冷暴力分手者的心态解析

 jiaruzhixiqinshuchuxianlengbaoliquxiang，qianwanbiechaonao，neibanhuidebuchangshi，niyidingyaoweichilizhi，neiyangcaikeyiyouchongzudeqingxulaipouxidajiazhongjiandefenqisuoshu。jinrihuazhenwangbianshendujiedulengbaolifenshouzhedexintaizhuangtai，kanyixiananshenglengbaolideshencengciyuangu。

一、冷暴力分手者的心态状态

1、taxiangweichizishendepinpaixingxiang，huaidanjiaojinizuo，binitifenshou

 youdenanrenaiaizhenile，bianshafeikuxindexiangshuaidiaoni，danqinshentifenshouyoushizishennanshengdepinpaixingxiang，yincibaqiutirangni，guoniqubei，zishenshiyanwuguzhe。yincitamentiaoxuanmeilini，hushini，naizhizuoyixieshierjininanguo，dengninichengshoubule，daziranjiuhuijijiliqu。

 tamenneimezuokeyishuoshishiquanshimei。zuixiantameigennizhengchao，yemeigennitifenshou;cizhitadepinpaixingxiangheyonghupingjiarengranhaiyao，chedibuhuishoudaoyiqieweihai，rengranhuanshinageaizhezishennvpengyoudehaolaogong。naizhifanguolai，dajiahuilianminta：neimehaodenanhai，weishenmehuiyushangneimemanbujianglidenvyouni?

2、tahaimeiyouzhaohaoxiajia，xiangqilvzhaoma

 tazaoyigaohaoleyaoyunifenshoudetiqianzhunbei。danshenzhongkaolvzhihou，juedehuanshibubineimekuaidiuqiniba，youyuyunifenshoutalikeyaoqinshenjingliyiduanguduwuqudesuiyue，liangzhezhijianneiban，zaimeipengdaohaodetiaoxuanchuxianyiqian，yongniquxiaomoshiguangyeshikeyide，hekuziduanhouluni?

 dangtazheibankaolvdaohou，jiuhuichuxianlengbaolidegerenxingweile。youyuxiangqizaozhongwanhuifangqini，yincijuedeyemeibixuzainishoushangshechilangfeihuoli，youyidameiyidadelianluozhejiuxing，qishixiangyaonideneishihou，huayanqiaoyuyiliangjujiuhuibaobeiguaiguaidehuijiapeizheta。bufeichuihuizhilijiunenggourangzishenbugudu，bufangyishi?

3、taguishuyubeidongjinengdexingqing，buqingchuzenyangtifenshou

 taguishuyuneileiyongdaozishende“shanjierenyi”laisunhaitarenderen。zheileirenzuoshixihuanduobi，haipamianduizishen，genghaipamianduini。rutongniqingtayongcanshi，tahuichizhuozideneipanrou，tabingbushixihuanchi，ketaxiangqinishiyibiantahao，buyuanyanlidajinideshanxin，yincibizishenquchi，bizishenquzuohaozijitaoyanzuodeshi，laiwanmeichengxiantaren。

 yinci，zailianqingzhong，dangtafajuebuxihuanniba，danyouxiangqiniyoumeifancuonaxie，yincijiubafenshoudexinbiexinli，buduanchaimozishen，gaozhizishenbubizuohuaidan。tabafenshoudangzuocuoshi，tabatifenshouderendangzuohuaidan。shishishang，zheilei“weitarenweitarenzhexiang”degerenxingwei，caisuanshizuizhiside，huoxucihouhaiyaobeilengbaolile，lengbaolidetongchubilijitifenshoutongchujibaibei。ketaquebumingbai。

二、男生冷暴力的深层次缘故

1、xihuanduziyirenjiejuekunnan

 nanshengxihuanjianmo，zuoshitaoyanxuannao，xihuanduziyirenjiejuekunnan。tashiyibufennanshengdegexinghuaxiangbei，nanshengzheileixiguanxinggennanshengzheiyishehuijiaosejiedinghuoshigennanshengbennengfanyingxiangguan，zaipengdaogongzuoyalihecuobaideneishihou，nanshengxihuanshenxianzishendejingshenshijie，duziyirenquyingduihehuanjie，ernvrenzaipengdaonantideneishihou，xihuanzhaorenqingtu，shuochuqu，huoshidachaodanao，yihou，yexujiuhuanjiemeilezheileixintai。zheileinanrenyunvrendeshizhishangdechabie，feichangrongyishinvrenzaipengdaonanshengyingduinantineishihoudexintai，huijuedeshiyizhonglengbaoli。

2、变心

 nanshengzuifeichangrongyifandecuojiushishuochuguixingwei，jiarujinjinshentidechuguixingwei，dayueyeburongyidaozhinanshengchuguixingwei。zheileiwaiyutongchangshibanzheqinggande，xingheqingyiqipiaozoudejieguo，jiushishuonanshengfeichangrongyiduijiaowangzhongdenvrenpaiji。zuixianhuishishentishangdepaiji，cizhihuishijingqishenshangdeshengshu。

3、不在意你的体会

 dangnanshengtaoyanyigenvrendeneishihou，shiburongyijijizhudonghejijitaojinhude。daliangdeneishihou，jiarunanshengduiyigenvrenxuanyonglepaiji，biaomingzheiyinanshengshitaoyanzheiyinvrende。meiyouqinggan，buaile，yincitabuzaiyinvrendetihui，yizhiyifulengbingbingxintai，niairuheruhe，haoxiangyutabuxianggan。buquyueni，doubudihuini，yizhineileibuzaihudexintai。nvrenruguochidexiao，jiushou，chibuxiao，haikeyitiaoxuanfangkaishou，qishi，tabuzaiyi，ruhedounengjiena，yongyizhonglengbaolichaimozishenyechaimozhenvren。