应该怎样忘记初恋情人

 chulianwangwangshikegumingxinde，nanyiwanghuaide，chuliandehuiyihuizainidenaohailishenshenzhagen。xianshishenghuozhongyouhenshaorenkeyicongchulianyizhizoudaobaitou，jiuru《neixienianwomenyiqizhuiguodenvhai》zhongdeshenjiayihekejingteng，lianggerenbicixiangai，danzuihouquebunenggouzaiyiqi，bujinrangrengandaoxinsuan。chulianyouwenxintianmi，yeyoubeishangtongku，danyouyushidiyicilianai，suoyoudezheiyiqiedouhuijiaozhichengweiyiduannanyiwangquedejiyi，womenhennanwangqueneiduanjiyi，danwomenquekeyinulidirangzijiwangdiaoneigecengjingaiguodeta。

一、学会看淡感情，从悲伤中走出来

 qishichulianqingrenzhishinishengmingzhongdeyigecongcongguokeeryi，zainirenshengdelvtudangzhong，xuyaorenshideren，jinglideshihaiyouhenduohenduo，suoyiniyaogaosuziji，meiyoubiyaoweileyigerenliulianneimeduo。suirannihetazaiyiqideshihougandaofeichangxingfuhekuaile，danzheiyiqiedouyijingguoqule，neigerenhuoxuzaiyebuhuizainiyihoudeshenghuozhongchuxian，weitahuafeitaiduodeshijianhejingshenshibuzhide。

 jiranyijingjingliguoyicilianaideshibai，jiuyinggaixuehuikandanganqingle，buyaobasuoyoudeshijianhejinglidouhuazailianaishangmian，niyaozhidao，nihaiyounidejiaren、nidepengyou、nidegongzuoheshenghuo。

二、遇到自己喜欢的人就应该大胆争取，用新欢治旧伤

 wangjichulianqingrendeyizhonghenyouxiao、henkuaisudefangfajiushikuaisukaizhanyiduanxindelianqing，yongxinhuanzhijiushang，ruguonixianggengkuaisudikaizhanyiduanxindelianqing，zaiyudaoyouganjuederenshijiuyinggaibawojihui，dadanchujile。danzaizheiyicidelianqingshangjiubuyaoxiangyiqianyiyangtouruneimeduojingliheshijianle，rangtashunqizirandifazhan，zheiyangzuojishinimendelianqingzaicishibai，niyebuzhiyubeishanghaidetaishen。

三、从初恋中总结经验

 chulianzhisuoyinanmerangrennanyiwanghuai，zhuyaoshiyinweizheishiniduiaiqingdediyicifuchu，yeshidiyicixiangshoudaoaiqingdaijizijidetianmihekuailedeshiguang，ruguonizaikaishiyiduanlianaizhiqianjiunenggouxianghaonizailianaidaolushangkenenghuijinglideyiqiedongxi，neinishibushihuiganjuehaohenduoni？zheijiuxuyaonizaichulianzhongbuduandizongjiejingyan，tongshiniyinggaishikejubeiyizhongleguanxiangshangdexintai，wulunshangtianduinikaileduodadewanxiao，nidouyaotanranmiandui，zheiyangwulunnishouguoduodadeshang，nidoukeyihenkuaidicongshangtongdangzhongzhengtuochulai。

 shiquchulianzhihou，nikeyirangzijinanguoyizhenzi，danbukeyirangzijiyongyuanshenxianzaihuiyidangzhong，renzhongjiuhaishiyaozouchulaimianduixianshide，jishichulianhenmeihao，danguoquleyejiuguoqule，taiduodeliulianfanerhuirangzijimenmenbule，yuyuguahuan。