爱情地图：分手后挽回前任要注意哪些方面？

 aiqingfenxi，youxierenshuo：“weihehaohaodideqinggan，huranjiufenshou?”neimeaiqingdinglvyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingditudewenzhangba。

 meiyoushenmehuran，zhishinikandileganqingdebaocunqi。qingganzheigedongxi，xiangjileyizhangchuxuka。zaiyiqishi，liangrenxianghujingliguodegandongshunjian、zaojiudexingfu，shiyibibicundaojinrongjigoulidejinxing。

 erliangrenzaiyiqishidezhengzhi，sunhai，xianghujiandebulijiefenqi，jiuhaoxiangyicicixiaofei，naizhishibeitouxian，zhizhifenshoudeshihouzai，zheikaxuanbubeigongbubeishuabao。

 dajiazhongjiandeqingyibeihaofeiwanhou，youmeiyoulijihuodetianbu，lingyifangjiangnilajinleaiqingyinxingde“xinyongheimingdan”li，zheigeshihou，nixuyaoxiangdajiacunchuyixiexindeqingyi，caikeyiranglingyifangjiangnilachuqu。

 xuduo qingganfenshouzhihou，bingbushimeiyoufuhexingdehenyoukeneng，fanguolaixuduo quanshiyoukenengde，jinjinyouyubuzhengquedewanhuifangfazaocheng lebuchenggong。

 jiunafenshouzhihouheqiannanyouliaotianzheijianshiqingeryan，yixielianrenfenshoushi，aiqingfenxi，benlaizhuangkuangsuanbushangcaogao，xianghuhuoshipengyou，nvshengfaxinxineirong，nanhaiziyehuihuiying。keshiyouyunvhaideyidunsaocaozuo，zaocheng nanhaizichibuxiao，zuizhongrangjushishenxianlekunju，shiququanbudelianxidianhua。

fenshouzhihou，jiaruyaoxiangwanhuidehua，helingyifangfaxinxiyaoliuyishenmenantini?

第一：不必提情感

 fenshouzhihou，dajiadeguandianyeshiyagenmaodunde，niyaowanhui，tafenshou，shuihuobuxiangrong，tianleigoudihuo，huoxingzhuangdiqiu，nijuedeneimeweirandenanti，nenggoukaotanchulima?niyuefaxiangtangeqingxi，lingyifangbianhuijinisigewanquan。

第二：不必质疑/逼问

 aiqingdinglvyoushenmeni？xuduo wanhuizhedoushihuibaotiaoruleidiheqiannanyoushuo，nizenmebuhuiwoxinxia?nibushuozuopengyoudema，weihehaibuliwo?zheixiegeshuyijian。zheishijishangshiyizhongquanliluanrudezhuangkuang，dajiazaoyiyibushiqinglvguanxi，niqueyiranxianglaizainan/nvyouderenwujiaoseshangfaguangfare、duzhifanzui，lingyifangyidinghuixunsudijiangnihongzou。

第三：不必绕弯子

 nilejielianrenhaodeqingkuangxiazuiaishenmema，xiaizhan，xiaikuangfaxinxi;neimenilejieqinglvfenshouhouzuihaipama，yiyangde，zuipazhan，haipanixinxihongzha。

第四：不必惹恼另一方

 rendebenxingquanshiyouquediande，meiyigerendeshenshangyedoushiyouleiqu，zuiguangfande，nanpabeishuoqiong，nvpabeishuochou，nanshengpabeishuoxinggongnengbuhao。

 aiqingditu,xuduo nvhaifenshouzhihou，yingduilingyifangdejiduanxintai，doufeichangrongyibaozou，congerlengchaorefeng，zhuantiaolingyifangdetongdianchuo，renaolingyifang，zuizhongzaocheng guanlianjinyibuebian。