爱一个人有错吗？挽回的三个阶段把握越到位越容易成功

 aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma？meiyounaweiyinweiniannianbushe，genjuchixudeshushuoxiangnian，erbaqiannanyouchenggongwanhuide。neimeaiyigerenyoucuoma？cuoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerenyouduokudewenzhangba。

 dangdajiadeganqingchuxianliefeng，zaitamingquetichutichufenshouqian，shijishangzaiqixinli，zaoyixuanbudajiashangyiduanganqingdewanbi，jiusuannizijuedezuodezaoyichongzuduo：shushuoshebude、dixiatouchengrencuowu、biaodachengxin……danzheizhongmeibanfagenggaitadeniantou。

nandaoshuojiuqueshizaiyebuhuijiyulemeiyou?yaozenyanggenggaizheiyiqie，caikeyirangyiqiededaojiejueni?

zhiyaoniyuanyi，jiuhuiyouwanhuidegailv。danshi，fuhexingqudechenggongdeqiantitiaojianshi：qiadangdejihui，shihedefangfancuoshi。

 jinguanrujinqiannanyouduinidexintaishichuxianyichanglengmo，naizhihenwuqing，danzuishaodajiazhongjiandouhaimeidaolaosibuxiangwanglaidechengdu。shishishang，huanyigeshijiaokanyixia，zheiyeshilinshizhuangkuang，dajiashangyiduanganqingjinguanxuanbubuchenggong，danlianggerendeguanlianbingmeiyouwanquanliekai。ruguonibawozhujihui，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma？zaimeiyigebuyiyangdejieduanyongduifangfa，wanhuibianhuiyuelaiyuefeichangjiandan。

1.冷静期爱一个人真的有错吗？

 zuichu，zaigangfenlideshijianfanwei，shixianghudelengjingqi。rujinlianggerendeqingkuangdouchuxianyichangcaogao，ruoshizaizheishihouniqinglvqianwangwanhui，zhiyourangxianghuganqingyuelaiyuegengcha。

 tawangwangpaichini，bingfeibuaini，zhishipaichidajiayiqiandeganqing。lianggerendeshangyiduanganqing，jitamenchanshengchuxianyichangcaogaodeganshou，tadianjizhegenjujiangzhiwanbidefangfa，laijiangdixinlingshenchudegongzuoyali。danshi，tayehuibazhuduoxintai，shifangzainideshenshang，naizhihuibuzhengquedeganjueyiqiedoushinidecuo，caihuirangnilengmodexintai。

 aiyigerenyouduoku？lengjingqi，zuihaoshidechulifangfa，bianshijinliangjianshaochupeng，jiaoda shuipingdejiangdinidefumianqingxu，gengbubizhuyaobiaoxianchunidefuhexingchongdong。zheiyijieduan，bianshishaotanjiganqing，bubibiaodayiqiefumianxinxide，jiarubixudehua，linshifenshouyiduanshijian。

jixianghuyigelizhideshijian，bianshizairangnizhonghouqidewanhuizuopudian。

2.揭穿期

 lengjingqiyiguo，lianggerenzhongjiandeqingkuangbianhuiyouyidingdehuanjie，zaiyidingshuipingshang，tazaoyigangkaishiyouyidingdesikao，yehuiyishidaozuochudejuecehenbulizhi，duinidexintaiyixieguo，danaiyuqingmian，taburongyisuibiandedixiatou。

 yinci，dajiazhongjianbianhuixianjiedaoguanchajiechuanqi，tahuiguanchanidexiankuang，burongyizhuyaobiaoxiandebijiaotuchu，danhuitoutoudikanzhenidexiankuang。

 zaijiechuanqi，nixuyaozuodeshixuehaozhuyaobiaoxianzishendezhuanbian。zilengjingqigangkaishi，nijiuxuyaoyishidao，ganqingwangwanghuichuxiannanti，nizijiyecunyouyidingdenanti，yinci niyebixuyishidaonanti，gangkaishigenggai。

 zaigenggaiquanguochengzhong，yaoshidudejiechuan，kanlingyifangdexintai，zuishaoyaozaitabupaichidezhuangkuangxia，zaicichupeng，qudelianxigan，rangxianghuguanlianzaicilajin。

3.暧昧期

zaijindaoaimeiqiyiqian，bubitaizaodetanjiganqingyouguandeshi，buranhenyoukenenghuishitaduinizaiduzaochengpaichi。

 ziran，yaoshidajiachupengshijianshaozhang，nichulifangfaqiadang，xianghujiangoujiandeqifenshihe，manmanshengji。bicizhijianbianhuichenggongdexianjiedaoaimeiqi。

 aimeiqishijianbubiguozhang，yaoxuehaoxunzhaoqierudian，rangdajiadeguanlianzaiyicishengjie。erchulizheiyishierdezuihaofangfa，bianshi：jinxingxianxiatuiguangyaoqing。zhaoyigeshihedeyuanyin，liruninengduitashuo：“jinqijingguozhiqianchangqudefandian，fajuezaichurang，shifouzhihoujiumeijiyuzailaidao?”

 aiyigerenyoucuoma？zheizhongyujuburongyiyouduoshengying，danyehuichuxiananshizhehezhengqueyindao，rangdajiahaiyoujihuixianxiatuiguangpengmian。erxianshangxiashi，bianshinitishengnuanweidehaojihui：zhanxiannidegenggai，shidudebiaodaduiyiqianganqingdezhuiyi，shitabansuizheniyiqidaidaoganqing，lveweidaorujilijizhi，huoshidudehujinhuyuan，shitagangkaishihusiluanxiang，dajiadeguanlianjiufeichangrongyitishengle。