zenyanghenvhailiaotian?zhuinvshengqishishiyimenshenaodedaxuewen,zhenxinguranzhongyao,keruguonishiqingshangbudidegaoshuaifu,buranxiangyaoyingdeduifangchengxinchengyideaizheni,duinizijintouru,zhikaorenzhenshihaibugoude,nijiuxuyaozhuinvshengjiqiao。zenmezhuinvhai?zhuinvhaidefangfayounaxie?
zhenxinshihexin,zhaoshudanshishizhuyaobiaoxianfangshi。zenyanghenvhailiaotian?zhuinvshengyidingyaobawozhuinvshengjiqiao,caikeyibaodemeirengui。zenmezhuinvhai?zhuinvhaidefangfayounaxie?weixinliaotianjiqiaoyouxuduo,keshizheierrenmenxiangxijieshaodeshijigewanbianbuliqizhongdebiaozhun。
1.互换秘密:
huhuanmimishirangliangrenlajinneixinjianjudeshenqi。
zaiyunvhaixiangchu,ruherangnvshengduinidakaixinfeijiushishuonantizhiyi。
renmennenggouyingyonghetanshehuixintaixue,nenggoushinizaixiangchuzhongdedaoduifangdexinlai,rangdajiadeguanliangengjinyibu。
zheieryou2gebiaozhun,yijiushinixiangduifangshuodemimiyidingruguoqueshi。zheileiduicekeyichudongrendediqujiushishuozhenxinshiyi。
niyongzhenxinshiyidexintailaixiangduifangtanluzishendexin,duifangcaiyoujianghuihuixuehuifangxiafangbei,lakaizishendexin。
erjiushiniwuxujiangchuzishenquanbudemimi。suoyourenxindidemimidoubujinyige2ge。
zenyanghenvhailiaotian?zaiyunyong“huhuanmimi”duiceshi,nizhixuyaoshuochuyigemimilaizuoweiyuerjiujiuxingle,erbingbushibazishendemimitongtongdouchulai。zenmezhuinvhai?zhuinvhaidefangfayounaxie?
2.语言风趣,适度赞扬,构建舒适度
shushidugoujiandeyuegao,nvhaiyueduoxiangyaoyuniliao,tashiyigedingli。
yinci,niyizhizaixianliaoquanguochengzhongbuguanzenmeshuohuahuatitaolun,qiewuyingyi“zhongshiduifang”weibiaozhun,bikaiyixie“yousexiaohua,suiyijiache”dejinqu,tebieshizaishiniyizhizaibuqingxiduifangdaodedixiandezhuangkuangxia。
shidehuatitaolunshijinjinweiraoduifangxiaide,henganxingqudenantikaizhantaolunhetoushe,nenggoushiqiantiqianzhunbeiyixiehuatitaolun,huoshixianwangduifangweixinpengyouquanzuogekecheng,lejieyixia。
suihou,zaitantaodeneishihou,jiarunikeyiliuyidaotarichangshenghuodeguanjiandian,suihouzhongxinzanyang,nijiushile,qiewububichuyanqingtiao。
3.必得性展现
ruguonidezhanxianbenshendeshiyongjiazhiguogao,jiuhuipengdaoyigenanti,neimanizhenduimeizhidebidexingyueduodi,youyunvhaihuixiang:neimechusedeyigenanren,zenmehuitiaoxuanwolaizuotadelingyiban。
zheishihou,nihaiyaozhanxianchunidebidexing,rangmeizhiganjueniyeshiyongxinhetaxiangchude,dajiazhongjianshiyoujianghuide,tajiuxiangyaozijintouru。
yinci,shifangchulaibidetexinglairangnvhaidedaoguishugan。
例:
“jinguantamendouxiaiwo,danshizhenduiwoeryan,wozhixiangyaoheyigewoxihuandenvshenghaohaodide,yisibugoudezaiyiqi。”
yinci,duizishenxiaidenvshengdutedezhanxian,erqierangtajuededaozishenzainineixindeduoyangxing,nigaoshiyongjiazhi,keshiyounengduibiedenvhailakaijuli,zheijiushishuoyigedianxingxingdeshili。
4.若即若离,青蛙效应
tashilaotaolule,danshihaoyong,jingjiunaiyong。zhaoshubuhaipalao,zhongyaoshihaoyong。
doushuo,nvhaidichubushangzhengyepeitaxianliaoderen。yinci,zhangqixingduiyigenvhaitaojinhu,yizhishiduoshaoyidingyoushijixiaoguode。
jinjin,zheieryoufangfa。duitahaoguanzhuta,nvhaiquanshilixingde,yishitagangkaishibuneimaduiniyouganjue,yaoshibuxihuanni,jiuhuigangkaishishiduoshaoduiniyixieyikao。
yikaoyidanpeiyang,jiubukehuoquele。
suihou,huila。zheidianershizhongyao。
nineng“xiaotui”gedayuejiri,suihoujiduifangyige“shumiantongzhi”jiujiuxingle,jiaruduifangqianjiuni,jiujiuxingle。zheijiushishuogoujianjiaolvbuanxintaideliucheng。
yinci,zheiyizhaoshudeguanjianguanjiansuozai:
xianzhanxianzishendegaoshiyongjiazhi,duinvxingruoyingruoli,rangnvxingqingbuzijindexianglaitanxunni,zhujiantafanglejinqu。
zenmezhuinvhai?dangnvxingxiangnibiaoshuhaogandudeneishihou,xuyilakaitashuo:womenzhishipengyou。tajiuhuishangnao,nijiushilajinjianju。
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