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1. 陷入追忆,无法割舍
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2. 情感依靠,无法独立
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4. 未了的情感,无法了结
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5. 失去的东西信任和未知的未来,无法接受
fenshouyiweizhewomenshiqulelingyifang,shiqulecongqiandeairenyupengyou。ciwai,dajiayeshiquleduibiciderentongheyikao。zaixiayiduanganqingzhong,henduorendouhuiduiweizhideweilaihaipakongjuyubuan,buganmianduixindelianaiguanlian。neixierenmenzaiduqinshenjinglifenlihesunhai,danxinzaicimianduishiqudetongku。zheizhongjiaolvhechiyirangwomenwufaxuehuifangxia,yenanyimaijinxinderenshengjieduan。
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