女生应该主动和男生约会吗

 zaichuantongdelianaiguanniandangzhong，nannvxiangai，nanfanghuishibijiaozhudongdeyifang。dansuizheshehuidefazhanheguanniandegengxin，xianzaihenduodenvshengyeyuelaiyuezhudongle，woyouyigeshuaiqidedidi，zongshihuiyudaobutongnvshengdeyaoyue，qingtachifan、pashan、kandianyingshade，tayitiankeyifujiciyue，jibenshanglianchifandeqiandoukeyishengxiale。qishiyouhenduorenhuijuede，nvshengzhudonghenanshengyuehuishiyizhongbujinchidexingwei，yinweicongliangxingguanxilaishuo，nvshengshibijiaoruode，xuyaoshoubaohubingjieshoukuizengdeyifang，nvshengzhudongyuenanshenghuishiquzuoweinvxingdejinchi，shenzhizaiyixierenkanlai，huicunzai“daotie”deyiwei，danhuazhenqingganxiaobianrenwei，suoweide“daotie”he“jinchi”，douzhishilaojiuguoshideguannianqiangjiazainvxingshenshangdexingweizhunzeeryi，xinshidaidenvxingmeiyoubiyaobeizheixielaojiudeguanniansuoshufu，jiranyudaolezijixihuandenanren，erqietahaishidanshendehua，jiuyinggaifangxiasuoweidejinchi，dadandiyaoqingtabingnulidizhuiqiuta，danzaizhudongzhuiqiudeguochengzhongyeyinggaiyaozhuyiyixiadewenti。

一、决不可无节制的付出

 zhudongshihaoshiqing，danzheilishuode“zhudong”bingbudengyuwuzhijingdefuchu，renheshiqingdouyaoyouyige“du”。youxienanshenghuipingzhenvshengxihuanzijijiuxiangzheigenvshengtichuhenduowujiezhideyaoqiu，ernvshengyehuiyinweixihuannanshengerdayingtadesuoyouqingqiu，zheiwuyishiyizhongbingtaijixingdezhuiqiuyubeizhuiqiudeguanxi。nvshengzaizhudongzhuiqiunanshengdeshihouyinggaiyouyigedixian，juebuke“guitian”shidigongzhezheigenansheng。

二、约会的次数不能过于频繁

 youshihou，niguoyupinfandefachuyuehuideyaoqinghuidaraodaozheigenanshengdeshenghuo。dangzheigenanrenduinimeishenmeganjuedeshihou，tashenzhihuiduinidexingweigandaoyanfan，zheiyangzuodezuizhongjieguozhihuirangzheigenanshengliniyuelaiyueyuan，yinciniduixihuandenanshengfachuyaoyuedecishuhaishiyaokongzhizaiyidingfanweinei，shitaduinidetaidugaibianhuodiaozhengzijidezhuiqiujihua，buyiyikaishijiufachumengliedejingong。

 nvshengzhudonghenanshengyuehuishiyizhongjiaoweixinxiandelianaifangshi，guanjianhaishizaiyuxintai，buyaobeisuoweide“daotie”he“jinchi”zuainizhuiqiuxingfudebufa，gengyaopaokaishisudeyanguang，cainengzhaodaozijiheshidelingyiban。