爱情三十六计:冷落男人的3个小办法

 aiqingsanyuanlilunshizenyang？wulunnizenmenuliyaoxiangquxiangqianzou，doujinbuzhuqufanyuetadepengyouquan，wulunnizenmeqiangrenmeiquxiangta，doushihuibeitadeyidianxinxijihuihuaitanta。neimeaiqingqianguizeyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingsanshiliujidewenzhangba。

yinci，nizaiyebuhuichengshoutafangqinidekeguanshishi，wuluntourushiduoshaoqinfenbixuwanliuta。

 ketaqueduinideqinfenmeiyouyisidadong，fandaonizuodeyueda，taqueyuefayanfan，jiuhaoxiangjiangnidiuruleyigexianni，niyuefaqinfenwangshangsheng，queyuefabunengziba.......

 nandaoshuozhiyoukanjiantayuezouyueyuan，meiyoubanfawanliuma?bingbushide，shijishangwanliunanrenfeichangjiandan，jinjinniyongbuduiwanliufangfa，yaoxiangrangnanrenhehaoruchu，sipilailianyagenbuqizuoyong。

jinyouxuehaoshidudi“lengdan”ta，fandaohuirangnanrenduinizhanzhuannanmian，zhengyeshimianzheng，jinbuzhulaiwanliuni。

 yiqiandajiaxiezhuguoneiyangyimingfensi，tajiaoaying(biming)，youyuxueshengshidaifumuduiayinghenyanke，aiqingsanyuanlilunshizenyang？conglaiburongxutatanlianai，zaocheng tatanlianaiyunyingpinfa，burongyichuliganqingguanlian。

 yinci tazaihenanpengyoutanlianaihou，jiuduininanpengyoumeiyoudixiandedihao，jitamenxichuangdanzhufan，naizhihuasuanjitamenhua，ayingtabananpengyouguandeyulaiyuhuai。

zuizhongfandaoduiayingkanbushangqilai，chuguileciwaiyigenvren。

 ayingfenshouhou，beitongyujuedixunzhaodajia，takuzhewenlaoshi：“woduitaneimehao，weihetahaihuijixuchugui?”，jiandaozheier，jianxindahuoeryelejieweiheleba。

 shijishangnanrenbianshihenguaiyishengwu，niyuefataohaota，aijinta，yuefabukeyihuodetadexin，fandaonidujueta，hulveta，tayuefayaoxiangzainiyanqianzhengshitaziji。

 yinci ，youshinvxingzaiqingganzhong，bubineimejiyuqiucheng，mingbaixianxiangyouai，zaiqutouruai，cainenggouzaiduhuodeai，burancixuluandiao，feichangrongyimishifangxiang。

rutongshilizhongdeayingyiyang，laoshiyeshineiyanggaozhitade。

 zhihouzailaoshidexiezhuxia，takao“lengdan3buzhou”qudechenggongdizaochenglelingyifangdeliuyi，haiyinerjijihuishouzhuiqiuwanmeiaying，danshiquebeiayingjujuele。

 youyu，laoshizaijutizhidaotashi，jiaoleayingxuduo lianaizhongdefangfa，bangtafengfuleaiqingguan，zaiqingganzhongcongcibuxiangyiqianneibanweishouweiweile。

dangtaqiangjinghoucaifajuebingbingbushiwangbudiaolingyifang，zhishiwangbudiaozhizhebale。

neima，rangnanpengyoujijihuishouzhuiqiuwanmeiayingde“lengdan3buzhou”，weiheneimeqimiao?jiujingyaozenmezuoni?

冷淡”另一方

fenshouzhihouqujiuchanbuqinglingyifang，shiwanliuzhongdejihui。

neiyangzongshipuludaliangdexuqiuganjinanren，ranglingyifangniezhunnidesixu，gengsiwujidanle。

 yinci ，cikejiuxuyaomotounanrendesixu，donghanbaobing，bubijiuchanbuqinglingyifang，zhishiqingjingdilikai，gengbubiqujijidajiao。

 nanrenzheishihouxinlizhuangtaizaoshoubiaocengcuojuedeweihai，ganjuenishiqueshifangqile，fandaohuiqiaoqiaoguanchani，bingpingjingxialaisikaozishen，tashi“lengdan3buzhou”dediyibu，lengdanlingyifang。

冷淡”自身

 jiexiaqu，jiuxuyaochenzheiduanshijian，rangzishendeqinggan“leng”chulaile，jinkenengweichidixuqiugan，bubiqutaiguoguanxinlingyifangdedongtaixing，rangzishenbaochilengjingdeqingkuang。

 quhaohaodisikaoyixiadajiatichufenshoudegenbenyuanyinsuoshu，buyaohaipayingduinanti，eryaoxuehaoqujiejuekunnan，caiburongyirangzheizhongguanjiandianzaidujibaini，tashi“lengdan”zishendedierbu。

 aiqingsanshiliuji,jiezhelizhidezheiduanshijian，bahuoliladaozishendeshenshang，nenggoulvdujialvyou，sansanbu，suzaoyimenxihao。

 quxuexiyixiachuanyidapeijiqiao，hehuazhuangjishuxing，haohaoditishengziwo，rangzishengengchuse，shijianyegengyuanrun，caikeyishitagengweilingyanxiangkan。

“冷淡”联络

 ruguoniyuelaiyueyulaiyuchusedeqingkuangxia，haijideyaozailingyifangkandeqingdediqu，quzhanxianzishenderichangshenghuo，bingbayiqianweilingyifangdiuqideshejiaoquanzijishiqilai。

kuozhangzishendeshejiaoquanzi，qulejiedaliangderen，jinkenengrangzishendedongtaixingchuanrulingyifangdeerduoli。

 cike，lingyifanghuigengweihaoqixinnideqingkuang，erqiehuifapiqinilejiedexinshejiaoquan，yehuidanxinnidebianhua，cike，jiukeyixiufulianluole。

ninengchenjiquyunyongyixietuoci，liru，wangshanggouwujicuo、gonglianwujian、gongtonghaoyoudeng，genlingyifangzaiduqudelianxi。

danyidingyaoweichizishenaojiaodexintai，tafandaohuibeinide“lengdan”zaidudianranduzhanyu，gangkaishijijihuishouwanliuni。

zhishang，bianshi“lengdan3buzhou”le，zaiganqingdeyouhuolizhong，nvxingyidingyaoyouzishendelengdanhetouru。

aiqingqianguize,diaojiehaozishendetouruzhanbi，caikeyihuodegengqiangdehuode，nixuehaolemeiyou?