谈恋爱可以怎么撩男朋友：撩男朋友的套路有哪些

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一、谈恋爱可以怎么撩男朋友：撩男朋友的套路有哪些

1.防止将你的男友的努力视作理所应当

 tanlianaikeyizenmeliaonanpengyou?liaonanpengyoudetaoluyounaxie?jiarudajiayiqizaoyiyouguoduanshijianle，neimadajialiangrengangkaishijuedebierenshilisuoyingdangde。

 tashirenjijiaowangzhongzuichangyongdetiaozhanqiyi，dantawuxusunhuainideguanlian。shizhemeixingqitixianduociyouguanninanyoudeshier。huoxuzheijiushishuotazenyanglejienishenmeshihouxiangchulezaogaodeyitianbingdailainibisaheyingpian。

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2.做一个积极主动的倾听者

 nenggoubijiaorongyidi“diaocheng”huihua，feichangshidangnimeiyouzhenshijindaotamenhuoshinibeizishendewupinzoushen。tachanshengzaisuoyourenshoushang。dongdeliuyishenmeshihouxitongfenqubingxunlian“jijilingting”。nidenanyouhuijuedegengyoushiyongjiazhiherentong，nijianghuizongshixuedemouxienibuzhidaodeshiqing。

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 erbingbushijiadingnitingjianleqiadangdehua，biaoshunisuotingjiandeneirongbingguidinghuiying：“haode，womenyiqikanyixiawoshibushitingcuole。tamenshuotashuo____。shibushi?“suihou，jinidenanyoubiaoshunishibushichucimeiyouhuodenaxie。

 jili。zheishuomingnishaohoutaolunninanyoudejiaofa。wenmouxiexiaonanti，liru“suihoufashengshenmeshi?”huo“nizuoguonaxie?”nihaikeyidoutoubingyingyongzuishaodejilizhe，liru“ngng”huo“e”。

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3.习惯性的联络

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 biru，dangnidenanyoushaohoutaoluntadeyigekechengneirongdenanti，qingshizhemingquetichuyigetanjiuxingnanti，biru“dangnishizhe____huiruhe?”

4.防止责怪别人

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 fanguolai，yingyong“i-”juzi。ninhaikeyimingquetichuguidinghelihefaxinxineirongdenanti。biru：“woliuyidaonibingbushixiangdajiayiqianjuecedeneibanlaijiewode。”zheitingqilaibingyouwenti(ruguonidujuejifeng!)，dantadequezhuandalenidetihuibingjilenidenanyougongxiangtadeshineikongjian。

5.防止讲道

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 dujue“yingdang”。meirenxiaibeigaozhi“niyingdangneiyangzuo”huo“niyingdangneiyangzuo。”tanenggourangtamenjuedeyumeihuoshiwoyiweixiangtongzhigaoqiyang。fanguolai，shizhexiangjin“zenyang___?”huo“niyongguo___?”

6.舍弃恰当

 zheiyihennan。dajiadouqipanzuishaoyoushi“qiadang”dexinyuan。danzaidabufenzhuangkuangxia，dequemeiyouquelide“qiadang”huo“youwu”。bubiyunidenanyoukaizhanhuihua，rutongtashizheichangzuozhan。

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 biru，jiadingnidenanyoulaiyueni，shuonishaozaozaitadepenyouyanqiantahui??nankan。nijianghuiganjuetashichedibuhelide，danshimeizhouyihualairenketadetihui：“wobaoqianjinijuedenankan。” suihouninengbiaoshunideyibian：“yemeiyousixiangyishidaoneihuijiniganga。wokeyijinkenengyibuneiyangzuo。

 dangnicongyigekongqiudediqugangkaishi，neimalingyirenjianghuiburongyitingjianyiqieyiwang。dangnizuixianrenkebierendetihui，suihouzaishidudeneishihoubiaoshu，neimalingyirenhuiganjueheli，erqieta/tagengyoujianghuijienanibingbuyuandezui。

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