什么叫爱一个人?分手后懂得这个聊天技巧

 yigenanrenainidebiaoxianyounaxieni？xiangdaoyiqian，jishitayijingxianzao，yehuicashishoulaihuiyingnidexinxi，rujinjishinijitamenfazaiduo，tayezongshifuyanleshiyiliangju。neimeshenmejiaoaiyigerenni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmeshiaiyigerendewenzhangba。

 tayiqiandehao，yibianmandizaininaohaizhonglihuikan，huibo，nizenmeyemeifabarujinzheiyilengmodeta，heyiqiandetazhonghe，nilejieneileijuedema?

 benlaizheigerenrengzai，niyaonenggoutongdianhua，nenggoufaxiaoxi，naizhinenggouqujianta，keshiniquemeiyouyiqieguandian.......

 wanliuzhong，henduorendouyudaoguozheileizhuangkuang，jiannanxianzudouzouguolaile，zongsuanyongyoulianxidianhua，kequemeiyouyiqieguandiangenlingyifangzaixiangyuanxianneibanjianghua。

 shijishang，zaiwanliuzhong，zenyangyuqiannanyouxianliao、jiaowang，shiwanliuzhongshifenguanjiandeyijieduan，xuduo wanliubuchenggongderen，dabufenquanshizaizailezheier。

 dajiashangyue，gangjierenleneiyangyizeshili，shilizhongdemengmengda(biming)，wakongxinsilijinjianxincaiheqiannanyoufuchouzhelianmeng4，kefuchouzhelianmeng4hou，queyourangtamenshenxianlegengnankandejushi。

 mengmengdadejuedeshifenxinlibushufu，yizhihenchuyubeidong，beiqiannanyoudexinxidaizhezou，zaocheng zaifuchouzhelianmeng4zaoqi，yigenanrenainidebiaoxianyounaxieni？yizhijinbuzhupuluguoduoxuqiugan。

meiyicipangbianrenxianliaodeqingkuangxia，quanshijinxiaoshenweide，haipajiangcuoyijuhuarelingyifangbugaoxing。

 keqiannanyouquezhuyaobiaoxiandehenbuzaihu，xuduo qingkuangxiahuiyingdexinxiquanshiyouyidameiyidadefuyanleshi，zaocheng dejieguobianshi，mengmengdayuefaqinfenbaochibicidelianluo，yuefabaqiannanyoutuidegengzhangyuan。

 shijishangyouneiyangdejuedebingbuguaiyi，kejiaruzaiheqiannanyouxianliaodeqingkuangxia，yizhichuzaiyizhongdishiyongjiazhidechuyubeidongqingkuang，qiannanyoudangranhuiganjuenijiwuquyoufawei。

 yinci ，laoshigaozhimengmengda，yaoxianggenjuxianliaorangqiannanyouduinizhongxindianranqingyi，jiuyidingyaoxuehaohexinxianliaodejiezougan，zenyanghexinxianliaojiezougan，guanjianfenchengzheisandian。

学好迁移闲聊重心点

zaixianliaozhong，shijishangshihenzhuzhongyujuzhudongquande，huatitaolunjinjinweiraosheijinxing，sheibianshixianliaodezhongxindian。

yinci zaiwanhuiqianrenshi，jinjibubibahuatitaolunyizhijinjinweiraolingyifangjinxing，zheihuishiwomenyuelaiyuehenchuyubeidong。

yinci laoshizaijutizhidaomengmengdashi，rangtabubizongyi“zainaer?”“zaiganshenme?”，zheileiwuqudewenhoujinxing。

nenggougaiwei“gennijiangyigeqimiaodeshier!”“niqingchuma，wojinqipengdaolegehendadebubian”。

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聊另一方很感兴趣的话题讨论

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shenmeshiaiyigeren?suihouteyimailaierzhangpiao，jilenanpengyouyigeyiwaijingxi。

 kanqiusaideqingkuangxia，mengmengdabujingyijianjiubeidangchangdefenweiganranle，kandehenxingfen，yehenchimi，yeyouyuzheijianshiqing，tamenzhongjianyeduoleyigegongtongyuyan，bianshitantaozuqiubisai。

yinci ，liaoshenmenengzaochenglingyifangdegongmingdian，hehuatitaoluntuokuan，zheiyidianshifenguanjian。

不可以曝露需求感

 changyandao，songhuoshangmendeshizhongbingbushijiaoyi，zaixianliaozhong，bubitaidijian，taijijiyehuiranglingyifangqueshizijuexing，bujiaobuzaoshizuihaoshideqingkuang。

 mengmengdazhonghouqizaiheqiannanyouchupengdeqingkuangxia，laoshiteyidingzhulezheiyidian，wuxushangganzhe，youshilengmodian，fandaohuijifalingyifangdezhudongxing。

 zhihou，mengmengdahenanpengyouzaizheileiqingkuangxialiaoleyigeyuehou，bicijiugangkaishixiguanzheileiquanxinshengjideqingkuangle，shunlichengzhangjiufuhexingchenggongle。

 suoyishuo，fuchouzhelianmeng4houbuyiweizhefuhexingqudechenggong，fuchouzhelianmeng4houdeqingganyeshibixuyouyigeshengwenshineikongjiande，yiweidedijianquyue，shibukeyibangniwanliude。

shenmejiaoaiyigeren?ruheliaonengjifalingyifangdexintaigongmingdian，caisuanshizuizhongyaode，nixuehaolemeiyou?