不会聊天，不会追女生怎么办？情商高的聊天技巧示例

 ruguoniburongyihenvshengxianliaogaizenmeban，burongyizhuinvshengzenmeban?gaoqingshangderendashanfazeyoushenme?xianliaoyizhishixuduo pengyoumendequexian，dahuoerdouxiangyaozhidaonengrangnvhaihuaizheshoujishanghezishenliaodaotingbuzhudeqiaomen，douqiwangnenggenjuxianliaohenvhaigengxinguanlian。zaitanlianaizhong，renmenduoduoshaoshaodoushipengdaoneiyangdenandian：henvhailiaotiangaliao，ganliao，meihuatitaolun，nvhaixintailengmo……danshijishang，yaoshinidonghenvhaideliaotiandejiqiao，zhuinvshengbuchengwenti。

一、不容易和女生搭讪该怎么办 情感难题很心累？10s快速申请情感诊断！

1、无须取悦

 xuduo xiaohuobanmenzaihenvhailiaotiandeqingkuangxia，doushixiayishidiaodizishendezishi，yongquyuedefangshiquhenvhailiaotian。ziyiweishineiyanggengnengfanyingzishendezhiai，shijishangzongshibanvhaituiyuan，burongyizhuinvsheng。

 shijishang，niyuefaquyue，yuehuirangnvhaibuzaihuni，zhongjiuyaoshitagougoushouzhi，jiuhuiduitaqianyibaishun，nvhaidangranganjuenibupeita。

2、了解女性逻辑思维

 zenmehuimeiyouhuatitaolunliaoni?weihejiaojinnaozhizhaodaohuatitaolunqueyouliaobuxialaini?neiyouyunimeiyouchongzudelianaijingyan，zhuinvhaihenshao，dangranjiubumingbainvhaideluojisiwei。yaoxiangzhuiqiuwanmeinvhai，bumingbaitaruhekeyini?nvshenghenanshengdesiweimoshishibuyiyangde，yincizaihenvhailiaotiandeqingkuangxia，renmenchangchanghuirangnvhaiganjuewuqu。

举例说明：

女孩：我还在用餐

男孩子：你吃的哪些

 zheileiluojisiweijiushishuodianxingxingdejiejuekunnandeluojisiwei，yibandouhenfawei，tuxianchubulainidebutongxunchang，nvhaidangranmeibanfaduiniyinxiangkegumingxin。nvhaideluojisiweishijiaoweisanfaxingde，xiangbijieguo，tamengengzaiyiquanguocheng，gengzaiyixianliaodetihui。jiusuanxianliaoliaoyitian，chedimeiliaonaxieshijixingneirong，keshixianliaodequanguochenghengaoxing，zaitaneixin，nijiushishuoyigehenquweidenanshengle。yincinvhaihuigengxiaiyoumogaoxiaodenansheng，dashandefazeyeshiyiyang。

、发散性思维，持续话题讨论

 xuduo xiaohuobanmenzaihenvhailiaotiandeqingkuangxia，changyouchaxunhukoushidexianliao，jinguanzishenyelejieneiyanghuizaochengnvhaidedichu，danjiushishuozhaobuzhechulidefangfa。tebieshizaishizhangqibulianluo，huozheganglejiehaibulejie，buzhangwolingyifangdexiankuangheaihao，chedizhaobuzhenenggou yizhiliaoxialaidehuatitaolun。shijishangzhaohuatiliaotianshicizhide，zuizhongyaodehuanshiruhebahuatitaolunliaoxialai。jiunenggou yijunvhaidehuiying，xunzhaoheshideguanjianzi，sanfanideluojisiweibahuatitaolunweichixiaqu。

举例说明：

jiaruxiawu12dianle，niwentazaiganshenme，tashuotahaiyaochuangbian，gangxing，ninengruhehuiyingni?

 yijunvhaide“gangxing”，ninengsanfanideluojisiweixiangdaoyixia。zheierxiaoyaojingxiangdaodaodeshi“shulanxiong”，neimejiunenggou huiyingnvhaishuo：wofangfozhidaoyigemimi，kuaishuo，shibushinishulanxiongbiande?

4、废物测试，风趣解决

 danghenvhaideguanlianjiaoweilejiele，nvhaijianghuihuiyouyishuoyixiejiniwufahuiyingdehuatitaolun。xuduo xiaohuobanmenzaiyingduinvhaijiancedeqingkuangxia，yibianzhanxianzishendezhongshizhiliang，huijiqiehuaqingzishen。

举例说明：

nvhai：niyizhineiyangpaoniuma?

juedaduoshunanhaizi：burongyia

 suiranneiyangdebiaoshuzishenbingmeiyoucuo，keshirenmendemudishizhuiqiunvsheng，erbingbushibufancuowu。neiyanglaoshibajiaoyoufaweidexianliao，bingbukeyijinvhaixintaishangdeyiqiebodong，dangranyeburongyirangnvhaizhendexihuanni。shijishang，renmenchedibubitaizaiyineirong。nenggou xuanyongfanjiedefangfa，banandianpaohuijinvhai：neimenishiyibuxiaoxinliaolaidaoma?ruguoniburongyihenvshengdashangaizenmeban?shijishangzhuinvsheng，wulunshixianliaohaishiyouhui，doubingbushinaxienanti，dangnibawoleqiadangdefangshihefangfa，jianxinniyekeyicongdashanxinshouchengzhangchengdashangaoshou。