什么才算爱?感情里太卑微的人如何挽回爱情？

shenmeshiai?“gennanpengyoufenshouzaoyiyigeyuele，wohenaita，wojuedegentafanhuizhiqian，erwozongganjuezishenzaiqingganzhongtaidijianle，huoxuzheiyiduanqingganbianshiyouyuwotaidijianersangshide，fenshouzheimeduonian，wochajuezijihuanshifeichangaita，xiangwanliuta，keshiwobuyuanyizaizaicizhiqianneileidijiandetanlianaifangfa，yinggaizenmebanni?”neimeshenmecaisuanai?aiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmejiaoaidewenzhangba。

在情感里太过低贱

quanshinvhaizimendechangjianwenti，lingyifangshuoxieshenmebianshinaxie，dajiajinjinyiweidirangbu，yiweiditouru，quebuzhidaoqingganbixuliangrendegongtongfendoucaikeyijiangchijiu。

neimazaiwanliudeqingkuangxiabianshidajiafujianlianaiguanxijunhengdeqingkuangxia。neimashijiyingdangruhequzuoni?

一、不必靠他太近

julichanshengmeizheijuhuayidingshiyouxiedaolide，taiguoduqinmiwujiandeqingganzongshisangshitabenlaidecengciganheshenmigan，jirandajiarujinfenshoule，neimejiubeizaiqujiuchanbuqingta。

xuehaoxiaotuiyiduanshijianzaitaderichangshenghuo，zheileichajuhuijinanshengchanshengwuqiongwujinhaoqixin，shenmeshiai?lingwainixuyaohuadaliangdeqingkuangxiaqugaibianxianzhuang。tigaozijidefengcai，zheijiushichenjidejieduan，zheiyijieduanbianshibixuhaohaodidenghou。

二、创建恰当的爱情观

 shenmejiaoai? nizongbeibierenshuochengtinghuadenvhaier，neimatinghuadenvhaierduitadehaijiugaibeitajuedeqingkuangxialisuodangranma?nibaobandaitilejiazhongdeyiqie，nizhaoliaonanshengdexintai，lingwainiyechangchangbiequdaonanshouxiangku，niyeshangxinweihetayaoneiyangduini。nvhai，nanshengbingbushineimetengde。

nixuyaozuodebianshichuangjianyigeqiadangdelianaiguan，nixuyaogaoqingchu，ganqingdechijiukaodeshixiyinzhuheguanlianxing，erbushiyiweidetouruhedijiandikenqiu。

nixuyaozuoyigechenggongderen，quxiyinzhuta，erbushizuoyigetinghuadenvhaierquwanhuita。

三、活跃性高品质的社交圈

fenshouyihou，jiangzishendeweixinpengyouquanhuoyuexingqilai，qujiejiaodaliangdepenyou，qukuankuozishendejianshi，rangzishenyuelaiyuegengqiang。

shenmecaisuanai?bazijidemeizhaofadaoweixinpengyouquanshitajiandaonirujinderichangshenghuoguodeduomehao，neimatajiuhuiyouduohouhuimoji，shitajijihuijiawanliuni，yinzangzhunideyaoqiu，shitajiji，jiukeyigenggaidajiadetanlianaijiagou。