男朋友跟家人在催婚 可我不想结婚怎么办

　　fenshouyihounanshengshuoxiangnile，zaiaiqingdebodongzhong，fenshouhuoxushiyitiaobunengtaobidelumian。danshi，youshidangnanshengchuaiceqilibiehoudeyiqie，xinlideqingganqueqiaoqiaodeshanguo。jiuxiangyikezhongzizaiyewanyinzang，dangfenshouyihou，nanshengpianpianjiangchulezheiju“xiangnila”。zheiyijujianduandehuayuyexuyiweizhezhezijineixinshenchudemianruan，fanzadeqinggancishiyijingtaxinlingshenchuyingrao。nanshengyexuhuisisuozheyiwangdemeimiao，yexuzaiyiduanluoyihoucaiyishidaozijiduiyuzheiduanganqingdeaixi。zheijuhuasuijianyi，quebeifuzhefuzaqiezhenchengdeqinggan，chanshizhenanshengdeneixinshijie。

　　猝不及防的思念

　　fenshouyihounanshengshuoxiangnile，fenshouzhihou，nanshengyexuhuichangshijiangguoqudehuiyishenmaixindi，qinfenjiejueneiyiduanqinggandezhigu。danshi，jibiantazaoyiheqianrenfenshou，neigeguniangdeshenyinghuoshibutingdifuxianchutadexinxuli。danzaimouyishunjian，tabuyouzizhudishuochuleneiyijuwenroudehuayu：“xiangnila”。

　　无法放下的情感纠缠不清

　　zheiyijujianduandehuayubeifuzhenanshengfuzaqiezhenshiqinggan。fenshouhou，nanshengyexuzaijijingdeyewansikao，huiyiyiqiandemeihaohuiyi，tihuidaoxinlizuishenchuduiqiannvyoudesinian。bulunshiyouyuyushiwubudehouhuimoji，haishiduiyuyiwangaiqingdezhenxi，zheijuhuadouyushizhenanshengxinlingshenchubucengwanquanshifangdejiuge。

　　思考和反思的全过程

　　“xiangnila”zheijuhuatixianlenanshengduifenshouzhihoudeqingganqingkuangxingchenglesikao。yexuzailibiezhihou，tarenshidaozijiduiairendeyilaixingyuaiqingdegoujian，tajiukaishisikaobicizhijiandeguanxi，sisuosangshilingyifangyiweishenme。zheiyiduanganqingluoxiaweimubingmeishinanshengwanquanmochucongqiandeyinhen，fanerhuirangtagengjiamingbaizijineixin。

　　心里诚挚情感的表露

　　nanshengjiangchuzheijuhua，huoxushiqidaichuandixinlizhenshiqinggan。bingbuyiweizhexiwangcongtoukaishi，fanershibiaodaduiqiannvyoudesinianyuduiyuanqusuiyuedehuailian。zheiyangdezhenchengyuchengzhi，youkenengshinanshengduiqiannvyouzuihoudedaobie，gengshiduitamenzhenggegushiyizhongxinlingjituo。

　　缘份持续与未来的展望

　　nanshengjiangchu“xiangnila”，huoxubeifuzheyifenhuangrandawuhemouleiweilaidezhanwang。fenshoubingbudengyuyiqiedouchedijieshu，yuanfenyexuhaimeidaotou。yexunanshengxiwangyongzheijuhuarangshangyirentihuidaotayiranzaiyi，biaodaduiyihoukenengdemeihaoqidai。zheileinairenxunweideqingganjiaocuo，zhangxianlenanshengduiganqingyuweilaidezhuduogailv。

　　分手之后的思念和成长

　　zheijuhuabudandanshinanshengduiairendesinian，shitagerentishengdeyizhongtixian。fenshouzhihoutagenjusinianduiguoqudezhengliyufansi，dongdeleaixibinggaoqingchuaidezhendi。zheijuhuayexuningjuzhetadechengzhangheduiaiqingdezhongxinshenshi，yeshiduiweilaizuihaodezijideyizhongfuwuchengnuo。

　　分手之后的思绪与情感

　　fenshouzhihou，nanshengshuoxiangnile，daibiaoletazaiqinggandekunhuohexinxudefanzabianyuanpaihuai。zheiyijujianduandehuayurutongyilvqingfeng，huanhuandedadongzhezijineixinshenchudejitaqinxian。zheiyexuzhishiyishidegantan，yexushimeifashifangchulaideqinggandanxin，danbuguanzenyang，zheijuhuayongjianyuedebiaoshu，biaoluchulenanshengneixinshenchudefanzayuwujinxinxu。

　　离别寂寞与恋恋不舍

　　nanshengjiangchu“xiangnila”，zhenduifenshouhoudetalaijiang，gengshiduidaobiesuiyuedehuiyihelianlianbushe。zailiangrendeaiqingxiaogushihuashangjudianhou，tahuoxuzhujianhuailianguoqushenghuodediandi，huihencuoguoyiduanxingfudeshiguang。zheijuhuazhongjiyouduiairendesinian，yeyunhanzhenanshengduitamenzhenggegushiyisibushe。

　　思念连绵，心思难以忘怀

　　fenshouyihounanshengshuoxiangnile，nanshengshuoxiangnile，shiyouyuneiyiduanaiqingzhagenzaitadexinlingshenchu，shizhongnanyiwangji。fenshouzhihou，tahuoxuchangshijiejuezheiyiduanqinggandeenyuan，queyishidaolesinianbingmeisuizheshijiandetuiyierxiaotui。zheiyijujianduandehuayudaibiaozhenanshengxinlingshenchudeqingganzhangkuo，yanmianbuduan。