如何避免过度依赖自己的伴侣？

　　hunwaiqingjingchangchaojiafenshouhuizenmeyang，hunwaiqingchangchangchaojiafenshounengjidajiadehunyinguanxidailainanyiguliangyingxiangbuliangyingxiang。zheileihunwaiqingdezhengzhiwangwangshimaodunehuahewufadiaohededaodejieguo，fuqizhijianderentonghegoutongjiaoliuyezhubuliekai。fenshoubianchengzaisuonanmiantiaoxuan，fuqiganqingmaixiangliekai。hunwaiqingduihaizichengzhangjiaoyuyedailaibuliangyingxiang，jiatingfenweibuwenduihaizidexinlijiankangchanshengbuliyingxiang。chucizhiwai，hunwaiqingfenshouyehuiyinqifalvfengxian、jinqianwentiherenjiguanxinanti，jishuangfangdailaigengduotongkuyukunhuo。yiner，hunwaiqingchangchangchaojiafenshouwubijinshenduidai，jinkuaichulimaodun，yiweichijiatingdehexiehechixufazhan。

　　1. 婚外情带来的矛盾恶化

　　hunwaiqingjingchangchaojiafenshouhuizenmeyang，hunwaiqingshifuqiganqingzhongdeyizhongpanbiangerenxingwei，tajingchanghuiyinqijiliedezhengchaohemaodun。yifangjuededuifangyouhunwaiqinghou，shoudaojidadexinliyinying，aiqingzaoshouyanzhongsunhai。tamenhuiduibicidechuguixingweigandaofennuheyihan，jinerdaozhishuangfangdemaodunchixuehua，chaojiabianchengjiachangfan。

　　2. 信赖裂开和交流障碍

　　hunwaiqingchangchangchaojiafenshouyehuidaozhifuqizhijiandexinrenganwanquanliekai。shoushangyifangyijinghennanxiangxinduifangdeyanyuyuxingwei，zhiyihecaiyibianchengrichangshenghuodeyibufen。chucizhiwai，yinweizhangqidezhengchaohelengbaoli，hunwaiqingyeshideshuangfangzhijiandejiaoliuzhangairiquyanzhong，bunengyouxiaodibiaodazijixuqiuyuqingxu，jinyibujiajulewentiebian。

　　3. 分手变成在所难免挑选

　　hunwaiqingdezhengchaohemaodunwangwangshifuqiganqingmeifajianchixiaqu，fenshoubianchengzaisuonanmiantiaoxuan。dangbicimeifazaihunyinshenghuozhongzhaodaoxingfuheyuyueganshi，takenenghuiquedingwanbiguanlian，congtoukaishirenshengdaolu。zheigexuanzejinguantongchu，danweilebaohuzijidezunyanxinlingjiankang，fenshouyoukenengshibaituodeweiyitujing。

　　4. 对孩子的成长

　　hunwaiqingchangchangchaojiafenshouduihaizidechengzhangdaozhizhangqixingdefumianyingxiang。jiatingfenweibuwendinghefumuzhijiandezhengzhihuiduihaizidailaijidaxinliyali，takenenghuigandaowuli、kongjuhegudan。tamenyehenkenengxiaofangbabamamadexingweimoshi，duihunyinheaiqingbiaoshihuaiyi，yingxiangdaoletamenweilairenjijiaowangguanxichixufazhan。

　　5. 法律法规、经济与社会难题

　　hunwaiqingchangchangchaojiafenshouhaihuichanshengyixiliefalvfagui、jingjiyushehuinanti。lihundechengxukenengshejidaolihuncaichanfenge、haizifuyangquanhetanwangquandengfalvfengxian，duibicizaizhengzhishanghaihuidailaiyidingchongji。ciwai，liyihaikenenghuizaochengjiatingyushehuideguanzhutaolun，jishuangfangdailaifujiadeyalihekunhuo。

　　hunwaiqingjingchangchaojiafenshouhuizenmeyang，zaihunwaiqingchangchangchaojiafenshoudeqingxingxia，bicixuyaojinzaomianduikunnan，wanchengyouxiaogoutonghehunyinxiufu。xunqiuzhuanyehunyinfudaoshixiezhu，xuexipeixunjiejuemaodunjiqiao，fujianfuqizhijianderentonghehunyinguanxishizhongyaodeyibu。danshi，jiarugezhonggeyangqinfendouwufagaibianzhuangkuang，baohuhaozijishenxinjiankanghezhuixunxingfubianchengweiwufataobidetiaoxuan。