什么叫爱一个人?分手后这样聊让前任享受和你聊天

 yigenanrenainidebiaoxianyounaxieni？goutongjiaoliuzaihunyinguanxizhongjuyouleyouweizhongyaodegongxiao，lianghaodegoutongnenglajinlianrendeqinggan，yekeyijinigengqiangdezhangwolingyifangdeniantouheyaoqiu，liangrennenglaidaoyiqideguanjianxingyaosushiliangqingxiangyue。neimeshenmejiaoaiyigerenni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmeshiaiyigerendewenzhangba。

keshishifoukeyishichijiudezouxialaihuanshixukanshibushiyouzhelianghaodegoutong。

 jiaruniyaoxiangwanliuyigeren，jiugengyaoduigoutongjiaoliutidaogaoduzhongshi，lingyifangzaifenshouzhihouhenyoukenengduinicunyoudichuxinlizhuangtai，cikeshuoyixieranglingyifangshushidehua，jiukanqilaizhiguanzhongyao。

 youshinibenlaibawanliudeliuchengfenpeideshifenqingxile，kebianshiyouyumoujuhuashuocuole，jiuyaoyiqiandeqinfensuoyoudoutulaole，yihoudewanliuzongshiyulaiyujiannan。

jinrijiulaibangdahuoerchuliheqiannanyougoutongjiaoliuzheiyinandian，rangdajiagenjuxianliaodefangfahehaoruchu!

何时沟通交流?

 youxierenganghelingyifangtichufenshouhaoduogezhongtou，jiuyaojiuchanbuqing，feideranglingyifangweizijishuodianshenme，yigenanrenainidebiaoxianyounaxieni？zheigeshihoudegoutongjiaoliujichushishixiaode，youyudajiabingbushizaifanghenhua，jiushiyixielengyanxiangdai。

 yinci zaitichufenshoudeshijitiannei，bushitaitiyidahuoerqiangzhihelingyifanggoutongjiaoliude，zheiqineinizuigaizuodebianshipouxizishendeyuangu，rangzishendexintaijinzaopingjingxialai。

 shijishang，meiyouyigeteshudexiufugoutongjiaoliushijian。youxierenshiyingliqiang，tichufenshouyizhoujiunengpingxinjingqidehelingyifangshuohuale，youxierenpiqibuhaoxinsizhong，henyoukenengfenshoubannianzaiquzhaota，tahainengjiangnimahuijia。

 yinci goutongjiaoliudeshijianchedixukandajia2gerendeqingxuxiufushijian，zhidaoheshinengkeguanxingdeduidaizheiyiduanguanlian，jianghuabuhuiyizhangkoujiuzhengchaodeqingkuangxia，caisuanshigoutongjiaoliudezuihaoshijihui。

表述清晰自身想说的

 lijingyiduanshijiandelengbaoli，dajiajiuxuyaogangkaishihelingyifangfujianguanlianle，zheiyihuanjiedajiachukaijijixianglingyifangtaojinhuyiwai，zuibixubaozhengdebianshibiaoshuqingxizishendeniantou。

 youyuxianjieduandajiabingbushihenmingquelingyifangdexintai，yinci dajianengbaozhengdejinyoubiaoshu，ranglingyifangjienadajiashifangchulaideshujuxinhao。

 yinci jianyuehelideyujuzaizheishihoushishifenguanjiande，tabudannengrangqiannanyouxunsubuhuoxinxineirong，hainengniuquyiqiantaduidajiadeyuanyouyinxiang。

 zaigoutongjiaoliuyiqian，womenkeyixianyongyigewengao，xieshangduizishenheduizheiyiduanguanliandepouxi，goutongjiaoliushiyizhaoliuchengkaizhan，shiketishizishenbubiyiloudiaoguanjianneirong。

 youyufenshouhou，dajiademeiyicigoutongjiaoliuquanshihenbaoguide，jinyouzhangwohaomeiyicigoutongjiaoliudejiyu，caikeyishilianggerendeguanliangengjinyibu。

了解另一方在说些什么

shenmeshiaiyigeren?zaihelingyifanggoutongjiaoliushi，chukaibiaoshuqingxizishendeniantou，yeyaolejielingyifangde“yanwaizhiyi”。

 yixierenyulingyifanggoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，yaoshilingyifangxintaiyoudianerlengmo，huoshihuiyingdebufuheqingyi，tamenbianhuiyuandibaozha，shijishanghuoxulingyifangyagenjiumeiyounijuededenagehanyi，jinjinnilejiebuduibale。

gezhepingmuhelingyifangxianliao，yuanbenjiuhuiyoushengchanzhizaowujiedehenyoukeneng。

 yinci zaiwanliushi，yidingyaoduiqiannanyoushuodehuaduolejie，youkenengdehuayeyaoquchuaimoyixiatazenmehuineiyangshuo，jiexiaquxiwangnizuochunaxiedefanying。

dengdaonikeyijiehaolingyifangdehuashi，dajiadejianjudangranbianhuilajinle，zheiyeshiyigetishengbicixinlifangxiandehaofangfa。

 henduorendoudui“goutongjiaoliu”zheiyizhuanyejinengjuedeshushouwuce，shijishangyaoshibawozuijiashiji，biaoshuqingxizishendeniantou，erqienenglejielingyifangdetihui，ranglingyifangjieshouni，goutongjiaoliuyeshiyijianhenrongyideshi。

 shenmejiaoaiyigeren?yiduanranglianggerendoushushidehuihua，nenggoutianbuyiqianyicicidezhengzhi，xiangwanliudenihaikeyishiyishie。