追女生的节奏如何把握?怎样追到喜欢的女生？

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1.不必持续提问，愈战愈勇

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2.一冷一热节奏感造成兴趣爱好

zhuinvshengwangwangyao「yireyileng」，daobingbushishuoshihuayaoshilengshire，zhishibukeyiyikaishijiuguoyujiqing。yikaishijiuguoyujiqing，jitadeganjuebianshi，nimaosihennannai，haoxiangbieleershijinian，jiandaoyigenvrenjiujizhuchongshangqudemoyang。zheihuirangtaganjue，shibushinishijishangbiaozhunhencha，buhuishoudaoyixingpengyoureliehuanying，caihuizheimequenvxing。

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3.管理自己的追求完美需求感

guanlizijidexuqiugan，zainimeiyoumingquezishenxiyinzhudaotadeqingkuangxia，jiucaolvdegentashuo“woaini”，haowuyiwenshibazijituidaoshanyapangbian。bierenganjueniwuyuanwugude，bingqiejiusuanshinimenyuanbenyoukenengzaiyiqide，keshizheiyixingweizhinengrangtashizhongduinibierbujian。

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