夫妻相处：五个行为决定你的婚姻能走多远

　　gennanpengyoufenshouzenmeshuo，zaimianduiyunanpengyoufenshouzheiyikunjingshi，renmenchangchangweizenyangjinxingyouxiaogoutongerfachou。zaizheiyangyigejianshuzhong，womenjiangyaotantaoruhehelidiyongyanyubiaodawomendequeding。bulunshizhenchengyingduiqinmibanlv，haishixuanqudaifangfa，womenjiangyaogongxiangyixiejiandandefangfa，bangzhuzijiyizunzhongyulijiedefangshihenanyoufenshou，bingshizheigetongkudeguochengbiandegengrongyijiejue。

　　告之男友分手的思路

　　跟男朋友分手怎么说，

bansuizheaiqingdebianqian，womenyoushiwufahuibiyunanpengyoufenshouzheiyibeishangdequeding。keshi，zenyanghelidibiaoshuzheiyiqueding，bingweichibicizhijiandezunzhongyulijie，jiushiwomenbixuzixikaolvheshijian。xiamianjianggenjuyixiajifangmian，taolunjileicelvelaigaozhinanyoufenshou，bangzhuzijigengqiangduguozheiyijiongjing。

　　1. 真挚的沟通交流

dangmianduifenshoushi，zuizhuyaodeshibaochiyizhongchengkendetaiduhekaifangshidejiaoliufangshi。xuanzeyigeshidushijianhedidian，yongxindihenanyoutanchengdijiaotan。jinliangshiyonggongjixingyuyanbiaodahuoguoyulijidebiaoshu，yifangsunhaibicizhijiandeqinggan。guanjianshiyi“wo”lichangbiaodanideganshouhequeding，bingbatayuanyintiaoliqingxidichuandijinanyou，zheiyangkeyibangzhulingyifanggenghaodilejienidezuofa。

　　2. 理解对方的感受

fenshoubujinjinshiniyigerendejuece，yeduinanyouchanshengyidingdeyingxiang。zaigaozhinanyoufenshoushi，yaolijieduifangdeganshouheqinggan。jiyuduifangbiaoshuganshoudehaojihui，lingtingtadexiangfa。bubiduiyutadeganshouhefanyingzuochuguodufourenhuodihui，ershiyongrenzhihejieshoudexintailaikandai。zheiyouliyuweihubaoyangshuangfangzhijiandezunzhongyuyouhaowanglai。

　　3. 寻找辅助和适用

yingduifenshouzheizhongzhongyaodejueding，dajiatongchangxuyaoxunzhaoyixiefuzhuheshiyong。zheinengshishenpangqinpenghaoyoudelijiejili，haikeyishizhuanyerenshidezhichihetiyi。jiaotanxinlizixunshihuoqingganzixunguwennenggouweinintigongqinggandalizhichihejutizhidao，bangzhuzijigenghaodiyingduifenshoudekaoyan。yutamenyiqizhidingyingduicuoshi，bingqiezaifenshouhoujiyuqingganshiyong，zheihuiduinidexinqingheshenxinjiankangyouweizhongyao。

　　4. 留意防范意识

zaifenshouhuanjiezhong，yaozhuyizijideganshouyijixuyao，quebaozijideqingxuganqingheshenxinjiankang。buyaohushiziyideganshou，ganshoudaoxintaidexiangfashi，nengtongguoshenxiqi、mingxiangxunlianhuojinxingyixiefangsonghuodonglaishifangyali。chucizhiwai，baochilianghaodeshenghuoxiguan，ruhelideshanshi、chongzushuimianheshidangdeyundong，youliyutigaozijidexinlikangyanengli。

　　5. 接纳情感的分阶段

fenshoushiyiduanbeihuafenweishiqideqingganquanguocheng。duinieryanhenanyoueryan，fenshoujinjinyigexindekaishi。jienaqinggandefenjieduan，buyaoguofenkuijiuhuochenzuiyuguoqudehuiyizhong。xiangxinshijianhuizhujianzhiyuchuangkou，weidajiameiyigerendailaixindejiyuyuxingfu。

　　结语

　　跟男朋友分手怎么说，

gaozhinanyoufenshoushiyixiangjiannandemeirirenwu，danshitongguozhenzhidegoutongjiaoliu、lijieduifangdeganshou、xunzhaofuzhuheshiyong、liuyifangfanyishijiqijienaqinggandefenjieduan，womennenggenghaodiyingduizheiyikaoyan。buguanfenshoushiyinweishenme，weichizunzhongyulijie，xiwangdajiadounengzaifenshouhouxunzhaoshuyuzijidexingfu。