挽回婚姻该怎么教育他们

　　wanhuihunyingaizenmejiaoyutamenzaiaiqingdeshijieli，meiyouyifanfengshunlvcheng。youshi，dajiahuiyinyixiewujie、zhengzhihuozheshijianchongxi，erfajuedangchuneigehewomenjinjinxiangyideren，haoxiangzhengyuelaiyueyuan。dangaixiaochuanzhujianhuangdong，dangtadeneixinhaoxiangyijingbuzaizhiruchujianshineiyangreqing，nishibushijuedezheji、wunai，naizhixiangfangqi?danbiehuang，zuoweizimeitipingtaiqinggandashi，wojintianjiuyaodainiyiqitanxunneishenmi“wanliumiji”，liyong5geshicaoliucheng，shitahehaoruchu，rangganqingzaicizhanfangguangmang!

　　diyibu：lixingfenxi，jujiaowentisuoshu

　　1. buyaozuochongdong“aiqingshagua”

　　fenkaihuolengzhanhou，haoduorendediyifanyingshibulizhizuoshi，yaobufengkuangdadianhua、faxinxihongzha，yaobuzaishejiaopingtaishangxuanxieqingxu。danjizhu，zheizhongxingweitongchangzhihuirangtalizijigengzhangyuan。nixuyaozuodeshi，xianshenxiqi，jizijiyidianshijianpingjingxialai，ranglixinghuidao。

　　2. huishuowangri，tanxun“liefeng”

　　zuoxia，nazhangbaizhi，liejudajiaguanlianzhongcunzaidewenti。shigoutongbudaowei?huoshishenghuofangshibufuhe?huozhewaibuyalida?zhaodaoneiyigerangganqingxiaofanchuanloushui“liefeng”，cainengshibangongbei。

　　3. ziwofansi，biezongguailingyifang

　　aiqingshilianggerendeshi，wentibingbuyidingshidanfangmian。tanrandiwenziji，nimenyoumeiyouzuodebugouhaodequyu?shifouyoushitairenxing，huoshihushiletadeganshou?ziwofansi，shichengzhangdediyibu，doushiwanliudezhongyao。

　　qishixiangzhuishangyigenvsheng，zhiyaohuixianliao，jiuhuiyoubachengjiyuzhuishangta。youyuchuduixiang，benzhijiushiyige“tan”zi，henvshengtanshenghuo，jiaoxin、tanweilai，zhixunigentatouyuan，caiyoufazhandekongjian。jiarunibianshizuibaben，xianliaogangtiezhinan，neijiulaiweixingongzhonghao--"beigongyuzenixiji"，gongxiangniyifen，dingjiandeliaotiansiweidaotu，shinibawoliaotianguanjianqiaomen，heshiyaofengqudian，heshiyaogaoqingshangdeliaotian，yucitongshirangniyitaodingjianxiaoshouhuashu，shinijiejuebutongdechangjingdeduihua，doukeyidexinyingshou，henjiandanjiunengjiangnvhailiaonadaoshou。

　　dierbu：shidanglengzhan，jiduifangshineikongjian

　　1. “lengzhan”bingbushisheqi，fanershiduice

　　tingshangqukenenghuiyoudianfanzhijue，danshiyoushihou，shidudelengzhanfandaoshiwanliudehaobanfa。jitayidianshijianyukongjian，shitanenggouqusisuo，qutiyanmeiyouniderizi。yucitongshi，yejiushinitishengzijiheanpaixiayibuxingdongdebaoguideshijian。

　　2. yunyongduanlianqi，tigaoziji

　　buyaorangduanlianqibianwei“xiaochenqi”。zheiyiduanshijian，ninengyundongjianshen、xuexijineng、fazhanxingquaihao，huoshizhishijiandandixiangyouyigerendeshiguang。ruguoniyigenghaodezhuangtaichuxiandeshihou，dangrannengxiyintadezhuyi。

　　3. shidu“xianshen”，rangtakandaonizhuanbian

　　lengzhanyiduanshijianhou，xuanzeyigeheshidejihui，yiquanxindemianmaochuxianzailetadeshixianli。nengshiwuyideqiaoyu，haikeyishitongguoshejiaomeitizhanshinidemeihaoshenghuo。rangtaganshoudao，womenbujinbingmeiyouyinweifenkaierlunluo，fanerbiandegengjiamirenyuzixin。

　　disanbu：youxiaodegoutong，goujianneixingongluqiaoliang

　　1. tiaoxuanzhengquedejihuihefangfa

　　wanhuihunyingaizenmejiaoyutamenhezuoshiwanliudezhongyao，danjihuihefangfayiyangzhongyao。biezaibukaixindeshihouqiangzhidakaihuihua，yebuyaozaigonggongchangsuohuozheliyongwenzibiaoshutaifuzadeqinggan。zhaoyigeqingjing、sirenziranhuanjing，lingjuli，huozheliyongyigewennuandeshouji，zhujiannidegoutongjiaoliu。

　　2. lingtingbishuogengweizhongyao

　　zaigoutongdeshihou，jilaoyaoduotingshaoshuo。jitajihuibiaoshutadexiangfaheganshou，bubiqieduan，buyaojizhebianbo。zhenzhengyiyishangdelingting，shilijiedeqiantitiaojian，doushilajinguanxidezhongyaoqianti。

　　3. yong“wo”yuyanbiaoda，biaodanideganshou

　　dangnixuyaobiaodazijideguandianhuoganshoushi，zuihaoshiyong“wo”yuyanbiaoda，liru“worenwei”、“xiwang.”。zheiyangjikeyifangzhipipinghejingong，hainengrangtaleyujieshouhelijieniguandian。