花镇情感咨询师浅谈女性独立的误区

　　hunwaiqingrenbukenfenshouzenmeban，yingduiyiduanbukenfenshoudehunwaiqing，dajiaruheyingduini？zaizheiyangdejiongjingxia，womenyinggaishenshizijideneixinxuqiuyujiazhiguan，bingzhudongrenjigoutong。 xuyaojiejuezheiyiwenti，shouxianjiandingzijiguandian，qingchudigaozhihunwaiqingrendajiabuyuanyizaijianchixiaqu。yucitongshi，womenyinggailingtinglingyifangdeqingxu，bingshizhelejietadeguandian。xunqiujishuzhuanyexiezhuyeshiyigezhengquedexuanze，zixunxinlixuezhuanjiahuotanxunhunyinshenghuoguwendetiyi。zuizhuyaodeshi，jianchibuxiechengxin、yonggandemianduishiji，buguanjieguoruhe，dajiadouyaoxuehuifangxiayiwang，tanxunzhenzhengdekuaile。

　　应对困惑：婚外情人不肯完毕

　　hunwaiqingrenbukenfenshouzenmeban，hunwaiqingdechuxianjingchangbansuifuzadeqingganenyuanhebeishangdezhengtuo。danshi，zaiwomenjiandingbuyidequedingwanbizheiyiduanhunwaiqingshi，quejuededuifangbuyuanyifangkaishou，zheishiwomenruheyingduini？

　　维持心里的执着

　　yingduibukenfenshoudehunwaiqingren，shouxianyaoweichixinlidezhizhe。mingquegaosuzishen，zheiduanganqingzaoyiweifanlebiaozhunhesixiang，buyiyuzishenhejiatingdefazhanqushi。keshouchuxin，buhuiyinbierendezunaoeryaobaibuding。

　　坦诚交流与聆听

　　yuhunwaiqingrenkaizhanzhenzhidegoutongjiaoliushishifenzhongyaode。yinweijiugedechuxian，xintaikenengxingfen，danshiwomenyaobaochilixinghelixing。tanchengdibiaodazijiguandianhetihui，bingzhunbeihaolingtingduifangxiangfaheqingganxuqiu。lijiehezunzhongduifangdetiyan，youliyuchuangjiangengjiajiankanggoutongjiaoliuhejiejuefangan。

　　设置确立的边界

　　weilenengjiejuezheiyijiongjing，chuangjianquelidebianjieshifeichangbiyaode。mingquegaosuhunwaiqingrenwomendejueding，erqiejianjuedeshixingzheigexuanze。zhidinghelidejihua，birujianshaobubiyaodejiechuhexiangchu，shandiaolianxidianhua，bingnulibuhuizaihuifuduifanglianxi。tongguojijizhixingzheixiejucuo，jiduifangchuandidajiawanbihunwaiqingjuexin。

　　寻求技术专业协助

　　zaiduidaizheizhongfanzaqinggankunhuoshi，xunqiujishuzhuanyexiezhushizhengquedexuanze。xinlixuezhuanjia、hunyinshenghuozixunguwenhuohunyinshenghuojiatingzhiliaoshijubeijingyanyuzhuanyejineng，keyijiwomentigongshidangdetiyiheyindao。tamenkeyibangzhuwomengenghaodilejieheyingduiqinggankunrao，xunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa。

　　探寻全新的幸福

　　wanbihunwaiqingbingbudengyuxingfudeshenghuojieshu。fanguolai，zheishiyigejinxingquanxinshenghuodehaojihui。yidingyaoxuehuishifangchulaiyiwangdeyali，tanxungongzuo、gerenaihao、pengyouhejiarendezhichiheshouhou。tongguojijidetishengzijihexunzhaozijideaiqing，womennengzaicigoujianqishuyuzijidexingfu。

　　hunwaiqingrenbukenfenshouzenmeban，zaiduidaihunwaiqinglidefenshoukunhuoshi，womenyinggaijiandingbuyi、zhenxinshiyi、queliyuyouxinxin。yuhunwaiqingrenkaizhanyouxiaodegoutong，kaishequelidebianjie，bingxunqiujishuzhuanyeshiyong，zheidoushichaozhechuliwentihezhongjianxingfudeshenghuomairudeguanjianbuzhou。jilao，yingyongjieshouxianshi，wangjiguoqu，dajiacainengzuodaozhenzhengmaijinmeihaomingtian。