重新追求前女友的方法，教你如何一步步挽回前女友的心

 tichufenshou，duilianreneryanshiyigefeichangdadeyanlidaji。henduorenhuizaibujingyijianzhongbazijidezuixihuanjidiushi。jiaruhaiaizhe，jiuqinfenwanliuzheiyiduanqingganba！zenmezhuihuiqiannvyou？zhenduizenyangwanhuiqianren。wanliuyigeshifenguanjiandehexinneirongbianshidajiazhongjianhaicunyouqinggan，yaoxianglingyifangzaicipeizainishenbian，zhongxinzhuiqiuqiannvyoudefangfa，keshifangshiyidanyongcuo，feichangrongyijianglingyifangtuidegengzhangyuan。

 apinggennvpengyouyiqitanlianaisinian，zhengzhongjiantichufenshouguo２ci，shiyouyuapingtongyiguodeshimeiyoubaozheng，dandouzhihoudouxunsufuhexingle。danzhihoujiaowangzhongfajuetanvyouduiapingbuxinrenle，zaidasikaoyanapingkaorule，tanvyoukaobushang。jiuxiaoyuanneidenghoudaxuebiye，nvyouhennianren，erapingtiantianwanyouxi，tamenzhongjianyouyuzheishichangchangzhengzhi，zongsuanyouyitianbaofale，nvyouqueshichengshoubushang，mingquetichuletichufenshou。zaifenshouzhihousangeyue，apingyouqihouhuimoji，xiangwanhuinvyou，zhongxinzhuiqiuqiannvyoudefangfa，danbuzhidaoyingdangzenyangwanhuinvyoudexinni？yucitongshinenggoucanzhaotarendequdechenggongwanliulijing，tuijianwenzhang：lidongchengdewanliuxueleishinenggoubaiduyixia。

一、减少分歧点为大家的关联缓解压力

 zaizheiliduanguanlianzhong，dajiachangchangzhengchaoshiyouyudajiazhongjiandefenqidianleijitaiduole，bukeyibaozhenglijienvhai，yinciyichaozaichao。shucidezhengchao，nvhaijuederichangshenghuomeiyoushenmeqidaile，juederichangshenghuoyounanyoumeinanyouyiyang，xintaibaofaerzaochengtichufenshou。xianpouxidajiazhongjiandefenqidianzainaer，duojianlingyifangkaolv，aitaweitagenggai，caikeyigaijindajiadeguanlian。

二、认可自身的不正确，创建共通性

 “dangnvxingmingquetichutichufenshou，tazaoyiduinideyiqiedoufourenle，fenshouzhihounizaishuoshenmequanshicuode。renketajiangdeyiqie，meiyouliyoudizantonglingyifang，bubiquhaiji，yaoyiweidiyuanyijiujing。neiyangzuozhuyaoshiweilegenghaodijianshaolingyifangdedichudu，jinerjianshaodajiazhongjiandefenqidian，rangniliangchuangjiangongtongxing。nifourenlezishen，tahainengqufourennibu？”

三、学好冷藏，为自己時间更改

 qianbiantijiletaduiniyoufourenxinlizhuangtai，yincizaiyiduanshijianneimeiqujijifashengzailingyifangyanqian，doubujijiqulianluolingyifang，buzhudongtishengfenqi，jiuxiangdangyubadajiadefenqidianlengzangdiao。rutongqingganzixunshiyeyaochangshuo：“lengzangshiercixiyinzhongshifenguanjiandeyihuan，tajubeizaiwanliuzhongjianshaofenqi，jianshaogongzuoyalidegongxiao。”lejiezishendenanti，jiuxuyaoqujiuzheng，yaoburanlingyifangweishenmehuixiangxinnigailele？ernanhaiziyinghaohaodiyunyongzheiduanshijian，kefuquedian，tigaoziji，yigegengchusedenicaikeyigengqiangxiyinzhuta。

四、学好换位思考一下，达到另一方的本质要求。

 zailianaiguanxizhong，liangrendeguanlianshigongpingde。nibudanbufuhetadexinliyaoqiu，jiuxiuguaitabuhuizaiweizheiyiduanguanlianzijintourule。diaojiezishendexinlizhuangtai，biezaiyizishenweiguanlizhongxinle，xuehaohuanweisikaoyixia，chanshengfenqishihaiyaozaiyilingyifangdetihui。zaiyuyanbiaodashangrenrang，richangshenghuoduojiyutashouhou，weiyounizhenzhenzhengzhengdadaotadexinliyaoqiu，tahuizaiciaishangleni。

