什么样的女人会撩到男人？

　　fenshousangeduifangweishenmezhilaheibushanchu，zheiyiwentikunraozhehenduoren。kenengjiushiyinweilaheinenggoubimianzaidufushang，yekeyibaoliuyiduanguowangdejiyi；yexuzhuyaoshiyinweineixinshenchudeyouyuhewukenaihe，qidaiweichiyisilianluo；youhuoxushiweilejiduifangchuansongzijidejuexinheqinggan，zaiqianyishilixunqiuyizhongjunheng。buguanyinsuzenyang，zheizhongxuanzebeihoudouyunhanzhehenduoqingganherennai。wulunshiguanian，huoshiduiguoqudelianlianbushe，zheileimaodunxinlizhuangtaiposhizherenmenzhilaheibushanchu。

　　无形桥梁：拉黑而不删除的蕴含实际意义

　　fenshousangeduifangweishenmezhilaheibushanchu，bulunshiqinglvguanxichedijieshu，huoshiyouyidefenlie，fenshoushirenjiguanxizhongchangjiandeyizhongqingkuang。danshi，youderenzaiwanbiheduifangdeguanxihou，tiaoxuanbatalaheierbushanchu。zheizhongzuofayinqilehenduoyihuo，weishenmezhixuanlaheierbuwanquanshanchuni？zaizheipianwenzhangzhong，womenjiangyaotaolunzheiyixianxiangqibeihoudegenbenyuanyin。

　　保护和自我防御：拉黑为了防止再度负伤

　　yizhongjieshijiushi，laheierbushanchulingyifangkeyizuoweiyizhongziwofangyudefangfa。fenshouhoudeshangtongshangweiwanquanquanyu，neixinyiranmingan。weichilingyifangbeilaheizhuangtai，keyiyouxiaofangzhizaidushoushanghai，jiangdibeishangdejiyu。zheizhongzuofashuomingleqinggandeweihubennengfanying，tongshiyeshiduiziyideyizhongguanhuaiguanai。

　　留念与追忆：拉黑为了能保存逝去记忆力

　　lingyizhongjieshijiushi，laheierbushanchujiushiweilebaocunyiduanshiqujiyili。suiranguanlianwanbi，danguoqudesuiyueyiranzhidewomenhuailianhezhenxi。genjubaocunlingyifangdechuxian，jibianshizaiwuxingzhong，haikeyijixukaiqizhuiyi，jiangshiqumeihaoshikezhongwenyibian。zheizhongzuofatixianleduicongqiandeyizhongfuguqinggan，jibianlianluozaoyipolie，danjiyilinenggoushizhongbaoliu。

　　矛盾与迟疑：拉黑是为保持微弱联络

　　yizhonggengweifuzadejieshijiushi，tiaoxuanlaheierbushanchushineixinshenchudemaodunheyouyubujuedewuzhi。wanbiyiduanguanxibingbudengyuzhenzhengdepolie，henyoukenengrengrancunzaiweiruoqingganqiaoliang。laheilingyifangkexianshizijidejuexinheqinggan，tongshibaozhengyizhongnairenxunweidelianluo，zaiqianyishilixunqiuyizhongjunheng。zheizhongzuofajichongfentixianlenongliedeqinggan，youbiaoxianleshebudeyuwunai，duiguoqudeyizhongguzhi。

　　汇总

　　fenshousangeduifangweishenmezhilaheibushanchu，bulunshiweilenengziwofangyu，baocunmeihaojiyi，huoshimaodundeweichiboruolianluo，fenshouhoulaheierbushanchulingyifangbeihoudouyunzangzhegezhonggeyangqinggandeposhi。zheizhongxuanzeyouzhefanzadeneixinshijieheduiyulianxideyuzhongbutongdechulifangfa。meigerendouyoulaheierbushanchudezhuyaoyuanyin，yexushiweilebaohuziji，huoxushiweileliunianyiwang，youhuoxushiweileneixinshenchudemaodunyuchiyi。buguanzenyang，dajiazaifenshouzhihoudegerenxingweixuanzeshang，douchengzaizheyiduangushiheshenrudeqinggan。