhuleta，jiulikepeizainishenbian，keshiyidinghuiyouyunisaoraota，erjiangnilaheishanchu。neimeaiyigerendebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerendeganjuedewenzhangba。

 liangrenchuduixiang，nizuoshijiandadonglingyifangdeshiqingjileideganqingjichu，henyoukenengyouyuyicipanbianjiuxiaoshidaijin。yiduanqinggan，laidaofenshouzheiyibu，yuanbenjiuyongyouxuduo desunhaihehuihuai。jiaruniyaowanhuizheiyiduanqinggan，zaihuifudequanguochengzhong，zhongjiunibunengzaifancuowu，youyuzaidufancuowu，bidinghuibianchengyasiluotuodezuizhongyigendaocao。

 80%deqinggan，doubingbushidiyicifenshouzhihou，jiuwanquandeyouyuanwufen，laosibuxiangwanglai。zhenghaoxiangfan，quanshizailijingleshucidejiuchanbuxiuzhihou，caibianchengzuilejiedeluren。

 youxierenshuoqile：jiaoshiwozenmezhidaoshenmeshiqingshicuode，shenmeshiqingshiduide?shenmeshiqingnenggouzuo，shenmeshiqingbukeyizuoni?neimajinri，dajiajiulaihedahuoerliaoyiliao，womenzaiwanhuideqingkuangxia，zuiyifandebuzhengqueyoushenme?

1、juedewanhuiyagenmeiyouyong

“都分手了，挽回压根没有用”/“他都不爱我了，还如何挽回?”/“我试过去了，挽回全是假的，分手了，压根不太可能挽回得了”/“全是坑人的，我做了那么多勤奋，結果还并不是一样”...... 和男友吵架闹分手怎么办？

 niyidingjinglineiyangdelijing，ruguonizaochenglesheqizheiyixiangfadeqingkuangxia，nengjianchidaodidegailvshifenxiao。wanhuiyeshiyiyangdedadaoli，ruguoniganjuewanhuimeiyouyongdeqingkuangxia，neimawulunniganshenme，zuizhongnidoushihuidedaoneiyangdejieguo，bingbingbushiqueshimeiyouyong，zhishinimeijianxintayouxiao。

 henduorendoujuede：woyijinghenqinfenle，keshijieguojiuzheiyang，yinci wanhuimeiyouyong，neiyangdeluojixingshijishangshibuzhengquede，weishenmeni?nijinguanqinfenle，keshinidefangxiangqiadangma?niqinfendefangfaqiadangma?nishiqueshiqinfenzaiwanhui，huanshiqinfenzaigandongzijini?

 niqinfendejiuchanbuqingta，yeshiqinfen，niqinfenyaoxiangshuodongtakuanrongni，yeshiqinfen，niqinfenqudadongta，yiyangshiqinfen。danshizheizhongqinfenyoushenmeyong?meiyouyong，youyuzheizhongqinfendounongcuodefangwei，yongbuduifangfa。

 bubiganjueqinfenmeiyouyong，yebubijuedewanhuimeiyouyong，meiyouzuodaoniyaoxiangdejieguo，danshishiyouyunimeiyouxunzhaoqiadangdefangweihefangshieryi。

2、gaozitaibingbingbushiheshirenheren

 zonghuiyouxueshengyishangqujiuwen：“jiaoshi，woyaozenmezuo，caikeyigaozitaiwanhuita?”/“jiaoshi，woyaozenmezuocaikeyishitajijilaiyaowofuhexing?”/“wanhuitaimeiyouqingmianni?shifoukeyishishitalaiwanhuiwoni?”

 zaizheierwojuedegaozhizhuweinvhai，renqingxianshixingma?ruguoshinibalingyifangshuaile，haiganlesunhailingyifangdeshiqing，haidianjizheweichizhezhigaoqiangdezishi，ranglingyifangjijilaiwanhuini，zuoshenmemengni?gaozitaiwanhuibingbingbushiheshiquanbudefenshouzhonglei。

 aiyigerendeganjueyoushenmeni？jiaruyiqianniyizhizaizheiyiduanguanlianzhongyizhichuyutanlianaidiwei，huoshiwuxianzhidetouru，zaocheng lingyifangyagenbujiangnidanghuishi，zheigeshihouninengcaiyonggaozitaiwanhui，ranglingyifangjiandaonizhenshideshiyongjiazhi，wanchengguanliandehuifuheyingxianglidefanzhuan，tashinenggoude。

 jiaruzaizheiliduanguanlianzhong，nizishenjiuguishuyushouhaifang，neimaranglingyifangjijilaiwanhuini，bushibuneng，chufeishinideshiyongjiazhiqueshihengao，yaoburan，meiyousheixiangyaozaiciweizijizhaobushuangkuai。zheigeshihou，nixuyaojianshaozishendezishi，jijiquhuanjieguanlian，

 henduorenjiaoweidichuwanhui，shiyouyujiangjijiwanhuixiangdangyuxishengxialaidequqiulingyifang，shijishangma，bingbushizheiyang。jijiwanhuidequexiangyaonijianshaozishi，keshibingbingbushijinidisanxiasi，jinjinxianjijitaojinhubale，bingqiezheijinjinlinshide，jinjinweilegenghaodihuanjielingyifangdefumianqingxu，fangzhiguanlianzaiciebian!

3、恰当的挽回方法，并不是说动另一方，只是证实自身

 henduorenfenshouhoudoushizheguowanhui，keshijieguoyizhichongmanlenaonuhequehan，tamengaobudong，weihezishenyezhiqianle，lishiyidinghuigai，lingyifangquehuanshixintailengdan，buyuanyifuhexing。

 huidaqishibushihennan，youyuwanhuibingbingbushiweilegenghaodishuodonglingyifang，zhishiweilegenghaodizhengshizishen。fenshouzhihou，jianchiyaofenshoudeneirenshitaoyannide，nizaishuoshenmezaitayanliquanshibianbo，quanshiwuyiyideshuchu，qingganbangjia。nijuededeyueda，taduiniyejiuyuefayanfanhedichu。

 youjuhuashuodetingyouxiedaolide，niruoanhao，qingfengzilai，yaoxiangrangyigerenliuyini，zuiyouxiaodefangfabingbushishuodong，zhishizhengshinizijijitamenkan，shitajijifajuenideyoushi。

 aiyigerendebiaoxianshizenyang？xianggenggai”“xiangfuhexing”“xiangganshenme”zhiliuzai“xianggan”defangmiandoumeishenmejutiyongtu，guanjiandeshiquganlenaxie，niqueshibianchengleshenmeyangzi。