五、提升本身使用价值，二次吸引她

 fenshouhounibunengyongyigewendingdexinlizhuangtaiqugenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，xujiangdihelingyifangdelianluo，weizijishijianhejiyuqugenggai。zheishihouninenggenjuhulianwangzhanxianercixiyinta，zaiweixinpengyouquanfadajiayiqiantaguodeyitiaojiehuozhedajiachangchanglaiguodecanguan，bingpeihuailiandewenben，jiqilingyifangdezhuiyi。

六、展现你的低需求感，提升使用价值

 ruguofenshouhounichangchangzaihulianwanglifayixiefumianxinxide、biaomingzishenyoushang、shangxindewenben，zheileigerenxingweihuipulunidexuqiugan，lingrenganjuenideshiyongjiazhihendi。youyunibuduanbiaoshuzishenfenshouzhihoushiduomedeyoushang，yanwaizhiyibianshiduitashuoniaibuaita、shebudeta。“shijishangrenxingbenjian，zhenduishunshoukehuodedewupindajiadouburongyiaixi。wanliushiyeshineiyang，ruguonidexuqiuganguogao，lingyifangbianhuijuedenishishunshoukehuodede。”

 dishiyongjiazhidenishibukeyixiyinzhudaotade。neimaxiangfan，ruguofenshouhounishengjidemeiyitianqingkuangquanshikailangde，zhanxiannidedixuqiugan，baocunzishendeshiyongjiazhi，neimatadexinxinbianhuizaoshouyanlidaji，bingzaochengcaiyi：weihefenshoudenimeiyoushang？zaochengtadehaoqixin，zheijiushixiyinzhutaliuyidediyibu。

七、展现你的个人魅力，保存新鲜感

 yiduanshijiandebuzhudonglianluo，rangnichongzudejihuiqutigaoziji，gaibianxianzhuang。bingzaihulianwangzhanxianzhongbiaoluchuzheiyidian，lirutabuxihuanniyushoujiyouxi，niyejiucongcibuwanle，xinjieshidepengyoujucan，zishenxueyingyuxiangpianzheixie……zhanxiannidefengcai，rangtalejienidegenggai，beigenggaihoudenizaicixiyinzhu。yeyaojiaoshitishi，zheishihounixuyaobaocunxinxiangan，rangtajianjiandiwajuenigengqiangdeyimian。jiarunizaihulianwangshangzaoyibazuihaoshideneiyimianzhanxianchulai，meiyouyisixinxiangan，neimapengmianhoutajiuzhiyoutiaocile。

八、语言表达是沟通交流的公路桥梁，再度碰面应当说些哪些？

zuoweinansheng，beilingyifangpaoxiayihouyaoxiangwanliunvpengyou，yingdangshuoxienaxie，zenyangcainengrangtahehaoruchuni？

 “bubiyongyuqianrendezhenshishenfenzhiyilingyifangdexingji，yanjinlingyifangheyixingjiaowang。yebubiqujiuchanbuqinglingyifang，zhiyilingyifang，neiyangtongchanghuizaochenglingyifangduinidedichu。yaoxiangwanliulingyifangdexin，jiuxuyaobaiqiahaozishendexinlizhuangtai，yi“yibanpengyou”dezhenshishenfenhelingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，shuoyixieyibanpengyoushuodehua，neiyangcaikeyijianshaolingyifangdeyufangxinlizhuangtai，youyiyuwanliulingyifangdexin，”

 zenmezhuihuiqiannvyou？zaifenshouhou，qianwanbiehelingyifangshuo“woxiangni”huoshishiqiqiulingyifangpeizainishenbian，keshineiyangdegerenxingweijiuhaosidihuibenshendeshiyongjiazhi。yaoxiangwanhuiganqing，yaozhongzhiyiqiedishiyongjiazhidegerenxingwei，buyaoshuoyixiepuluxuqiugandehua。yucitongshixianglingyifangbiaoshunikeyilejielingyifangdezuofa，pingxinjingqidihelingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，jiyuchongzudeshijianhekongjianranglingyifanglizhi，zhongzhishuoyixiefumianqingxudehuashifangfumianqingxuxintai，neiyanglingyifanggengxiangyaoyuniqugoutongjiaoliu。