情感咨询：如何有效优雅地拒绝男人的性要求？

　　zaifenshouhouzaiqunanpengyoujia，zhujiaomianlinyiduanheisedidaidetiaoxuan。cicibaifanggudi，zaiyebushiqinglv，fanershihaopengyou，huoshigengjiashenrudeluren。tamenjiandeganqingyijingjinglileliefenghetongku，danshi，yirancunzaiyifenbaoguiermohubuqingdelianluocunyou。zouruneishanlejiefangmen，yueguoneiyitiaojingmideguodao，tadaizhewufayanyuqingxu，anyelixunzhaojiushidewennuanyupeihemoqi。cicidianhuahuifangjiangtansuotamenlishidecanpianyuyihanyinhen，yucitongshiyezhanshileduirenxingderouruanhefanza。zaineiduanbuwanmeideguanxili，tamenruhejienazijideguoquyuweilai，shifouhainengzhaodaoyizhongxindejunheng，rangtamenbicidechuxianbianchengyichanggengububiandehuihua。

　　提示再度拜访

　　fenshouhouzaiqunanpengyoujia，tamencengjingshibicizhijiandeqinren，zaifenshouhou，shenghuodangzhongqueshiganzhujianchihuanmimankailai。mouyitian，tashoudaoleyifengyaoqingxin，qingtazhongfancongqiandenanyoujia。

　　身后的探索

　　tashenxianleyichangneixinshenchudezhengtuo。fenshouhouzaiduqunanpengyoujia，shifouhuigouqicongqiandetongkuyubeishang？neiyigecongqiandewennuanyutianmei，shibushiyijingbeishijianchongdan，yexugengshibeizaluandexintaicanpiantidai？tadexinlimeifaqingjing，tasisuocicibaifangshibushichanshenglejieda，huoshizhinengguaqigengduodelangchao。

　　一往无前的确定

　　danshi，fanzheneixinshenchudezhengtuo，tahaishixuanzeletaruyiwangzhunrumenjian。zheibuzhishiyicizhongyoujiudi，ergengjiashizhimianziji、guoquyuweilaideyizhongdanliang。taxiwangzaisuiyuedebianqianzhongzhaodaoneiyifenbaoguidelianluo。taxiangxin，buguanfenkairuhejieshu，yiqiangongxiangdezheixiekuaileshiguangrengmingkezaijiyili。

　　偶遇过去与现在

　　dangtazourunanyoudejiamenshi，ganshoufuxianzaiyanqian。zheiyiershunengxiangdeshineikongjiansanfachuyiqiangongchudeqichang。jiudezhaopianhezhuangshiwuchanshizhewangridediandiandidi，rangqixiangdaoliangrencengyiqijingliguodeshiqingmeiyigeshunjian。huiyizaimouzilishanchu，jianjiandihualechenmojianju。

　　彻底改变关联

　　tamenxiangjianshi，zaiyebushiqinglv，fanershihaopengyou。jinguanzheigexindejiaosebingbushitamenqidaide，danshitamenxiwangnengzaizheiyizhuangkuangxiazaicibaochilianluo。takaishiqingtuzhegezixiankuangyuchengzhang，fenxiangzheshenghuozhongdexinsuankula，huxiangpeibanzhetaguogezizhihouderizi。

　　心绪纷飞的年少时光

　　wuluntamenzenyangjinlidefujianyouqing，huiyiyizhibuqieryu。tamenhuiyiqizheixiejiyoutongyouyouledeyishunjian，fenxiangzhebicizhijiandetiyanhexinxu。youshihou，huiyishiduomemeihao，rangtamenjinbuzhuxiaochushenglai；youshihou，huiyishineimedetongchu，rangtamenmangranruoshi。danhuiyijiushitamengongtongyongyoucaifu，shilianggerenchenfengdeqingxubaozang。

　　一种全新的均衡

　　manmandi，tamenxuehuilezaifenshouhouchuangjianyizhongquanxindejunheng。tamenxuehuilezaixiangchuguochengzhongzunzhongduifangdebianjiehetihui，jiyuzugoudeshijianyukongjian。jibianhuanjushiyexuchongmanzhenairenxunweidenankan，dantamenyeyonggandequmiandui，fanershirenzhenxunzhaogoutongqiaoliang。zheiyiduanxindeganqing，yechenglelianggerentuibiandeyibufen。

　　亘古不变的会话

　　fenshouhouzaiqunanpengyoujia，zaifenshouhouzaicizoujinnanpengyoujia，tazaiyebushizhuixunqinglvzhenshishenfenta，ershiyigeyongyumianduiguoquyuweilaita。zheizaiyebushiyiduanganqingdewanbi，ershiyichanghuiyideyanshen。buguanweilaihuizenmeyang，huiwangdeshihoutamingzhongshengganxie，youyuzheixiejinglibianchengletafazhanlvtuzhongdeyibufen。fenshouhoudebaifangrangtamenchengweileyichanggengububiandehuihua，yonggandequmianduizhexinlidehuiyihegantan。