追女生为什么不可以常常联络?怎么样追女生才正确？

nanshengzaiqingganzhongyushangzishenxihuandenvsheng，huibuguyiqiedezhuiqiuta，keshizheiyiguochengyouxuduodaxuewen，jiarubuliuyizheizhongxijie，yizhiyisichanlandadefangfa，zhuiqiujiuhuishibai，rangzishenfenshouhounanguo。dashanjiqiaonaxieshiyong？zhuiqiuaiderenshibixuyixiezhuinvshengjiqiaode，nvhaibudanyulaiyuduiniyouganjue，bingqiehaihuiduinitouhuaisongbao，juedeyouanquanganlibukaini，nizuigaixinlai。“zhuinvshengweishenmebukeyichangchanglianluo，yuanguqishibushihennan，dongdezheizhongjinjinzhuazhudebawotadexin。”zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？henvshengliaoshenmehuati？

(一)维持恋爱的感觉

dashanjiqiaonaxieshiyong？pengdaozishenxihuandenvsheng，jiuhuigangkaishizhuiqiu，zhaoyigeyuanyinbiaoshuqingyi，henzaoyiqianmeiyouhulianwang，meiyoushoujishang，jiuhuijixinaidenvshengxieyifengqingshu，biaoshuzishendeaiyi，xiechengzishenxiangshuodehuagaozhilingyifang，zuixihuanta，jiaruqiahaotayeduiniyouganjue，huirangnihuifu，jiarutaoyanni，jiuhuihuijueni。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？henvshengliaoshenmehuati？

yongzuizhenzhengdebiaodaxingshi，jiushishuoqinzixiedebiaobaixin，tanazaishoushangduzhenixiedeyiziyiju，huihendadong。duinizaochenghaogandu，nvshengyikanjiuhuihenduiniyouganjuedeboxueduocai，juedenihaowuyiwendonglanman，shigedongzuiaideren。xiangyaojiangneifenzhenzangxinli，xiangyaotingnidexiaogushi，jiushishuoyiduanmeitan。

“nanhaierzhuinvhai，bixuweichiyixiexinxian，rangtajuedefangqini。”

(二)拉开距离

yixienanhaierhuixiangnvshengyiyangnianren，xihuannianzhelingyifang，feichangrongyizhuiqiushibai，zhuiqiuyifenganqingbixulakaijuli。lingyifangxiangyaonideneishihou，nizhenghaochuxianle，weitapaiyoujienan。tabuyongnishi，jiuzaifujinyouyu，erqiepeitazuoyixiexihuandeshi。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？henvshengliaoshenmehuati？

budongaidenanhaier，zhuiqiulingyifangdefangfabumingbailakaijuli，helingyifangdejianjuhenjinjinmilianxi，zuizhongquebuqingchuhuirelingyifangbukaixin，changchangquzhaotaliangrennizaiyiqi。dashanjiqiaonaxieshiyong？chanzhetaliaogebuduan，nanhaierjingchanglianluonvshengjiuhuiranglingyifangzaochengyanxuexintai，juedezishenhenizaiyiqimeiyousuiyi。

nixiangyigezhangbudadehaizi，xihuanhetazhandaoyiqi，tagenniyizhizaiyiqibuqingqingsongsongyebukaixin，jiarunidonglakaijuli，jiuliqudechenggonggengjinyibu。

(三)与众不同的个性化

xuduonanshengzaizhuiqiunvxingdeneishihou，meiyougexinghua，meiyouzhengfu2gan，bumingbaisisuo，meiyoushangjinxin，zhushibixuzuncongnvshengdejianyi，tajuedehenizaiyiqitinglei，jibianliangrendeguanliansuihao，tajuedebushangtengxi，juedenimeiyouqipo，meiyounanziqigai。

 nanshengzhuiqiunvshengdeneishihou，yikaishinijuedefeichanghao，nenggoushuochengwuketiaoti，bashidedoujileta，shijianzhangleliangrendeqingganquefaleyixiewupin。

jianjiandidemeileneileijuede，xiangxuanbuhenizaiyiqi，peizainishenbiancisheng，taquemeiyoutongyinideguiding。juedejinguanduihenhaode，nengkaolvni，keshiqueyidiandoubuyuanhetazaiyiqi，meiyouzheileiniantou。

yixienvshengxihuanxingqingwangdaodenanhaizi，budannengjitaanquangan，hainengyouyizhongzhengfu2gan。pingfandeshenghuomeiyoujiqing。nijuedezishenbixubierenzhaoliaoxiangyigexiaohaizi，bierenpengshouzhongneixin，niquefalegexinghua。

nanshengzhuinvshengdeneishihoubiemeitianlianluo，youyijuhuajiaojulichanshengmei，lakaijuli，weichixinxian，weichigexinghua，duishenghuomanhuaixiwang。

zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？ganqingzhong，buguannanrennvrendoubukeyitaizhanzhelingyifang，youzishendegexinghua，wulunnaxieshierdoubukeyiqianyibaishun，fouzedehuahuiranglingyifangzaochengyanxuexintai，buxiangyaotiejinni，neifenqingganbukeyizaici。