有男生喜欢我 离婚后我该跟他在一起吗

　　gentongshifenshoulezenmechulizheiguanxi，zaiwomenyutongshijiandeguanxizouxiangfenshou，dajiaxuyaomianduideshizenyangtuoshanchuzhizheiyiqingkuang，yijianshaobubiyaodegangahemaodun。zheiguanxibixuwomencaiquzouxiangchengshulixingdetaidu，shouxianbaochilengjingyuzunzhong，bubibicizhijianfadonggongjihuochize，ershiyinggaishizheheduifangzuoxiahaohaoditanyitan，bicizhijianlingtingduifangxiangfahejianyi，bingqieyebiaodaguandian，yixunqiudegongshihejiejuewentidefangshi。ciwai，shidangjianjushifeichangbiyaode，fangzhipinfandichupengheduihua，yijianxiaomocaliheganga。zuizhuyaodeshi，weichiyuzhiyechengkendetaidu，jianggerenganqinghegongzuofenli，yiweichilianghaodegongzuohuanjinghetongshiguanxi。

　　同时面对分手与工作的考验

　　gentongshifenshoulezenmechulizheiguanxi，zaigongzuohuanjingzhong，yutongshijiandeguanxiduigerendeziwofazhanhegongzuoxiaolvdouyouzhezhongyaodeyingxiang。danshi，youshiyouyuzhongzhongyuanyin，womenyexuwufahuibiyutongshijiandefenshou。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，jiejuehaozheiyiguanxixiandegewaizhongyao。xiamianjiangcongjigefangmiantantaoruhezaifenshouhoutuoshanchuzhiyutongshideguanxi。

　　保持冷静与尊重

　　fenshoubingbudengyuwomenyinggaiqingchuquanbudeqingxuheguanxi。meigerenyoumeigerendegexingyuyishi，yincimaodunmianbulecunyou。danshi，zaihetongshifenshouyihou，dajiayingjinliangbaochilengjingyuzunzhong，bimianjiangxintaidaidaobangongchangsuo。zhongshibingzhangwobicizhijiandeguandianshigoujianhemuguanxidediyibu。

　　沟通解决矛盾

　　yigejiankangdegoutongdefangshishijiaqiangyutongshifenshouhouguanxipingwendeguanjiansuozai。womenyaoganyumianduiyutongshizhijiandefenqi，bingzhudongchuliwenti。genjutanchengdigoutongyulingtinglingyifangdejianyiheyijian，womenkeyixunzhaochuliwentidezuijiatujing。yucitongshi，jinliangjianshaoyichizehuogongjibierendexingshijinxinggoutongjiaoliu，ershiyongquanjuxingyuhezuodexintai，yitongxunqiujiejuefangan。

　　适当拉开距离

　　zaihetongshizhongjianfenshouhou，shidudibaochiyidingdejulishiyoubangzhude。pinfandichupengheduihuakenengyinfagangahemaodun。yiner，zaigongzuoshangwomenkeyitongguodiaojieshikebiaohuofenpeirenwulaijianshaoyufenshoutongshijiechu。danshi，bingbuyiweizheyaochediraokaibicizhijian，ershishidangdeshihouyizhibaochizhezhengchanggongzuoguanxihelimaoxingdexiangchu。jinyouzaibiyaodeqingxingxia，caiheduifangxianghujiaoliuyiwanchenggongzuo。

　　维持与职业诚恳的态度

　　bulunshifoujingliguofenshou，womendouyaobaochiyuzhiyechengkendetaidu。zaihetongshifenshouhou，zheiyidianzhiguanzhongyao。womenyaojianggerenganqinghegongzuofenlichulai，bingzhuanzhuyugongzuozhongrenwudewancheng。yucitongshi，zaihefenshoutongshidejiaoliuzhong，weichizhenzhihechengxin，zunzhongduifangdeyewunenglihechengjiu，xianghuzhijianzhichiguli。neiyangjikeyigoujianhexiedegongzuofenwei，yekeyiweichilianghaodetongshiguanxi。

　　依靠第三方的协助

　　youshi，chulihetongshidefenshouguanxikenenghuibiandebijiaofuzahetiaozhan。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，womenkeyikaolvdaoyikaodisanfangdexiezhu，birurenshibumenhuozhegongsidezixunguwen。zheizhongzhuanyerenyuannenggoutigongkeguantiyiheyindao，bangwomennenggougenghaodijiejuefenshoushiyutongshideguanxi，yicujinyouliangdegongzuofenwei。

　　结束语

　　gentongshifenshoulezenmechulizheiguanxi，yutongshijiandefenshouguanxijiejuejixuyaodajiabaochilengjingyuzunzhong，haixuyaotongguogoutongjiejuemaodun，shidanglakaijuli，weichiyuzhiyechengkendetaidu，jiqiyikaodisanfangdexiezhuquchulifuzaqingkuang。suiranfenshoushiyizhongjiannandeqinshenjingli，danshitongguoqiadangdechulifangfa，womenkeyituidongyigerendechengzhang，bingqieyeweihulianghaodetongshiguanxihegongzuohuanjing。