henduorendoushizaiwenzhuinvhaizideliaotiandehuatiyingdangliaoshenmehao,zhenzhengdeaiqingdajiadouqipande,keshi,xuduonanhaiziconglaimeiyouganshouguoaiqingdeganjue。shenpangxiaidenvhai,yigegedoubianchengtarendenvyou。henvpengyouliaotiandehuatizenmezhao?bushinibuzuchuse,yebushinibuzuduinvhaihao,zhishiniwulunzenyangzuo,tamendouduinimeishenmexingqu。zenmegennvshengliaotian?
wokandaoguoxuduonanhaizi,reqingmanmande,shoubanghua,zaijieshanggaobai,beijujue;duinvhaitiexinzhaoliao,meiyoubucong,quebeifaguofahaorenka;songliwujinvhai,yonghuaxuewuzhiquyue,wukenaihexiulianchengbeiyongtai。zhuduozhuyaobiaoxian,bushinizuodebuzuhao,jinjinzaitaneixinnibushitadecai,douhaimeidadongtaxinlideyaoqiu。ruguonilejienvhaixuyaoshenme,lizhuishangtajiuhenjinle。meiyigenvshengneixindoushizaixiangxiangzishendejianglaiairen,youxiaishenshide,youxiaiyexingdezheixie。wulunshinagezhonglei,ruguonibaozhenglexialiezheisandian,taduinidoumeifadichu。(buyaozhejimanmankan,guanjianzaihoumian)
一、积极领着
henvpengyouliaotiandehuatizenmezhao?nanshengchengdanyangjiahukou,nvxingchengdanmeiruotianxian。wuluncongshehuifazhanshijiao,huoshirenleifazhan,nanshidanfudeyiwuquanshilingzhenvshijiqiquanbudajiazumaixiangxingsheng。yinci,nvhaixinliqipandeairen,quanshiyigekeyilingzhetaderen。tamenyaozuodejinjinrangzishenchongzuhaokanchuse,xiyinzhunanshi,xiamiandejiudoujiaodaonanshile。xiuse、haixiushixuduonanhaizidechangjianwenti,jianyanzhibianshibuzuzixinxin。yincihenvshengzaiyiqiyizhikanqilaihenchuyubeidong,jianghuaweishouweiwei。yikanjiuzuobuleshi,genghekuangrangyigenvshengzhuisuijiqilingzheta。qiadanglingzhetadefangshi:
1、去探险
yuenvhaiwanerjiaoweicijixingdejianshenyundong,birubengjitiao、huabing、lusuzheixie。zaineiyangyixietanxiandezhutihuodongzhong,nvhaitongchangquanshibixunanhaizizhaoliaode,cikebianshifanyingninanshitexingdeqingkuangxiale。dangnvhaidanqieshi,ninengxiezhuta,wojintadeshougaizhengcuowuzishi,jitaxiangyongjili。zaitanxianzhutihuodongzhong,nisuozuodezheizhonggerenxingwei,zainvhailaikanquanshihenyiqiezhengchangde,yekeyizainvhaineixinzaochengyounizaishenbian,yiqiedoubuhaipadexinlizhuangtai。keyishuoyijuliangde,kuaisuzourutadexinli。
2、不在乎,但友善
xuduoqingkuangxiazaiyikaishi,yigenvshengduinideyinxianghenyoukenengbuyidingfeichanghao,jialeshoujiweixinzhihou,xianliaofanyingyejiaoweilengmo。dabufennanhaizipengdaoneiyangdezhuangkuangxinlizhuangtaijiubengkuile,xinxinsunshang,congjinyihoubuhuizaizhaotaxianliao。yeyouderen,huizaixinzhongganjuenvhaihenmiantian,binvhaichuquyouhuihuoshizuochuyixiejiduanhuadegerenxingwei。zheierzhongzhuangkuangdoushihuirangnvhaiganjuenishiyigebuzixinderen,yebuhuizaijijiyuzaicijiaowangle。kandajiadejingyingtuanduineibuxueshengshiruhebajianguoyicidemeizhi,qianghanlingzheyaoqingqudechenggongde。
nvhaibixudeshiyigenengshuodongtaxinlidenansheng,bubiguantafanyingzenyang,zhuyaobiaoxianchubuzaihudanyoushandexinlizhuangtai,yibubuzhengqueyindaolingzhe,zuihoudounengronghuatabingliangdexinli。
3、帮女孩看着办
zhongshinvhaishiyigefeichanghaodepinxing,danbingbudaibiaozheyiqiedouxuyaotingcongta。jiaru,nidianjizherenhedongxidourangnvhainaliuyidehua,tamenbianhuibishini。youyu,nvhaiquanshichuyubeidongde,tamenxuyaoshenme,shikanzheninengjinaxie,erbushirangtamentiaoxuan。nijidetamenxiai,dangranyehuijuedenishidongtamende。changjing1、henvshengyongcan,diancandeqingkuangxia,tongchangxuduonanhaizihuirangnvhaidian。tamenbuwaihudoushihuihuijue,jiaru,niyaoyidingyaorangnvhaidiandehua,zhongjiubuchenggong。womenyaozuodebianshiwennvhaibuyaochinaxie,suihou,yijuniduitadezhangwolaige。changjing2、henvshengguangjiegouwugoumaiyifu,nvhaihuizailiangjianyifukuzizhongjianchiyishinibangnadingzhuyi。henduorenyaoshuowulun,nichuannaxiedoupiaoliang,neiyangdehuiyinghuikanqilaihenpingfan,nvhaiyeganjuenimeirenzhen。zuixian,yaoguanchataduinayijianyifushangxidebijiaoduo,suihou,wulunnizijizenyangjuedede,jiujianjuebangtaxuannayijian,suihoutaorutamen“wojuedewubishizheiyijian,shifenhehunideqichang”,tayaodejinjinyigehaowuyiwen。
二、进挪上升
yijianzhongqing,tongchangshigenjubujingyizhongderentipengchuzhujiande,ranhouganqingdehuahuocaihuijiqingsijian。wulunnixianliaozenyangqili,youhuizenyangxiaosa。jiaru,bukeyilijidejinnuoshangshengguanliandehua,yiduanguanlianbianhuiquxiangpingpingdandan,naizhijindaoyouqingqu,beifahaorenka。lurendaoqinglvyedoushiyishouqianshou、xiangyong、qinwen……chixushengjibicizhijiandeguanlian,caikeyilaoguganqing。jinnuodefangshiyoushenmeni?
