情感咨询：怎样顺利度过婚姻的“七年之痒”

　　heqiannvyoufenshouzenyangzhongxinzhui，fenshouhouxiangyaozhongxintaohuiqiannvyou，zhongdianzaiyuyixilieqiadangxingdonghexingwei。zuixian，bixupingjingxialai，sikaofenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin，bingduizijijinxingchengzhanghegaibian。cizhi，chuangjianyouxiaodegoutonghexinren，chengxinbiaoshuduiyutadeguanhuaihehouhuimoji，tongshijiyutashijianyukongjian。zhihou，jijizhudongzhanshigerenyoudianheyouhua，nulizuoyigegenghaodeairen。fujianyouyihehetadelianluo，queyoufangzhiduitashiya。zuizhong，buduannuli，zhanxianchuzijidechengxinheangyangdouzhi，zhengdeyuqiannvyouzaicigoujianqishenhouganqingjiben。huodechenggongdejishishizhenxinshiyi、reqingheqieerbushe。

　　自我反省：

　　heqiannvyoufenshouzenyangzhongxinzhui，zaiyuqiannvyoufenshouhou，zaicizhuiqiutakeyishiyigejiannanerchongmanjiqingdeyigeguocheng。danshi，genjuziwofanshengyuchengzhang，nikeyizhaodaozaicizhuiqiutafangshi。

　　huishouguoqu，zhaodaowentichuzainali。ruguoniziwofansifenshoudeyuanyinshi，nikenenghuifaxianzijideyixiecunzaidebuzu。shinidexintai、xingweihuojiaoliufangshiyoushenmewentima？sisuogezhongwentinenggoubangzhunizhangwozishendebuzu，ranhouzhaodaoyouhuadefangshi。

　　壮大自己：

　　zaizhongxinzhuiqiuqiannvyouyiqian，baozhengniyeshiyigegenghaoderen。genjuziwotishenghegerentisheng，zhanshichuniduiziyideguanzhuheduiguanlianchengnuo。

　　touxiangtishengziji。zheijiangbaokuotigaonidenengli、fazhanqushinidexingquaihao，huoshijiaqiangduanlian。chengweiyigegengyouhuoliheyouzixinderen，budannengxiyinhuiqiannvyoudeguanzhu，haikeyiweinimenzhijiandeguanxijiyugengwengudeqianti。

　　取得联系：

　　fujianguanxishizaicizhuiqiuqiannvyoudeguanjianyibu。xuanzeyigeheshideshijihefangfalaijianlixindehetadelianluo。

　　weichiyouhaohezhencheng。zaizhongxinlianxishi，xuanyongyoushanhezhenchengdefangshihetaxianghujiaoliu。fangzhiqiuaidexingweihuozaiduanqineiduitashiya。jianliyigeqingqingsongsong、jijiheyouqudeduihua，yirangtaganshoudaoniguanzhu。

　　展示改变：

　　xiangqizhanshinigaibianyuchengzhang。tongguojijixingdonghejutigaibian，rangqikanjiannizaoyichongfenkendingzishendebuzu，bingzaifazhanguochengzhongnulibiandegenghao。

　　zhanshinigaibian。zheijiangbaokuohuiwangyiqiandewentibingtichujiejuefangan，huozheliyongxingdonglaidaibiaoniyijingzuochulegaibian。nidexingdongbikongdongdefuwuchengnuogengyouxiaoguo。

　　耐心与坚持不懈：

　　zaicizhuiqiuqiannvyoubushiyigeyicuerjiudequanguocheng。taxuyaonaixinyujianchi，zhanshiniduitadeaiheyongqi。

　　daijitashijianyukongjian。dongtakenenghaixuyaoyixieshijianquchulifenshouchanshengqingxu。zhongshitajuedingheguanliquan，bunengjitashiya。

　　qieerbushe。jibianzaimianduicuozheshi，yexuyaojiandingbuyidezhuiqiuta。zhanshiniduiguanliandegaoduzhongshiyuniqidaigaijinjuexin。

　　结果：

　　heqiannvyoufenshouzenyangzhongxinzhui，zaicizhuiqiuqiannvyouxuyaoshijianheqinfen，bingbushiyijianrongyideshiqing。genjuziwofanshenghegerentisheng，qudelianxibingzhanshigaibian，nijiangnenggouzhongxindedaotadexin。zuizhuyaodeshi，yaoduoyidiannaixinyujianchi，duinimendeweilaimanhuaixinxin。