花镇 冷爱,女性应如何调适婚前恐惧心理?

 huazhen lengaixuduonvshidouchongjingyichangreqingdelianqing，danqueduihunyinshenghuotianmanzaodongbuanhehaipa。neimanvshiyingruhequdiaojiejiehunqianxinlikongjuni?zhengyouyutaiguolejiehexiguanzheizhongganjue，yinci caihuiganjueyouhuangruowu。

1、在婚姻生活中迷失自己

 huoxujiehunhoujuedaduoshushijiandouyongyuduguoerrenshijie，richangshenghuozhishengyugongzuozhongyujiating，weilegenghaodiyunyingjiazhongerzhujiansangshizishendebenrenrichangshenghuonaizhigerenaihaoyugexinghua，bianchengweizhutayuzaotaizhuandenvxing。

 zhengquerenshi：hunyinshenghuoshiyigeerrenxianghupeidazuchenglaiyunyingdegongzuozhong，buguannayifangdoushihuizaizheiqizhongweilingyifangzuochugenggaihebaocunshizhi，zaichixumoheqiherongruzhong，errenzuihoubianchengxiangzhixiangxidezuiheshiliangrenzucheng。chukaijiazhonghegongzuozhong，nvxingyebukeyiwangjizijidehaoguimi，buguanjiemenyouxiyulehuanshixunqiubangzhudayijiehuo，haoguimidouhuirangnizuiwennuankaopudeshiyong。

2、我并不期待将来变为那对夫妇一样

 huoxukongxuelaifeng，kenengzaixianshishenghuozhongnizhoubianjiuhuiyouyiduijiniduihunyinshenghuoqineideyingshengshengdeshili，huazhen lengaijiazhongzhongchangchangsanfachuzhanshixiaoyanmimannaizhishijiatinglengbaoli，huoshiyifangchuguiwaiyu……buyouzizhulingrenjianglaidehunhoushenghuozaochengcaiyidanyou。

 zhengquerenshi：gengshizheizhongshijizhongdehuowushilinenggoubianchengwomendehunyinrichangshenghuojiaocaineirong，duizaiqizhongbaokuodenantiyiciweijie，jinerzaizishendehunyinshenghuozhongfangzhichanshengyiyangdebuzhengque。xianrenyiluzoulai，dajiazaijixiebiaowuchanenggouraokaishikuaiheshenkeng，gengkuaijiujingdaodazhan。

3、最终发觉是两个世界的人

 lianaiyumiyueqizhongdeqinmiwujiandagaizaihunyinshenghuosannianhouquxiangpingpingdandan，zaiqinianhouxiaohaodaijin。jiazhongdeguanjianhuolizhujianqianyidaoxiayidaidefuyangnantishang，fuqizhijiandehuayanqiaoyuyuqinmiwujiangerenxingweibiewuerzhi，naizhierrendezijuexingyulaiyuqiang，yulaiyubuyongyikaolingyifang。

 zhengquerenshi：jiehunhouwendingxingzhongdefufudedanduminshixingweinengliqueshigengqiang，zaibuyonglingyifangdezhuangkuangxiayekeyibaochiyouliangderichangshenghuoyunxing。kebingbuyiweizhefufulianggerenjianjuyuezouyueyuannaizhibushuyuyigeshijie，fanguolai，xianghuzaiganqingshangdeyikaoyulaiyuqiang。zhengyouyutaiguolejiehexiguanzheizhongganjue，yinci caihuiganjueyouhuangruowu。

4、假如得病，他可否守留并照料。

 shengsilunhuishirenmenshengxifanyandeziranfaze，sheidouzhengbutuo。yidanzaiqizhongyifangxianrubingzheng，youqishinvshishenxianbingzhenghou，lingyibankefounengzunshouchengnuoyiwufangudedanfuqizhaoliaonvshideyiwuerbuduobi、budanqie，tashixuduonvxingshifendanyoudeyidian。