恋爱中女人应该注意什么

　　nandeduinvdeshuofenshouyinggaizenmeshuo？danglianggerenzhijiandeganqingyudaocuozhe，wufajixuxialaishi，ernanxingquedingmingquetichufenshoushi，shidangdebiaodafangfashishifenzhongyaode。suiransunhaizaisuonanmian，danyizhenchengyuzunzhongdexintaibiaodazijidejueding，gaosutamendajiazaiyewufagongtongqianxing。zheizhongbiaodafangfajikeyijiduifangchuandizijineixinniantou，youkejiduifangliuxiayixienanwangdehuiyi。yiner，dangmianduifenshoushi，nanshiyingjinliangqinfenyongwenheerzhenshifangfa，heduifangpingdengjiaoliu。

　　思考和提前准备

　　nandeduinvdeshuofenshouyinggaizenmeshuo，dangnanshiquedinghenvxingfenshoushi，sikaohetiqianzhunbeicaishiguanjian。zaikaizhanzheiyijiankudeduihuayiqian，nanshiyidingyaoxianshendusikaoherenqingzijixinlixiangfa。nongqingchuzishenweishenmeyaofenshou，baozhengjuedingshijingguoshenzhongkaolvde，erbushiyishichongdong。yucitongshi，haiyaozuohaoqingxutiqianzhunbei，youyufenshoutongchangshirangrenxinqingdiluoheshangxindeshiqing。baozhengzijikeyilizhitanrandimianduizheiyiduihua，yimianchanshengpianjiqingxu。

　　选择适合自己的时间地点

　　xuanzeshihezijideshijiandidianqujinxingzheiyiduihuazhiguanzhongyao。baozhengliangrendouyouchongzukongjianheshijianlaibiaodazijideqingxuheyijian。fangzhizaigonggongchangsuohuoshifanmangdeyikemingquetichufenshou，zheiyangkeyibimiannankanheqitarendeyingxiang。tiaoxuanyigexiangduisimihelianghaodehuanjing，bianyushuangfangkeyibijiaoqingsongdibiaodazijidexiangfa。

　　真诚而重视

　　zaifenshouduihuazhong，zhenchengyuzunzhongshishifenzhongyaode。jinliangbuyaoyongweihaixingdehuayuhuohuxiangzhize。jinliangjianshaozhengchaohezhengchao，fanershiyingyipingjingdekouqihexingweilaijiaoliu。gaosutamenziyideganshouhexiangfa，erbushijingonghuohuxiangzhize。zuihaoyi“wo”dejiaoduqubiaoda，erbushiyong“ni”defangshihuxiangzhize。zhongshibierendeganshouhejianyi，jiyubicizhijianchongzudezunzhongyulijie。

　　表达原因和体会

　　zaifenshouduihuazhong，nanshiyingdangqingxidibiaodazishenweishenmeyaofenshoudeyuanyin。buguoyaozhuyi，bubibazijidezerendouguiyinyulingyifang，ershiyonggongxiangzijidexiangfayijixuyaoweizhudao。biru，keyizheimeshuo“wofaxianlewomendejiazhiguanherenshengmubiaobushihenyizhi，woxuyaoxunzhaoyigegengjiafuhewoxiwangderenshengbanlv。”zheizhongbiaodafangfakeyigengjialixinghekeguandebiaodazijideyaoqiu，erbushijingongbierendequedianhuoguoshi。

　　给予适当的时间与空间

　　fenshouyihou，jiduifangshidudeshijianyukongjianshihenzhongyaode。zhongshibierendeganshouhequeding，buyaoqingyiqiangzhiwanliuhuojiuchanbuqing。suiranlianggerenhenyoukenenghaihuiyinqiaihenjiugehexiangnian，keshijienafenshouzheiyishishi，bingjiduifangyixieshijianhejinglizhishangheyouhuashifeichangbiyaode。baochiyidingdejuli，tongshiyeweizishenshizhangqumianduihejieshouzheizhonggenggai。

　　nandeduinvdeshuofenshouyinggaizenmeshuo，fenshoubingbushiyijianrongyideshiqing，qianshedaobicideqingxuyuweilai。nanrenzaiduinvxingmingquetichufenshoushi，yingjinliangyizhencheng、zunzhongyulijiedexingshibiaodazijidejueding。suiranmianbulehuishanghaidaolingyifang，danshitongguoshanyihezhenxinchengyiduihua，nenggoujianshaosunhaibingweichiyiduanyoushandeguanlian。jilao，wanshandijiejuefenshoushixiang，shibicizhijianhecongqiandeaiqingdezunzhongyuzhenxi。