超三成单身女性选择不结婚 不婚原因有三

　　dangnidenanyouzongshihuizaiyuehuishichidao，nirongyixianruchiyi：shizheigezaicirenshouzheiyixiguanxinghaishikaolvfenshou？haowuyiwen，chidaohenyoukenenghuidaijinizaodongbuan、xiaochenhebubeizunzhongdeganjuele。fangpingxintai、goutongyuxunzhaoditoudefangfayexunengjiejuezheixiewenti，neiruguozheiyixingweibuduanrangniganjuedaobeihulve，fenshouhuoxushiyigebixudetiaoxuan。yiner，dangmiandui“nanpengyouyuehuilaochidaogaibugaifenshou”shi，zhongdianzaiyukaolvyaobuyaozheizhongzuofazaoyiyanzhongqinfanlenidedixian，bingqieduinimenzhijiandeguanxidaozhilewufawanjiuzaochengdeshanghai。

　　chidaonanti：kaoyanyujiejuefangan

　　问题的症结

　　nanpengyouyuehuilaochidaogaibugaifenshou，zaiyiduanganqingzhong，nanpengyouzongshiyuehuichidaoshiyigeburonghushidewenti。zheizhongzuofahenyoukenengjiduifangchanshengzaodongbuan、bubeizunzhongjiqijusangdetihui。danshi，womenyinggaishenrutanjiushencengyuanyinhekenengdejiejuefangan，erbujinjinyiciweijiekoujuedingshifoufenshou。

　　矛盾的感受与希望

　　chidaonantisuoyinfademaodunshinvxingdengdainanyoudezhongchanshengde。nvxinghenyoukenengjuedenideshijianyuqidaibeihulve，bingqieyekenenghuiduinanyouhuaiyouxinhan。tayexuqidainanyoukeyizhongshitadeshijianyunuli，tizaoguidingshijian，huozheshuojishilianxitahuibuhuichidao。

　　挑战与发展

　　chulichidaonantixuyaoshuangfangjianchibuxiedenulihechengzhang。zuixian，nanyoubixurentongbingrenshidaozijidechidaogerenxingweiduinvyoudaozhidefannaoyutongku。yucitongshi，nvpengyoubixubiaodazijideganshou，bingzhenxinchengyiyunanyoujinxingjiaoliu。zheigeguochengxuyaoshuangfangdoushigenggaidexiangfa，binggongtongxunzhaojiejuefangan。

　　沟通交流和信任

　　hezuoshichulichidaowentidehexin。biciyingdangzuoxia，tanranditaolunbicizhijiandeqiwanghetihui。nvxingkeyibiaodazijixiwangnanyouzhichitashizhangdexuyao，nanyouzekeyishuomingtadeyuanyinhetiaozhan。genjuxianghuzhijianlingting，chuangjianxianghuzhichiherenke，xunzhaopinghengheditoudefangfa。

　　设置界线与付诸实践

　　jiaruchidaonantiyuelaiyuejingchangqiemeiyougaijindezhengzhao，nvpengyouhenyoukenengyinggaikaolvshezhijiexianbingfuzhushijian。zheigebushirongyideshiqingqueding，danyiduanguanxizhong，gerenjiazhiyuzunzhongshishifenzhongyaode。nvxingnenggouzhunquebiaodazijiyaoqiu，bingshezhiyigeshidudehuangjinshijian。jiarunanyoubuduanweifanzheiyijiexian，nvpengyoukenenghaixuyaozhongxinshenshizheiduanganqingshibushihaizhidezaici。

　　探寻技术专业协助

　　jiaruchidaonantidaozhiyanzhongdemaodunhekunhuo，fufuhuoqinglvkeyixuanzexunqiuzhuanyexiezhu，ruxinlifudao。zhuanyerenyuankeyitigonggengshencengcidedongchalihetiyi，xiezhubicinenggougenghaodijiejuebicizhijiandeqingxuhekunhuo。

　　分手：最后的决定

　　buguanzenyang，fenshouyingdangshizuihoudejueding。zhihuizaijingguochongfendejiaoliuhenulichangshihou，chidaonantiyijiuwufachuli，qieyanzhongqinfanlebenrendaodedixianshi，nvfangkexuyaokaolvwanbizheiduanganqing。fenshoujinguantongchu，danyoushihoujiushiweiletanxungengjiajiankanghedongdezunzhongzhijiandeguanxi。

　　汇总

　　nanpengyouyuehuilaochidaogaibugaifenshou，nanpengyouzongshiyuehuichidaodewentitongguogoutong、tuoxiehexianghuzhichiqujiejue。zuizhongyaodeshishuangfangdoushiyiyuanhenulidequgenggai，bingqiezaiguanxililajinguanxiyuzunzhongdeqianti。danshi，jiaruchidaonantimeifajishijiejue，fenshoujianghuichengweifangfanyishiheziwojiazhidezuizhongxuanze。womendouyinggaizaiganqinglibeizunzhongyuguanhuai，zheiyeshichuangjianshenxinjiankang、pingwendeguanxidegenji。