zenyanghenvhailiaotian?nanrenyunvren,jiurutongtaiyangyuyueliang;nanshengbudongnvrendexin,jiurutongbaitianbudongyedehei!weiheyizhizhuibushangxinaideta?weihetayizhiduiniaidameilide?shijishanga,niyizhiyongbuduifangshi,tarulewuqu。zenmezhuinvhai?zhuinvhaidefangfayounaxie?jinrixiaobianjiudaidajiayiqikankan:ruhezhuinvsheng?zhuinvsheng,dasidoubunengchupengde6dajinqu!
1.妄自菲薄
zhuinvsheng,zuibihuidejiushishuohaimeiyougangkaishitongyixingdong,jiudatuitanggu。zenyanghenvhailiaotian?zishenyigerenhaiyaoneiyy:“nvwanga,zhikeyuanguanerbunengxiewan”、“xiangwoneiyangdediaosi,ruhejianghuizhuihuodeta”……yaolejie,yidanjinineiyangdeniantou,lijizheiyinvhaiduijinihaogandu,tayehuiduinituibisanshe,youyuliangzi:nisong!zenmezhuinvhai?zhuinvhaidefangfayounaxie?
2.不清楚自身要哪些
zhinengzaiyiqishiyixiadejiqing,quemeiyoujiushishuotadexinxin。buqingchuzishendaodiyaonaxie,budongnaojindinuli、nuli、nuli,zuizhongmeiyoudadongdaotaren,zhidadonglezishen;youhuoshizhuidaole,youfajuebingfeizishenxiangyaode,fandaobianchenglenvhaizuizhongde“huaxinnan”。
3.不掌握另一方,就追追追
chucijianmian,jiudunangzheyaozhui,yaoqiudeyuanyinjiushishuo“zhangdehaokan,shencaimiaotiao”de。yaolejie,nizheileiniantou,nvhaideduonaocancaihuiyinergenniyizhizaiyiqi?niwubigaoqingchu,yiseshirenzhe,seshuaieraichi,aichierenjue。zenmezhuinvhai?zhuinvhaidefangfayounaxie?
4.给感情定价
“nvhaishiaiqian,jiarufuyou,yidabayidabanvhaidoushijijilaiyaowo……”xuduonanhaizizaizhuinvshengdeneishihou,doushijiganqingdingjia,juedenvhaishiaiqian。zenyanghenvhailiaotian?shijishang,richangshenghuozhongfuyouerwuai,xiaierwuqiandeshilibujiqishu,dangniyizhihuaizhe“jiganqingdingjia”dexintaizhuinvsheng,neimanizuihouyezongshihuodeyige“huaxuewuzhigaoyuyiqie”denvhai。
5. 发信息开始始终是:在干什么
“zaiganshenme”、“zaiganshenme”,nichukaiyaoshuo“zaiganshenme”haiyaoshuonaxie?bubiyizhimaiyuannvhaibuhuinixinxineirong,meilini。yaolejie,yiqieyigenvhaidouburongyigenyigefaweidenanhaizizaicigoutongjiaoliu。neima,zenyangyunvhaigoutongjiaoliuni?caihuashizaoyixieguoxuduopianliaotiandejiqiaodegaozile,youyaoqiudepenyounenggoulaikankan。
6. 乱服务承诺
zhenduimeiyizhiliderenlaijiang,fuwuchengnuo=sahuang。xiailuanfuwuchengnuoderen,benzhibuzhixinlai,zhuihuodenvhaijiuzhuangguile。huoxuninengbianbowo:“quanbunanhaizailishideneishihou,quanshiqueshiganjuezishenyidingburongyiweifanfuwuchengnuo,erzaihuiyuedeneishihouyequanshiqueshiganjuezishenbunengbaozheng。yincishicizheileiwupinmeifakaoliangzhongzhen,yebunengfenbianduiyucuo,tazhiyouzhengmingcailiao,zaishuochuqudeneiyike,xianghuyiqianzhenxinshiyiguo。”
zhuinvhaidefangfayounaxie?bieshale,zheileihunongrendedianyingtaici,yongxintingjiuhaole!ruhezhuinvsheng?buran,zhihounigenrenjiekuanshi,danenggoushuo:“wojiekuandeneishihou,shizhenxiangzhehaikuande;rujinbuhai,jinjinzishenhaibushang,erwoqueshizhenxinshiyiguo。”yinci,zhuinvshengdoushiyiyangdedadaoli,meifazuodao,jiubuyaozailuanfuwuchengnuo!
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