如何追女生?妹子总是约不出来怎么办?

 xuduonanhaihuidashuo，yuenvhaichuqubidengtiangengnan。nizhixiangyuetachuquchifanliaoliaotian。zhuinvshengjiqiaonaxieshiyong？tazongshizhaodaogezhonggeyangdejujueliyou:"zheixietianwotaimangle，youkongdeshihouwomenzaitanba。"“wozanshiyoushiyaozuo。woguohuierhuilai。”“duibuqi，woyouyigehuiyi，wozhendebunenglikai。xiaciwohuiyaoqingni。”ruhezhuinvsheng？zhuinvhaizidetianyanmiyuyounaxie？

 zhuinvshengjiqiaonaxieshiyong？xiaci。woyixiazibeituihuidaohounian。zicongniyaoqingwoyilai，taxianshilechengyi，mingquelejutishijian。niyizhiqidaizheyiqie。dengdaoxiaciburongyi。niwenta:ruhezhuinvsheng？zhuinvhaizidetianyanmiyuyounaxie？

“womenhaiyouyidunfanchima?”

"wozuijinhenmang，youkongdeshihouwomenlaitantan。"

ranhouxianrushangshuxunhuane，bu!yaomenibunengyuyue，yaomenibeiyiciyouyicidifanglegezi，raodaoerxing。

weilefangzhizheizhongzaogaodeqingkuangzaicifasheng，ninkeyichangshiyixiayaoqingfangfa:

①周一至周四下午，大约同一天。

 zhouwuwanshanghezhouliubeipaichuzaiwaideyuanyinshiweilebimiannvhaiyinweixiangpeinanpengyouerweifanyuehui。duiyudaduoshurenlaishuo，zhouwushijiannandeyizhouzhihouzuiqidaideyitian。yinci，daduoshufufuhuixuanzechuqudachiyidunhuozhezaineitianwanshangwanyizhengye。buguanzenyang，tamenkeyizaidiertianwusuoweijudishuijue。gengbuyongshuozhouliuhezhouri，zheiliangtianhuiyouxiaoguimodelvxing，daizaishineidenvhaikeyizaijiashuijuelaiziyangpifuhuowanyouxi。ruhezhuinvsheng？zhuinvhaizidetianyanmiyuyounaxie？

 yinci，zhouyizhizhousixiawushiyaoqingtongyitiandezuiheshideyitian。raner，nikeyizainvhaixiabanqianyigexiaoshijifagexinxi，wenta:“wanshangyoushenmeanpai?”nixuanzelikaigongzuoyigexiaoshideyuanyinshiyinweinibuhuijuedeyoutaiduodexuqiu。diershibimiannibeifanggezidekenengxing。tajuyouhenqiangdewendingxing。yilianggexiaoshineibianhuazhishubuhuitaida。ruguoyigenvhaibeiyaoqiuzaodianlikai，tajiuhuibeiyaoqiulikai。disan，danshennvhaicishixiabanhuijia，zheiyeshitazijide。zheihaowuyiyi。zhuinvshengjiqiaonaxieshiyong？ruguoyigeyounanpengyoudenvhaiyuanyifuyue，tayekeyiyijiabandemingyihenichuqu。jianeryanzhi，jujuenidejilvhuishaoweidiyidian。

 dangran，dedidianyeyinggaixuanzezainvhaigongzuohuojuzhudedifangfujin，zheiyangnvhaihuigandao:shouxian，nizhenchengdiyaoqingta;qici，nihuibeirenweigengjiaxiaoxin，keyikaolvdaonvhaiwanshangduzihuijiadeanquanyinsu;san、rangnvhaiyouzugoudeanquangan，bijingwanshangdeshijian，zaitashuxihelijiajindedifang(/danwei)，huibizaimoshengdedifangkaicheduodeduo，zaihendachengdushangbimianletadanxinshijiantaiwanmeiyouchehuijiahebuanquandeshiqingfasheng，tafangshou，nidegoutonghuigengshunchang。

②外部吸引力。

 nikeyijizheigenvhaifagexinxi，“wogangzaisanlitunchileyiwanchaojimeiweideniuroumian，niyoushijiankeyichangchang。”rangwomenceshiyixianvshengduinidexingqu，。ruguonvxueshengduinide“e”he“ng”zuochuhuiying，neimenikeyifangqiwenta，yinweitaduiniyidianxingqudoumeiyou。danshiruguotahuidani:“shide，woyexiangchi。nageshangdian?youduohaochi?”

 ruguozheigenvhaijiniyigeruciyouqudedaan，zheiyiweizhetayijingshoudaolenishifangde“youhuo”。nikeyiyongnideshouhejiaogaosutashangdianzhuangxiudeyouduohao，miantiaoyouduohaochi。dangniduinvhaideweikoudadaozuigaodianshi，nikeyishuo，“xiacigenwolai。”cishi，tayijingduizheijianshijiyuhendaxiwang，takendinghuishuo:“hao。”

~如果邀请不成功~

③“你现在在干什么，喝一杯?”

 “woyaohewodepengyouheyibei。nixianglaima?”takenenghuishuo，“nihenidepengyouzaiyiqi，suoyiwobutaishihequ。”zaizheigeshihou，zheibiaomingzheigenvhaixiangqu，zhishiyinweitabuhaoyisiyounidepengyou。zheishi，nikeyicongshanposhangjieyitoulv，genzhetadehuashuo:"nideshejiaonenglihenqiang，renshigengduodepengyouzhenhao。"

 zhuinvshengjiqiaonaxieshiyong？chulerangnvhaiduinizhongkendezanmeigandaomanyizhiwai，“renshigengduodepengyou”zheigeduanyuwulunnifangzainalidouhuirangrenjuedebukeliyu。neime，nvhaihainengjujueshenmeqitayuanyinni?