恋爱宝典：避免太早发生关系被短择

　　zaixiandaishehui，suiranhunqiantongjuchengweilechangjiandexianxiang，danshi，rengranyouyibufennvhaizaijinglihunqiantongjufenshouhou，yaomianlinshenshendihouhui。tamenkaishizhiyizuochudexuanze，houhuibuyi。hunqiantongjujinguanweirenmentigonglegengshenrulejieduifangjiyu，dandanyeyunzangzhegezhonggeyangbukekongyinsu。zheizhongjinglijitaqiaoxiangjingzhong，shitamenyishidaohunqiantongjufenshoubujinyiweizheaiqingdeliekai，gengshixinlingdeyicizhongcuo。duiyuzheileinvhaieryan，beiwenji“hunqiantongjufenshounvhaihouhuima？”kenengyinfashenshendisikaoyutongkudezhuiyi。

　　hunqiantongjuzaizheigeshidaikaishibiandexiyiweichang，tongjushenghuonenggourangliangrengenghaodilejiebici，genghaodirongrujiehunhoudeshenghuo。danshi，renshengdaolutongchangchongmanzhebianhua，jishishitongguohunqiantongju，youshitongyangyehuizaoyufenshoudexiachang。zhenduihunqiantongjufenshoudenvhaieryan，tamenhuibuhuihouhuini？

　　迷途的初衷

　　hunqiantongjufenshounvhaihouhuima，hunqiantongjumianbulehuirangrenmenxinlizizhanglangmanqidai，xiwangyongzaiyiqishenghuolaijinmihunyinguanxi。danshi，dangzheiduanganqingmaixiangliekaishi，nvhaimenkenengjuedeweibeilezuikaishidechuzhong。zheileimitudeganjuelekenenghuishitamenzaochenghouhui，juedezijimeiyouhaohaodezhenxizhuzheifenganqing，bingmeiyoushouweizhuzuichudemeihao。

　　投入被忽略

　　hunqiantongjuwangwanghuirangbicizhijiangenghaodelejielingyifang，goujianqishencengcidechuanqizhifuchengxu。danshi，danghunyinpolieshi，nvhaikenengjuedenidefuchubeihulve。tamenkenengyiqianfuchuhenduo，weilenengzheiduanganqingxuanzefangqixuduo，yiranzaifenshoushidebudaoyingyoudeshouyi。zheileiwuxingzhizhongzaochengdeshanghaikenenghuizhishitamenhouhuitiaoxuanhunqiantongju。

　　自我价值的减少

　　hunqiantongjudefenshoukenengduinvhaidezizunxindaozhijudadedaji。tamenkenengzhujianxiaojibeiguan，ganjuezishenjiazhibeijianshaole。zheileixiaojibeiguandeniantouhenrongyizaochenghouhuiqingxuzaocheng，duizijideguoqutiaoxuanchanshengzhiyi。tamenkenenghuishuozishen，weihezijinengtiaoxuanhunqiantongju，weihezijimeigenghaodibaohuhaoziji。

　　无处安放的追忆

　　fenshouzhihoudenvhaimenyoukenengbeiwushuzhuiyisuoyingxiang。meiyicitaguoyiqianyiqizouguodediqu，jiandaoyiqianyiqikuailedetupian，douhuishitamenshenxianwujinxinxuzhong。zheizhongzhuiyiwuchuzhifang，bianchengtamenxinzhongdetongku。suoyidangzhuiyichongyinaohaizhongshi，tamenyexuhuigengweihouhuitiaoxuanhunqiantongju，ganjuezijiwufataotuoguoqudeyinying。

　　成长和启发

　　danshi，hunqiantongjufenshouzhihoudehouhuihuoxubingbushiyongjiuxingcunyou。suizheshijiantuiyi，nvhaimenkenengyijingcongtongchuzhongzouchu，kaishifansiyuchengzhang。zheizhongjinglinengrangtamengenghaodelejiezishen，mingquezijiqiwanghedaodedixian，jinerzaijiexialaideganqinglizuochugengweizhengquedexuanze。fenshoudekuchunenggouchengweitamendeqifa，bangzhutamengenghaodimianduiweilaideganqing。

　　hunqiantongjufenshounvhaihouhuima，hunqiantongjufenshounvhaihuibuhuihouhui？daanjiushigetihuade，meiyigenvhaidoushibutongdexinqinghexingwei。youyixienvhaiyoukenengzaikunanzhongzhangqipanghuang，yizhihouhuizuochudexuanze，erlingyixienvhaizenengzaichengzhangguochengzhongxunzhaorenxinghejiandingbuyi。buguanhouhuishifou，guanjiandeshiconglichengzhongxiqujiaoxun，weizijideweilaihuodegengduochengzhangyuconghui。hunqiantongjufenshoudezaoyunenggouchengweinvhaimenshengminglideyigezhongyaodedazhuanzhe，bangzhutamengenghaodizouruweilaidexingfu。