想让爱情不枯燥不乏味，自己就要成为情感专家

 aiqingxiangshiyibeikafei，kuzhongdaiyounongxiang。yinkuershengtian，zheizhongtianxuyaowomenquyingzao。huoxuwomenyouxiaochaoxiaonao，huoxuwomendouhuizuocuoyixieshiqing，huoxuwomendouyoubukaixindeshiqing，huoxuwomenganqingyeyouchuxianwentideshihou，doubuxiangyongyouzheixiekusedeweidao，xiangyongyouyigewanmeideaiqing，yinggairuhechengweiaiqingdexintaizhuanjiani？

一、如何成为情感专家

1、因原

 dangaiqingchuxianwentideshihou，shouxianwomenyaocongzijizhaoyuanyin，wulunshiyinheerqi，biranzijiyeyouzuocuodedifang。dangwomenmingbaizheiyidianzhihou，neixinhuidedaoyizhongshiran，yizhongpingjing；daizhezheizhongxinjingquxiubuzijideaiqing，fangcaichengweiqingganzhuanjia。

2、缺点

 meiyigerenhuoduohuoshaodouyouzijidequedian，baokuonidepengyou，qinren，airendouhuicunzaibutongdequedian，kenengyoushitamenzainidexinzhongshiwanren，qishixianshibingfeiruci。dangwomenfaxianairenyouquediandeshihou，womenyaonenggouxiangrong，bunengyongyiyangdeyanguangkandaita，buranwomendeaiqingbudanbunengzhangjiu，erqiehuichuxianhenduoxiangbudaodeganqingwenti。

3、性格

 xinggeyeshiqizhongaiqingchuxianwentideqizhongzhiyi，toujitouyuanguranhenhao，danbicidexinggexiangchataida，jiushiquleaiqingbenyinggaimeihaodedongxi。aiqingdemeihaoshixianghe，erbushifenli。xinggedequfenyeshifenlideyizhongbianxian，ruguomeiyoufenli，yejiubucunzaixinggezhiqufen。suoyijiuchuxiandangganqingchuxianwentideshihou，xuanzebaorongcaishizhengquedefangshi。

二、想感情不枯燥首先要懂约会技巧

1、一周见面不要超过两次

 zuikaishideyigeyue，takenengxiangtiantiandejianni，ruguonimeicidoudaying，zuihoutahuibiandefuzaobuaneryinu，ranhoujiubuzaidadianhuaguolai。touyigeyuemeizhoujianyicimian，diergeyuemeizhoukepengmianer、sanci，disangeyuekeyizengjiadaosan、sici。yizhidaonimendinghun！yidingyaorangnanrenganjuedaotamenxiangtiantianjianni，bixuquni。nixuyaojiashangtaainideluoyin，nanrendoushixiabanshensikaodedongwu，aideganjuexuyaoyidiandiandejiaqiang，rangtakeyitongguoxinhedanaodourenkedaotashiainide！

2、不要急着发生关系及其他行为

 ruguonihaiweifashengguoguanxi，qingnaixindengdailianggeyueyishang（zhishao），ruguoniyijingfashengguo，qingzhishaoyeyaodengyilianggeyue。ruguonihenfanduihunqianxingxingwei，naixindegaosuta，dengdaohunhou，danshihunqianjianchahepingshiaimeishihouyeyaozhuyitashifougongnengzhengchang，shide，nikenenghuishuowodoumeiyoujingyanruhepanduan，qingdaliangyueduxiangguandeshujihezixunqingganzhuanjia。qiejimeicidaishanganquantao，baohuhaoziji，buyaobeita『zheiyicikebukeyibudai』suomihuo。

3、让他主导

 rangtaxianshuo『woaini』『woxiangnile』『wohefumutidaohenduonideshiqing，tamenhenxiangjianni』。tayinggaixiangbenfankaideshu，ernigaishigemi。buyaogaosuta：xujiuyilai，tashidiyigerangnigandaorucixihuandenanren，huozheniyiweizijizaiyebuhuitanlianaile。wozaikaitoushuoguo，aizheigeshiqing，yidingyaorangnanrenxianshang！nixuyaozuodeshifuzhutashang！『 woshuodeshiaishangdeshang，buyaowuhui』。

三、约会专家必学语句

ruguotasheshiweishenjiudaitakanjinrenshifuhua，ruguotalijincangsangjiudaitazuoxuanzhuanmuma

rangnikudaosixinliefeineigeren，shinizuiaideneigeren；rangnixiaodaomeixinmeifeineigeren，shizuiainideneigeren。

yuqinguzongshiqingganbishaji，yiyouweijincaishizuigaojingjie。

 dangyigenanrenainideshihou，nilianquediandouyuzhongbutong，dangyigenanrenbuzaiainideshihou，nilianyoudiandoupingyongsuqi。nidehaoyuhuaiquanyanglaiyutashiaizhehuozheaiguo。

 aiqingshishechipin，yeshixianliangban，womenxinliyizhidouzaixunzhaoneiduyiwuerdeneigeren，danxianshizhongyudaodehenduodoushiliezhipinfangmaopin，youxiedongxicuoguolejiuyibeizicuoguole，shouzhuzijiyigebubiandechengnuo，queshoubuzhuyikeshanbiandexin，youshihouzhizheshiyizhongfudan，fangqicaishiyizhongjietuo，renmeiyouwanmei，xingfumeiyouyibaifen，nizaidengdaiyigerendetongshi，lingyigerenyezaixiayizhandengzheni，renshengruxi，ruoyouxinren，chuchujingxi。

bazheixiedouzuohaonibidingshiyuehuizhuanjia！