身边有两个男生 我该如何选择恋爱对象

　　gennanpengyouchaojiafenshouruherangtahouhui，zaiwomengennanpengyouchaojiafenshoushi，neixinchongmanwujindebeishangheshiwang。danshi，dajiabingbuyidingbeigezhongqingxusuofu。fanguolai，womenkeyiyongjijizhudongxingdonghezhuangtailairangtahouhui。zuixian，bixupingjingxialai，jishuangfangyixieshijianyukongjianlailengjingfenxi。suihou，genjupeiyangzixindulixingxiang，zhanxianchuzishenjiazhiyumeili。yucitongshi，jijizhudonggenggaiyixiezishendewenti，zhanxianchujinbuyuchengzhang。zuizhuyaodeshi，yaobaochilianxiyulijiedexintai，jijidichuliwentihexunzhaoyitongjiejuefangan。genjuzheixienuli，womenkeyirangtahouhuicongqiandequeding，bingshenzhongkaolvliangrendeguanxi。

　　保持冷静心态，保持理性

　　gennanpengyouchaojiafenshouruherangtahouhui，zaiwomengennanpengyouchaojiafenshoushi，xintaijingchangchuzaijuewangdeqingkuang。danshi，yaorangtahouhui，bingfeigenjuqingxuhuagerenxingweilaidadao。fanguolai，womenyaojiejinquanlibaochilengjingzijidexinqing，baochilixing。jishuangfangyixieshijianyukongjianlailengjingfenxi，yimianzuochuchongdongqueding，yenengbangzhuwomengenghaodiyingduishitaifazhan。

　　改变自我形象，展现价值和魅力

　　fenshouhou，womenkeyigenjugaibianziwoxingxianglairangtahouhui。bingbujinjinshiwaizaipinpaixingxiangshangdebianhua，gengweiguanjiandeshineixinshenchudegenggai。womenyinggaitigaozijidexinxin，suzaodanduxingxiang，zhanxianchuzishenjiazhiyumeili。neiyang，womennenggouzaitaxinliliuxiashenkeyinxiang，rangtahouhuifenshoudejuece。

　　积极主动改变现状，呈现进步与成长

　　ruguowomenxiangrangnanyouhouhuifenshou，neijiuxuyaojijizhudonggaibianxianzhuang，zhanxianchujinbuyuchengzhang。womenkeyifanshengzijizaiganqingzhongdebugou，bingjijidikaizhantishengziji。zhuyaobaokuoxuexijineng、kuozhangerenxingquaihao、yangchenglianghaodebanshinenglideng。genjuzheixienuli，womenkeyizhanxianchuziyidejinbuyuchengzhang，rangtayishidaolesangshiwomenshiyigecuowudejueding。

　　维持有效的沟通与理解

　　zaizhongxinqudelianxideguochengdangzhong，youxiaodegoutongyulijieshihenzhongyaode。womenyinggaiweichibaorongdexintai，jijidilingtinglingyifangdejianyiyuxuqiu，tanxunyitongjiejuefangan。yucitongshi，yexuyaobiaodaguandianhetihui，nengrangduifanggengjialejiedezhenshixiangfa。genjuweichiyouxiaodegoutongyulijie，womenkeyitigaoxianghuzhijiandezhangwoherenke，jinyiburangtahouhuicongqiandequeding。

　　呈现幸福与快乐的人生态度

　　zuizhuyaodeshi，womenyinggaizhanxianchuxingfuyukuailederenshengtaidu。jibianjingliguofenshoudeshangtong，womenyeyinggaijijidizhuiqiuzijidexingfuyuzaojiu。womenkeyizhuanzhuzijishiye、xueyehegerenchengzhang，yuhaoyouyiqiduguoyukuaideshiguang，jinkenengdexiangshourensheng。genjuzhanxianchuxingfuyukuailederenshengtaidu，womenkeyirangtakandaozaitadelikaizhihouyiranguodehenhao，jinerrangtahouhuidangchudexuanze。

　　gennanpengyouchaojiafenshouruherangtahouhui，zaifenshouhou，rangnanyouhouhuijuefeiyishi，danwomenkeyigenjubaochilengjingxintai，gaibianziwoxingxiang，jijizhudonggaibianxianzhuang，weichiyouxiaodegoutongyulijie，jiqichengxianxingfuyukuailederenshengtaidu，weizaiciyingdetadeneixinsaoqingzhangai。zuizhuyaodeshi，yaojideguanzhuzijideaiqingyuchengzhang，zhiyaowomenfeichangzhideyougenghaodeganqingherenshengdaolu。