越独立越难脱单？教你如何平衡独立和依赖

　　fenshoukeyifuhema，zairenyurendeganqingzhong，fenshounenggoufuhe，zheishiyigejingchangrangrenzhemiwenti。youderenyinweiyixieyuanyinxuanlefenshou，danshishijiandeliutonghebicijiandexiangnian，youshiyounengrangtamenzhongxinzhaodaobicizhijiandeganqingqiaoliang。danshi，fenshoudefuhebingfeiyifanfengshun。taxuyaoshuangfangdezhenchengyunulilaizhongxinchuangjianxinren，bingchulizaochengfenshouwenti。yucitongshi，fuhezhihoudeguanxiyexuyaoshuangfanggongtongfendou，baochilianxiyulijie，caikenengbaochichijiudexingfukuaile。yinci，fenshounenggoufuhe，danqizhongchengbaiyufou，zaiyubicidejuexinheqinfen。

　　分手可以复合吗

　　fenshoushiyiduanganqingdejieshu，erfuhejiuyiweizheranqicengjingxiangaihuo。tadaibiaolelianggerenyongqihejuexin，quzhongxinxiubuposundeguanxi。danshi，fenshoudefuhejuefeiyishi，taxuyaoshuangfangdezhenchengxianghuhezuo、goutongyuziwofansi。suiranyoudianfenshoukeyichenggongfuhe，bingbushisuoyoudexiaogushidoushiyouneiyangyuanmandejieju。

　　燃起期待

　　再次找回失去的感情

　　fenshouchanshengdeshangtongheyalishiwufahushide。danmouxieqingkuangxia，suizheshijiantuiyiheneixinshenchudelizhi，yifanghuoshuangfanghenyoukenengkaishihuainianqiyiqiandemeihaohuiyi。tamenyexukaishikaolvnengfouzaicizhaohuishiqudeganqing，zaicizhanzaiyiqimianduiweilaidekaoyan。

　　自我反思与成长

　　复合所需要的彼此之间的积极变化

　　fuhebingbuzhishijiandandehuidaocongqian，taxuyaoshuangfangzaifenshouhuanjiezhongjidianjiaoxunyuchengzhang。zhuyaobaokuoziwofansi，yishidaolezishenwenti，bingjijicaiqucuoshilaidiaojie。bicibixuchengweigenghaodebanbenhao，caikeyizaifuhehoudajiangengjiawenguhejiankangdeguanxi。

　　交流和让步

　　创建有效的沟通和解决矛盾的能力

　　yiduanguanximeifawendingdiweichi，ruguolianggerenmeifashulilianghaodegoutongdefangshihejiejuemaodundenengli。zaifuhedeguochengdangzhong，bicibixutanchengdibiaodazijiyaoqiuhedanxin，qingtingbicizhijian，bingxunzhaobicidounengjieshouderangbujihuafangan。weiyouruci，caikeyichuangjianyigejiankang、xiangduiwendingdeguanxi。

　　信任复建

　　复合的前提是信任的改造

　　fenshouyebansuizhegulvheduoyi，zaochenglexinrendeliekai。zaikunnanmianqianfuhe，bicibixugongtongfendouqufujianxinren。zheiyexuxuyaoshijianhexixin，danshizhiyougenjubicizhijiandechengxinyuxingwei，jiunenghuifuxinrendeqianti，rangguanxizaicipingwen。

　　将来的考量

　　再次面对今后的考验

　　fuhebingbushizhongdian，fanershicongtoukaishi。bicibixuyitongsikaoyutantaotamenduiweilaideqiwangyumubiao。tamenbixumingquebicizhijianchengnuoyuzeren，dangmianduipingjingwentishigongtongqianxing。jinyoutongguojijidexiezuohexianghufuchi，tamencaikeyizaiweilaizhilushangjinxingzhenzhengdekuaile。

　　fenshoukeyifuhema，fenshoubushijieju，erruguolianggerenzhongxindexiwangfuhe，neitayebingbushinanyishixian。danfuhexuyaoshuangfangdenulihewusifengxian，bixugoutongjiaoliu、chengzhangyuxinrendegaizao。meiyigerenhemeiyiduanganqingdoushiduyiwuerde，jieguokenengxiyoucanban。guanjianzaiyu，zhiyouzaishuangfangnenggouweifuhefuzhunulishi，caikenengfujianxingfukuailedeguanxi。