爱情的定义是什么呢？男人如果放不下前任会有哪些反常表现？

 aiqingdetiantishishenmeni？houtaiguanliliuyanbanliuyanzhongyizhihuiyouxierenwen：wobuhuitaimingquelingyifangjiujinghaiaiwoma，lingyifangjiaruyijianshimeiqingganle，neimawodewanliubujiubianchengzhulandashuiyichangkonglemeiyou?zheileihuangkongbuandejuedezaiwanliuzhonghenpubian。neimeaiqingdedingyiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingdegushidewenzhangba。

dajiabutaikenengxiangqingxiaxianzifeidaozhizunbaodeneixinkanyikan，daodishisheiliudaoletadeneixin。

 danrendeniantoushihuigenjuyantanjuzhibiaoluchuqude，buguantaqingyiyanzangshiduoshao，ruguoninengzhuyidaoguanjiandian，jiunengfenbianchugedayue。

xiabiandajiagenjuyixieshililairangdahuoergengzhijiedetihuizheizhongguilvxing，fenbianlingyifangshibushihaishenaizheni。

实例一，一切正常联络的小陈。

 nvhaixiaochenhedajiashuo：woyunanyouyizhikekeqiqide，jishifenshouquanshiqingsongzizaide，bicizhijianmeishenmedademaodun，yemeishenmebuyukuai。

jinjindanchunxingdeyanfanpingfandeshenghuo，fenshoushiwomendoulizhiyixia。

 liangrenhaixiangyoulingyifangdelianxidianhua，keshiyehenxinyoulingxidetiaoxuanmeiqudajiaolingyifang。youyulianggerenguigenjiedizaoyifenshoule，aiqingdetiantishishenmeni？    zaixiangyiqianyiyangshuluodelianluo，qianquelexiangduidezhenshishenfenheguandian，zaisuonanmianganjuenankan。

fenshoushiliangrendeshier，fenshouhousheiquanshinanguode。lingyifangpachujingshangqing。

 yinci jishiliuchulianxidianhuayemeiqujijilianluo，tabuyuanzhuiyidajiayiqiandexingfu，weicilaikaizhanfangfanyishi，buhuitaitongchu。

yinci ，jiarulingyifanghaicunzhenidelianxidianhua，neimabiaomingdajiazhongjiandeqingganhuanshinengjiude。

jiarulingyifangqueshiwanquandeyanfan，fangqiledajiazhongjiandeqinggan。

 neimatayidinghuibadajiazhongjiandelianluoduandeganjingzhengjie，xiaochunidequanbuxinxi，yanbujianweijing，pingbipengyouquan，jiaruheimingdanpengyou，jiangdiyiqieyunizaochengxiangjiaodejiyu。

实例二，分手被昭告天下的小杨。

 xiaoyangxunzhaodajiadeqingkuangxiadaizhunaonu：zheiyihuaxinnan，qianmiangangfenshoujiumashangfaguoweixinpengyouquanzhaogaotianxia，haipadahuoerbuqingchutayoudanshenkeliaole，xiangyuwohuaqingguanlian?butaikenengde!zuomengba!

 dajiakuanweitadeqingkuangxiayeganjueshifenquehan，youyuxianeryijianlingyifangzaoyixiajuexin，yibujixiaoyangnifengfanpandejiyule。yuanguqishibushihennan。

 yibanzhuangkuangxia，fenshoushiyijianshifenzaisandeshier。huoxuhuichiyi、bushede，ganjueliangrenyexuyeyouhenyoukeneng，zheihenyiqiezhengchang。

keshilingyifangtiaoxuanlegongbufenshoukeguanshishi，jueranyoujueqing，fenhaobujizishenliuyudi，biaomingtayijingbizishenxuehuifangxia。

 aiqingdegushiyounaxie？zhangqidexingfukuailetanlianaiqingkuanghuranzhongguidaogududeyigerendeshenghuo，youqishixiangqiliangrenzaiyiqiqingkuangxiadexingfukuailewenrou，danshendeshenghuojiugengweinanguole。

cikefabufenshouhou，genggaodeyuangushixiangzhaogejiyuwufengpinjiexiayiwei，rangzishenjiejuegudu。

 yinci ，jiarulingyifangfenshouhoujihouhoudetiaoxuanbafenshouzheijianshiqingzhaogaotianxia，xiangdahuoershuomingzishenzaoyizhongguidanshenkeliaoqingkuang，neimahenkenengbiaomingdajiazhongjianzaoyimeiyouhuanjiedekongjianle。

实例三，分手后仍受关心的茜茜。

qianqiangendajiaxianliaoshibiaoshi;tasantianliangtouhailaipengyouquanshibian，diangezanpinggelun，shifoutayijianshiyeyouniantoua?

danshiweixindianzanpingjiatingyiqiezhengchangde，woruguoxuehuifangxiaqingmianquwanliuta，ziqiqirenlegaizenmeban?

xiaomeilideniantouyeshihenduorensuogujide，yibianpazishencuoshiliangji，yibianyoupazishenhuibuduiyi。

 keshixixinxiangyixiang，jiarudajiadouzaoyifenshoule，lingyifanghuanshixiangyaozaibaimangzhongchoukonglaiguanxinnidedongtaixing，naizhihaihuijixuyoushihouhaihuijixuyuniketaoguanzhuyiliangju。

aiqingdedingyishishenmeni？neimabiaominglingyifanghuanshihenzaihuni，yaoshibawojiyu，wanliugailvjiushifenda。