爱情技巧：这些行为男人最招架不住

 wojinnian25sui，henanyoutanlianaisinianle，congnianshudeqingkuangxiadajiajiuzaiyiqi，jinguanyizhiquanshiwaidi，danqingganquefeichanghao，tajilewoxuduo guishugan，dajiayezhunbeizai2020nianwanhun。neimeaiqingjiqiaoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqinghunyinjiatingxuedewenzhangba。

yinci ，zuijinbannian，tazongshidaiwohuiqujiantadebabamama，hetaqinrenjiaowang。

 kewoqueshifentaoyanqutajiazhong，youyutababamamayizhiweizhudajiazhuan，yagenmeiyouyiqiesimikongjian，wosuichubixukaolvdaotababamamadetihui，zheileijushuganyaowoshifenbugaoxing。

 zhihouwoguoduanbuyuanqutamenjiale，ketaquejuedeworongjintadejiazhongshiwubideshier，yinci dajiazuijinchangchangyouyuzheiyishierzhengchao。

 aiqingjiqiaoyounaxieni？zhihou，tayouyugongzuozhongbianhuaquhaiwaiyiduanshijian，qineitayaoxiangwodaitaqutajiazhongtanwangtababamama，kewoquejujuele，youyuzheijianshiqing，dajiachaonaoshenghenxiong，yinweiwoyouyuneiyicizhengchaobatashoujiweixinshandiao。

 ketaqueyizhimeiyoujiahuilaiwo，zhihouwojijijiatale，taquegenwotiletichufenshou，yuangushi，taganjuewobuaita，yeyagenbuyuanjiajita。

 wobuxiangtichufenshou，yinweiwoyizhijitamentongdianhua，shitazaibangwoyicijihui，ketaquebuyuanyile，wobuyuanyisheqizheisiniandeqinggan，wonengzuoshenmecaikeyiwanhui?

 kanguonidexushu，shifenlejieniyaoxiangwanhuideqingxu。niyouyuzishenbunenggourongjinlingyifangdejiazhong，erhelingyifangzaochengleyixiefenqi，zaijiashangxianghujianhuxiangrangbu，caizaocheng bicitichufenshou。

 shijishang，dajiazhongjianjiaoda denanti，bingbingbushiqingganshangde，zhishiyaoqiushangzaochenglechabie，taxiwangnirongjintadejiazhong，ertabingmeiyoukaolvdaonidetihui。

 nibuxiangrongjintadejiazhong，youyunizhikaolvdaolezishendetihui。yiner，lingyifangyeduinizaochenglewuhui，caimingquetichutichufenshou。

 yinci dajiazhongjianfenshoudeyuanyin，shijishangshuodaodi，doushiyouyufenbiedezisizilibale，danlingyifangdeliqu，bingbingbushiyouyubuainile，nishijiyuwanhuide。

xiabianwonengrangniyixieqingganshangdetiyi，qidainenggouxiezhudaoni。

向另一方表述误解

lingyifangzaiyunifenshoushi，rangnideyuangushi：taganjuenimeiaita，yebuyuanjiajita。

 nenggoukandechulai，lingyifangrujinduijinixianzhudewujie，tajuedenibuxiangrongjintajiazhongdeyuangu，bianshiyouyunibuyuanjiajitabale。erzainidexushuzhong，yemeiyoujiandaoniduiyucishibiaomingguofouding。

 yinci ，zailingyifanglaikan，zheijiuhaoxiangge“keguanshishi”，tayaoxiangqushizishensheqizheiyiduanqinggan，yejujuelenidefuhexingyaoqiu，yuangubianshiyouyu，tajuededajiashimeiyoujianglaide，youyuzaitayanzhongnibingbuyuanjiajita。

 jiaruyaoxiangwanhuizheiyiduanqinggan，zuizhuyaodebianshiyaobaituowujie，lijixianglingyifangshuomingnideqingyi，bingtiaomingniweishenmemeifarongjinlingyifangjiazhongdeyuangu，jinyoushitalejienidezhuguanyinsu，caikeyixiaochutaduinidewuhui。

相互挑明要求

qinglvzhijianyaoqiubuduideng，shiyijianhenkongbudeshier，danzheibingbingbushibukeyichuli，dajiayizhigechiyicidizhengchao。

danzheibingbukeyibangdajiachuliyiqienanti，dajiaweishenmebukeyizuoxialaihaohaodiliaoyiliaoxianghudeyaoqiudianni?

 zuixian，lingyifangyaonirongjintadejiazhong，shiyouyutadeyaoqiushiyaoxiangyuniyouyigejianglai，dannibingbuyaoxiangrongjintadejiazhong，shiyouyunideyaoqiushiyaoxiangdajiadesimikongjian。

dajiafenbiedelizudian，shijishangquanshizaiyilezishendetihui，quecongmeikaolvdaolingyifang。

 kejiarudajiaxiangyaojingxialai，haohaodiliaoliaotian，lingtingyixialingyifangdeniantouhetihui，jianxindajiayidinghuiyougengqiangdejiejuefangan。

爱是相互之间投入，也是相互之间让步

 dajiaqidailianrenshizhongdongzishen，kuanrongzishen，ketangruoganqinglijinyouyifangkuanrong，yifanglejie，neimazheizhongaibianshishidiaode，wanmeideaiqing，shibixubicidetouruhelejie，caikeyijiehechenggengwanmeideaiqing。

jiaruniailingyifang，weihechangshiqulejieyixialingyifangdetihuiheyaoqiuni?changshiqurongjinyixialingyifangdejiazhongba。

 zhongjiujiaruniyaoxianghelingyifangzaicizouxialai，tashibukehuoquedeyigequanguocheng，zaizheigequanguochengzhong，niyenenggouxianglingyifangbiaolunideyaoqiu，ranglingyifangyelailejienidetihui。

 aiqinghunyinjiating,aijiushineiyangyigexianghuzhijiantouru，xianghuzhijianrangbudequanguocheng，jiarumeiyigerendouzhizhisuoyao，meiqulejiehetouru，neimafenliyeshiwulunzenyangeryi，nixuehaolemeiyou?