有没有人在花镇咨询,论夫妻的相处之道

zuoweifufu，zuijichudeyinggaishipenyou，bingqieyingshizuihaodepengyouhuozhiji，youmeiyourenzaihuazhenzixunchufeishidajiajinjinchunshenglixueshijiyiyishangdefanyanhoudaixingfufu，buranliantongxueguanxidoudabushangruhezuofufu，jibian couheganlefufuyejiangmeifazhangjiu。

1、两人最先得是投缘的盆友

zuoweifufu，zuijichudeyinggaishipenyou，bingqieyingshizuihaodepengyouhuozhiji，chufeishidajiajinjinchunshenglixueshijiyiyishangdefanyanhoudaixingfufu，buranliantongxueguanxidoudabushangruhezuofufu，jibian couheganlefufuyejiangmeifazhangjiu。

2、最少有基本相同的人生观价值观

renyiqunfen，penyoujiandouyingdangzairenshengjiazhiguanquanqiuheshiyongjiazhishangmianyoujibenyizhidelejie，zuishaonengxianghumorenshezhilingyifangderenshengguanjiazhiguan，buranruhezuopenyou?penyouhaishizheiban，fufuyaozhangqixingrichangshenghuozaiyiqi，zirangengdeyouxianghuderenshengguanjiazhiguan。fufuzhuiqiuwanmeiderenshengdaoluherenshengmubiaobuyizhi，duishiqingdeguandiancunyoubijiaoyanzhongdemaodun，hunyinshenghuoruhekaizhanxialai?

3、相互要能保证充足掌握信任感

zhangwolingyifangshiyurenxiangchudeqiantitiaojian，eryaoxiangganfufu，zhangwoziranshizuiweijichuyaobaozhengde。duilingyifangbulejie，lingyifangdejiatingqingkuang、shouwenhuajiaoyuzhuangkuang、xingqingxingzi、gexinghuatexing、shenghuofangshizheixie，zheizhongdouyingdangchongzuzhangwo，zuishaodeyoujichudezhangwo。zhangwoziranhaiyuanbuzu，zaizhangwoyihou，jiaruninengjieshounisuozhangwodezheizhongwupin，niyaodechongzudexinrenganlingyifang，meiyouxinrenganjiumeiyouxiangchu，fufutebieshizaizheiban。

4、有分歧矛盾时两个人非常容易沟通交流

renherenzhijianziranzaisuonanmianchuxianyixienantihefenqi，fufuziranyeyiyang，bingqieyouyumeitianzaiyiqi，chanshengmocamaodundegailvhaigenggao。youfenqibukongbu，kongbudeshixianghumeifagoutongjiaoliuerrangfenqifazhanqushiehuadaoyifabukeshoushidechengdu，yinci zuofufudeyigeguanjianqiejichudeyaosubianshizuoshixianghufeichangrongyijiunenggoutongjiaoliu。

5、相互有基础的放弃“吃大亏”精神实质

fuqijianshiyizhongquanliheyiwuderonghe，danhuodedewupinyunitourudewupinbingbuhuizongchengzhanbi，gengbutaikenengchediduideng。fufuyifangyizhihuitouruduoyixie，erlingyifanghuishaodian，zuoweifufuziranbukeyixiaodujichang，yaoyouwusifengxianxishengjingshen。youmeiyourenzaihuazhenzixunhunyinshenghuozhongmeiyousheiqiansheide，doumeiyougaodiguijianzhifen，ganyuanfangqitouruyeshizuofufujichudeyaosuzhiyi。

6、能保证对相互的宽宏大量

meigerendoufancuowu，doushihuiyouquexian，yinweifuqijianshijinjudechupeng，jiugengnengfajuelingyifangdebuzhengquehequexian，yinerzuoweifufugengxuyouyikekuanhongdaliangdexin，nengqiadanghekeguandiduidailingyifangdeshenshangdequexianhefanxiadebuzhengque，jibutiaomaobing，doubuhaowuyuanzedifangren。baorongxiaodehebuxiangganjindequexianhebuzhengque，xiezhulingyifangjiuzhengdadebuzhengquehequexian，fufuyaoyiqifazhan。

7、兴趣乐趣要能基础投缘

rengeyouzhi，danzuoweifufudebici，zeyingzaixingqucengmianweichijichudeyizhi，zaixingquaihao、xingqu、lequcengmiannengjibenxiangtongdeguandianjianjie，weizheibancaikeyibudiaoyizhierburongyiyuelaiyueyuannaizhilixinlide。xingqujichutouyuancaikeyizaiyiqizhangqixingrichangshenghuo，xinhuaiguitaidefufubutaikenengxingfukuaile。

8、能经受考验，相互适用

 hunyinshenghuoyoubieyutanlianaideguanjianyidianbianshi，hunyinshenghuodeyingduidaliangderichangshenghuogongzuoyalihenanti，hunyinshenghuoyegengfansuonaizhikuzao，yincipengdaodejiannanhenandianyeduohenduo。bulunshilaopohailaogong，bulunshirichangshenghuohuanshigongzuoshang，doushihuipengdaobunengyugudeyixienandian，zheibingbukongbu，guanjianshiyaonenghuodelingyifangdejiandingbuyishiyong。jiaruyipengdaonantijiudanqie，zheilianpenyoudoubibushang，zhihoudehunhoushenghuojiangmeifakaizhanxialai。

9、能接纳相互的家中家人

xuduonianqingdeqinglvtongchangfeichangrongyihulvezheiyidian，juedehunyinshenghuoshiliangrendesishi，keyibukaolvdaobiede，zheiziranshiyizhongtianqueshilangmanpai。hunyinshenghuoshi2genianqingrendeshi，yeshibicibabamamahe2gejiazhongdeshi，fufuchukaixianghudeenai，haiwubiyaonengjieshoulingyifangdejiazhong，tangruoniyagennanyirenshoulingyifangbabamamajiazhongdeyixiezuowei，ertamenyoumeifabaozhengjuebugujidajiadeshi，neimanijianglaidehunhoushenghuokenengdebuchangshi。

10、有基础的化学物质经济发展做基本