中年少女的15个特征，没想到我中招了！

　　dangnanpengyouxiangyaotingzhiganqing，takenenghuizhaodaoyizhongwanzhuandefangshilaibiaoshutadexiangfa。zheiyiju“nanpengyouxiangfenshoushishuoshenme”dehuayu，tixianlenvxingzhenduifenshouweizhidekongjuhebuan，tapoqiexuyaotingdaoduifangrenkehezhichi，youyuzheibujinnengcujintagaoqingqingkuang，hainengjiliangrenzhijiandeganqingliuyouyisixiwang。zheijuhuashenhou，youzhetaduilejie、jiaoliuhewanliudeqipan，shitazhenduifenshouquedingdebuganxinhewunaideyizhongtixian。

　　羞于启齿道别表白

　　nanpengyouxiangfenshoushishuoshenme，dangyiduanganqingzoudaozuihou，nanpengyoujingchangmianlinzenyangjiduifangbiaoshufenshoudefannao。tamenshituxunzhaoyijuhua，nenggoujishichuandichutamenneixindezhenshixiangfahequeding。zheizhonghuayu，huoxuhuichengweifenshoudekaiduan，yehuoxuhuichengweifenshouzhihoudeshizhongquehan。

　　追寻个人权利的原因

　　zainanpengyousisuofenshoushi，xinlizhujianshanguodeshibenrenziyoudexiangwang。yexutamenhuishuo，"womenxuyaozijiyigerenlaixunmilixianghemengxiang"，huozhe"dajiaderenshengjinglihenyoukenengbuhuizaiyizhi"。zheizhongyuanyinyexushicunzaide，queyekenengzhishiyizhongduiweizhishenghuozhongdetansuoyuwangyuduiyaliduobi。

　　心灵深处的疲倦与困惑

　　fenshoushi，nanpengyouyoushiyehuiwozhongyumingbaineixinshenchudepijuanhedanyou。tamenyexuhuishuo，"liangrendeguanxiyijingshiqureqinghehudongjiaoliu"，huozhe"woyibuzaikaixin，womenyinggaizhongshizijidexingfu"。zheizhonghuayuzhanxianletamenduiqingganshangdekunhuohezhenduixingfukuailedexunmi。

　　寻找更强将来的气魄

　　fenshouyeyoukenengshinanpengyouweilexunqiugenghaodemingtiansuozuochudeyingyongqueding。tamenyexuhuishuo，"woxiangyaoyigebijiaoshihewodebanlv"，huozhe"womenxuyaogengduoshijianlaizhuangdaziji"。zheizhonghuayutixianletamenduigerentishengheshenghuopinzhidezhuiqiu，yucitongshiyehuidailaizhenduifenshousuozaochengdeshanghaiyihan。

　　将来的不确定性与揪心的道别

　　nanpengyouxuyaofenshoushi，tamenkenengmianlinzheduiweilaibuquedingxinghejiuxindedaobie。tamenyexuhuishuo，"jinguanfenlifeichangtongku，danshizheishibicizhijianzuijiadexuanze"，huozhe"dajiaxuyaojingguozijichengzhanghejingyanjiaoxun"。zheizhonghuayujinguanchanshengduanzantongchu，quejiushitamenzhenduibicizhijianzunzhongheduiweilaidexingfuqiwang。

　　挽留和成长的机会

　　fenshoujinguanrangrentongchu，danyenengchengweiyiciwanliuyuchengzhangdejihui。nanpengyouyoushihouhuishuo，"huoxuwomenfenkaile，danxiwangwomenhainengzuopengyou"，huozhe"woxiwangwomennenggezichengzhang，zaizhongfenghoucongtoukaishi"。zheizhonghuayuyexudaibiaoleyisixiwang，jibianfenshoule，tamenrengranwoxiwangninengzaishengmingdemouyilianjiedianzaicixiangfeng。

　　nanpengyouxiangfenshoushishuoshenme，buguannanpengyouzaifenshoushijiangchunazhonghuayu，meigerenyoumeigerendeluojiaodianbixu。dangmianduifenshoushi，lejie、zunzhongyujieshouduifangdejueceshizuiweizhongyaode。danzaifenshouhou，buduanjinbuhexiangqianzou，doujiangweizijichuangzaochugengmeihaodeweilai。