1、风范进挪
cileijinnuobudannengshangshengguanlian,hainengfanyingchunishiyigeyouzhelimaoderen,yijianshuangdiaodeduice。henvshengyongcan,zixidiyongweishengzhibangtacaxizuiba;congyingyuanchuqu,wenwandibangtapizhewaiyi;nvhaidezhangtoufabeiyifukuzidangle,bangtabaxiufashunchuquzheixie。jinvhaichuansongchu“wo”shiyigeshenshi,wubineiyangzuo。
2、玩乐进挪
zheizhongjinnuoyijifanvhaidexintaiweizhudao,zaiqingqingsongsongwanshuadequanguochengzhong,huizaochengjiaoqiangdehemugan,chuxuezhebukeyilanyong。ruguonihenvshengzaijieshangwangqianzou,suihounietadelian,yucitongshi,gaozhita:“yo,ruhejuedenidelianduqilaihenxiangyigedonghuarenwu,lairangwokankan。”neiyangdefangfahuikanqilaihendangran,nvhaiyebuhuiyouqitaniantou,juedenijinjinzaiwanlebale。
3、心态进挪
xintaijinnuonenggoubiandadajiashixiadetihui,biruyiqiqukanxunhuiyanchang、yediandayouxi、ktvqichangzheixiehuxiangpeihedeyijianshi,zaixintaireqingshi,buyouzizhudeqianzhutadeshoutiaoqi、haikeyipaizhangsuihouwojin,naizhizailaiyigexiangyong。caozonghaozishendexintai,zhenzhenzhengzhengzhuyaobiaoxianchuxingfen,gaoxingdexinlizhuangtai。nvhaibeinidexintaituidongle,dangranyehuifangkuanxuduo,jinnuohaikeyigengshencengci。zenmegennvshengliaotian?
三、引起共鸣
gongmingdianshitarunvhaixinlingshenchudeyigezhaoshi,jiusuannihenshuai,fuyou,yehendongnvhaidexin。keshi,binichenggongderentaiduole,huoxufashengyigejingzhengzhe,jiuhenfanza。gongmingdianhainengrangnvhaijuededaonideteyouxing,dajiadesanguanleisi,xihaotongyang,qizhixiangfang。neiyangdeliangren,shitarenwufadaitide。jinjinsuodingnvhaidexin,rangbicizhijiangengweishenru。
1、相同点
xiangtongdianzhixuzhaoxun,dounenggouzhaodedao。biru,dajiachiguotongyijiafandiandeyinshidapei、dengguodetongyigeyuanxiao,dujialvyouguodetongyigediqu,quanshinenggoulaizhaoxiangtongdiande,suihoubahuatitaolunyindaoninengbawodexingye。liru,doulaiguodalilvyou,jiukeyishuo:“shifouyoulaiguonajiahenzhimingdeqingnianlvguan?zailoudingnenggoujiandaodalierhai,yeyoutamenjiayouyizhixiaogoushifendetaorenxihuan”neiyangdajiajiuhuiyouhuatitaolunkeliaole,jiaru,tameiyoulaiguo,haikeyibahuatitaoluntuokuandaodujialvyoushang,dajiabianhuizaitongyigepinlvshangzaochenghemudefenwei。
2、童年糗事
zenmegennvshengliaotian?womenzaiershidoushihuiyouhenduodejiongshi,keshi,zheizhongjiongshiburongyidiuren,henvhailiaotianshi,youxiaodeyingyong,fandaohuizaochengyizhonghengaoxiao,henhuailiandejuede。wojingchanghenvshengshuo:neihuizaishangyinianji,yicikougan,chengnianrenzaiyinjiu,wokandaoyiwanjiurenweishishui,yikoujiuzuole,jiudaoduli,caijuedechuqu,yihouquanburendouhezui。zaixushudequanguochengzhong,yaojinkenengdeshengdonghuopo。
3、心态共鸣点
henvpengyouliaotiandehuatizenmezhao?nvhaidexintaihuixuduobian,dangtakaixinhuoshishixiaochendeqingkuangxia,nixuyaozhuyaobiaoxiandebitahaixuyaogengshenru。tahuihenhaoqi,nizhixuduiyutashijipengdaodeshierlaipouxi,yinchulainiyiqianyeyudaoguo。bingjiangchuzishendeniantou,ziran,yaohenvshengdejianjieruchuyizhe,neiyangdajiazhongjianhaihuijixuyouzulan?zheisanzhaochongzushiniheyigenvshengzaochengchongzu“juede”,burongyizailiaochuneiju:“woduinimeiyouganjue”dehuale。
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