danglianggerendeaiqingxianrumaodunhemaodunshi,youxierenxuanlefenshou,eryouxierenzehuixunqiuwaibudexiezhuyuquanhe。fenshouzhaorenquanhe,daibiaozheshiquleyiqian,xiangyaoxunzhaohehaodekenengxing。zheizhongzuofachuandichuqidaiyujianchi,suiranyijingchuxianjiedihechongtu,dantamenyiranyuanyiqingting、xunqiulijie,bingshizhexiufulianggerendeguanxi。zheiyiguochenghenyoukenengfeichangkunnan,danshiyeshijiyubicizhijianzaicizhongfengdehaojihui,weifujianmeihaodeweilaipupingledaolu。
寻求协商,在分手边缘
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zaiaiqingdebianyuanshitanshi,dabufenrendouhuiyishidaolefenshoubingbushiweiyidetiaoxuan。tamengaoqingchu,jishixianjieduandejushikanqilaiwufamibu,danbingbushitiebanyikuai,haikenengzhongguiyuhao。yinci,tamennulixunzhaoneiyigenenglijielianggerendemaodun、zhengqueyindaoshuangfanggoutongderen,qidaitongguozheizhongquanhelairanqitanlianaidehuomiao。
倾吐困扰,寻求共鸣点与理解
dangrenmenzaiaidemiwuzhizhongmimangshi,fenshoubingbushuyuduice。zheixietiaoxuanxunqiuquanhederen,yishidaolechenmowuyanheshuyuanzhihuijiashenxianghujiandejianju,erxunqiuxiezhuzenengweitamenchanshengzaicipeiyangganqingdehaojihui。
zaixunqiuwaibudebangzhushi,renmenbazishenxinjiehekunraoqingtujilingtingzhe。zheishihoudelingtingzhebushijiandandejuwairen,ershineixiemingzhi、titiederenyuan,tamennenggoushenyoutihui,jiyubicigongminghelijie。zheizhonggongminghelijiekeyifuweibiciqingxu,weilianggerenzaiciqudelianxijianliqizixinxinyuxiwang。
教育引导,创建有效的沟通
quanhebingbushijiandandibalianggerenningzaiyiqi,ershiyongjiaoyuyindao,rangtamennenggoucongzhengchaohemaodunlizouchulai,chuangjianyizhongxinde、gengjiajiankangdejiaoliufangshi。
zheizhongyinlingzheyibanbianyizhonglidezishifasheng,bupianxiangrenheyifang,ershiyonggongzhenghekeguanxintai,jutizhidaobicizenyangzhengquebiaodazijideganshouyuxuqiu。genjuyouxiaogoutong,lianggerenkeyigenghaodelijielingyifang,xiaohuaxishoumaodun,xunzhaoyitongjiejuefangan。rutonghuabanxuyaoyangguangheshuifenyiyang,aiqingyeyaogoutongyulijie,erxunqiuquanhejiuyincitigongleyigejijijiankangdefangshi。
重炼感情,平复伤疤
genjuxunqiuquanhe,fenshoudeyinmaibuhuizaizhezhubicizhijiandeshuangyan,ershitongguotamenzhongxinsikaohezhonglianlianggerendeaiqing。
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zuihou,yixunqiuquanheweitupokou,tajiangfajue,fenshoubingfeijieshu,ershiyigecongtoukaishidekaiduan。tamenyiqijinglilefengchuiyuda,gengweizhenxiduifang,yegengdongdezenyangjingyingaiqing。zhongliandeganqing,pingfulecongqiandeshangba,weilianggerengongtongdexingfuyumeihaomingtiandiandinglelianghaodejichu。
结束语
fenshouzhaorenquanhe,fenshoubingbushizhongdian,ershizhijiexunqiuquanhedelingyizhongkeneng。zaiaiqingxianruweijishi,tiaoxuanlingting、lijiehejiaoliu,nengweilianggerenchanshengzaicixiangyudehaojihui。quanhejuefeiyishi,danshineixieyongyutansuoderenqun,tongchangshouhuodeshigengjiajianguhewengudeganqing。zhixubicizhijianxinhuaixiwanghezhencheng,ranqiaidehuoyan,zhonglianaiqingdejinxiujiuyidinghuizhankai。
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