情感导师支招：降低pu挽回男友的方法

　　laogongbujieyiwochugui，zheishiyigelingrenchijingdexiaogushi。zaizheigegushizhong，wochuguile，danshirangrenxiangbudaodeshi，wodezhangfujuranbujieyi。zheiyinqilehenduorendehaoqixin，lingrenmenduiyuganqingheguanxidegainianxingchenglehuaiyi。dajiakaishisikao：wanmeideaiqingshifounengrenshoufancuowu？dajiashifougaishenzhongkaolvduizhongchengduhexinlaidedingyi？zheigegushijielulehenduoguanyurenxingyuqingganjiuchanbuqingdenandianwenti，budeburangrensikaohejiantao。

　　**yuzhongbutongdeguanxi：dapochuantongjiexian**

　　意料之外的接受

　　laogongbujieyiwochugui，youyigelingrenchijingdexiaogushi，tadapoyuzhongshihewaiyuxiangguandejiusixiang。zaizheigegushizhong，yigerenyoulewaiyu，danchuhuyiliaoshizhi，taairenjuranjieshouzheigexianshi。zheiyinqiwozhenduidangdaiguanxizhuangtaiheguanniandesikao。

　　彻底改变的感情

　　zheigegushiyinqilehenduoguanyuhunyinchedigaibiandetantao。renmenchangchangbeichuandizhejinyouzhongchengkekaocaikeyidajianlaogudeguanxi。danshijishang，zheigegushitixingdajia，ganqingyingdangshiyizhongnengshiyingbuyiyangbiandongdenengliang。yexujiusixiangdekeshoubingbuyidingshiguanxideweiyigenji。

　　结构浅薄的忠实

　　zheigegushizhenduizhongshidegainiantichutiaozhan。renmenchangchangxianyujuedezhongshizhishidaibiaozheduilingyibandehexinzhuanxinzhizhi，erhushileqitayixiefangmiangailv。huoxu，zaizheigegushizhong，airenzhongjianyouzheyizhongchaoyuechuantongzhongshidemorenyulijie。zhongshibingbushishiyigesibandedingyi，fanershibansuizhegetiguanniandechabieerzhujianzhonggou。

　　个体理想与整体利益

　　zheigegushiyinqilezhenduigetilixiangyuzhengtiliyizhongjianguanxidesikao。yexu，zaizheiyangyigeguanxizhong，liangrenzhaodaoyizhongjunheng，rangshuangfangyouquanyukongjianquxunzhaoqitaleixingchuanqizhifuchengxu。zheibujinjinshiduigetisuixinsuoyuderentong，gengshiduixianghuzhijianshijianlizaigengbaorongdejichushangdeguanxideshijiantansuo。

　　重新思考社会规范

　　zheigegushirangrenjinbuzhusikaoshehuiguifandezhengquexing。shenghuozheyigeyichuantongjiazhiguanweigenjideshehuili，zhenduiguanxihezhongshidoushiyoushedingdefangshi。danshi，zheigegushigaojiewomen，meiyigerenguanxiquanshiduteergetibiande，meifajiandanyongshehuiguifanlaijiagou。

　　敢于追寻真实而随心所欲的关系

　　zuihou，zheigegushihuyurenmenyonggandequmianduineixindeyuwangyuzhuiqiu。tagaojiewomen，guanxibuyinggaibeisibandejiedingsuofu，eryinggaijiyugetizhuixunzhenzhenghesuixinsuoyudeshineikongjian。dajiayingtongguochengxingoutongyubicizhijiandelejiequxunzhaochushihezishenguanxidefangshi。

　　laogongbujieyiwochugui，zaizheiyangyigebutongxunchangdegushili，womenkeyikandaoleyizhongxindeguanxidongtaixingdegailv，tatupolejiuyoudeyishi，bingqieyeweiwomendailailesikaohesikaodehaojihui。zheigegushigaojiewomen，ganqingheguanxishigetidetiaoxuan，yingdangpingzhezhenzhengyulijiequyingzao，erfeiduibierendeqiwanghuoshehuiguifanjiandandishuncong。