女生喜欢一个人的表现

　　henanpengyouchaojiafenshouwutianlehaonanguozenmeban，zaijinglihenanpengyouchaojiafenshouwutianlenengshangxindeshiqihou，womenxuyaoshendusikaozijidexinqinghejingyu，bingyiciweiqijikaizhanziwodiaojie。zheiyiguochengshifentongku，dantongshiyeshinichengzhanghefazhandehaojihui。bubichenzuiyutongkudangzhong，ninengcaiqujijixingdong，ruyuhaoyouqingtu、xunqiujishuzhuanyeshiyonghuoshencengcisikao，yibangzhubaituokunjing，jianlixindejijizhudongdeshenghuotaiduyuweilaifazhanmubiao。

　　一、自身理智的必要性

　　henanpengyouchaojiafenshouwutianlehaonanguozenmeban，jiliedezhengchaohefenshoudaijininjidaqingxuchongjixing，zhaobudaofangxiangdeshihouxuyaolizhi。genjutiaochulaizhengduodenitan，ninenggengjialixingdisikaowenti，bingjizijishedingyigejidingmubiao：chulifenshoutongku，zaicishouhuoxingfu。

　　二、情绪缓解与寻求适用

　　fenshouhou，qingxudiluomianbule。danshi，chengshoutongkuderizizhihuirangnigengweihouzhong。xunqiuqingxuhuanjieshiyigeyouxiaotujing，keyiheyaohaodepengyouhuozhejiarenqingtu，gongxiangzijineixindetongkuhetongku。ciwai，jishuzhuanyexinliguanhuaiyeshifeichangyouyide，xinlixuezixunshinenggoubangzhunishifangyali、zhonggouzixinxin，zhongxinzhaodaozijidexingfuyushenfenrentong。

　　三、反省和成长

　　fenshoujinguantongku，danyetigongleyigejihuiqufanshengziji。sikaoyufanshengshijiangdifenshoutongkudeguanjiansuozai，genjusisuocongqiandecuowuchengzhangdejihui，ninenggengqingchudilejiezishen，fajuezishendebuzubingnuligaibian。zheibujinrangnigengchengshu，yeweijianglaidehunlianguanxichongfenzhunbei。

　　四、接纳和释放出来痛苦

　　fenshoutongkubingfeiyicuerjiu，xuyaoshijianlaiquanyu。jieshoutongkushibukehuoquede，buyaoqingyiduobihuoyayigan。jinyouyingduitongku，cainengzuodaozhenzhengshifangchulaita。manmanjienafenshousuodailaidetongku，shizijirenkebingkuanrongzijiduicishifanyingshizhengchang，yibuyibudimaijinxinlikangfu。

　　五、复建生活和积极心态

　　fenshoubingbudengyunishenghuojieshu，fanguolai，zheishiyigexindekaishi。bajiaodianfangzaiziwotishengshang，jijikaizhannixihuandezhutihuodong，jieshixinpengyou，kuozhangjiaojiquan。xunzhaogerenxingquaihao，weizijizhidingjijizhudongmubiao，weiweilaidexingfuqinfennuli。

　　六、造就未来的幸福

　　fenshoujinjinrenshengdangzhongyicidazhuanzhe，erbushizhongdian。qianwanbuyaobeiyiwangchanzhu，yekeyixuanzemianduitiaozhanbingchuangzaoshuyuzijidexingfu。jianxinziji，yingyongyinglaixindelianaijiyu，weichibaorongdexintai。genjuxuexiyuchengzhang，nijiuhuifaxianxindeziji，xunzhaozhenzhengshihenidekuaile。jilao，meigerenzhidegoumaixingfuyuzhenqing。

　　汇总：

　　henanpengyouchaojiafenshouwutianlehaonanguozenmeban，ruguonijinglihenanpengyouchaojiafenshousuodaozhidetongkushi，zhongyaodeshiyaobaochilixinghelixing。xunqiuqingxuhuanjieyuzhuanyeshiyongyouzhuyugaishanyalizhonggouzixinxin。ciwai，fanshenghesikaonenggoubangzhunifazhan，bingjieshoushifangchulaitongku。jianlixindejijizhudongdeshenghuoxintai，zaojiushuyuzijidexingfu，jiangbangzhuniduguozheiyiduanjiannanshikebingmaixianggengmeihaodeweilai。