脱单秘籍：女生怎样追求男生比较容易成功?

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　　nanrenmenfenshouhou，tongchanghuixuanzebuzaipengyouquanlisagouliang、shaiwa。zheizhongzuofajingchangyehuiyinqiwaibudecaixianghehaoqi，daodishishenmeyuanyinrangdajiazaifenshouzhihouxuanzezhuanglongzuoya，buhuizaifenxiangzijishenghuoyuqinggan？

　　1. 重新思考情绪

　　nanrenfenshouhoujiubufapengyouquan，fenkaizhenduirenheyifangeryandoushiyicitongkudejingli。dangnanrenmenjingliguoyiduanganqingdejieshu，takenenghuixuanzezaipengyouquanlimoran，yihuiguiziwo，shenshizijideqingxuhesixiang。zheishiyizhongtanxunxinlijunhengdefangfa，doushizhongxinshenshiweilaifazhanfangxiangdeyike。

　　2. 缓解尴尬和生疏

　　weixinfapengyouquanshiyizhongjingchangqiegongkaifaburenjihudong。zaifenshouhou，nanrenmenkenengxuanzezanshizhongzhiweixinfapengyouquan，yifangzhigenqianrenzaochengnankanzhijiandehudonghuozhebeixiaohuobanmenguanzhuyucaixiang。zheiyangdexingweihaikeyijiangheqianrendeguanlianjiangzhizuishao，rangshuangfangbijiaorongyishengshu，xunsubaituoaiqingdefannao。

　　3. 保护个人信息

　　youshi，nanrenmenxuanzebuzaipengyouquanlifenxiangzijishenghuo，chuyubaohugerenxinxikaolv。zaiaiqingwanchenghou，tamenyexuxuyaoyiduanshijianqumianduiyuchulizijidexinqing，zaicidiaozhenghaozijidexintai。zaizheiguochengzhong，baochiyidingdejulihegerenyinsi，nengrangtamennenggougenghaodimianduihezhanshengkunnan。

　　4. 专注于新的起点

　　fenkaibujinjinshiyigewanbi，gengjiashiyigexindekaishi。nanrenmenhenyoukenengxuanzebuzaipengyouquanlichuwen，shiweilebayiwangdeqingxuxuehuifangxia，quanshenxintourudaoxindeshenghuozhong。tamenxiangzhuanzhuzijidefazhan、gongzuo、gerenaihaodengduogefangmian，yidakaiyigezhanxinderenshengpianzhang。

　　5. 社交网络并不是真正生活的典范

　　nanrenmenhuoxuyishidaole，shejiaowangluobunengwanquanzhanxianyigerenzhenzhengshenghuoheqingxufanying。tamenkenengjuede，bataiduoshijianhejinglihuafeizaipengyouquanlidesuzaoshangbingbunengzhenzhengchanshengxinlidemanzu。yiner，tamenxuanzezhuanglongzuoya，bubeiwaijiedeliuyanyuqidaisuoyingxiang，fanershigengjiazhongshizhenshishenghuoganshou。

　　nanrenfenshouhoujiubufapengyouquan，nanrenfenshouhouxuanzebufapengyouquan，kenengjiushiyinweizhongduoyuanyouzonghekaolv。bulunshizhongxinsikaoqingxu，huanjiegangaheshengshu，baohugerenxinxi，huoshizhuanzhuyuxindeqidian，yijiduiyushejiaomeitidesikao，zheizhongxingweidoushiwomenweilenengziwoliaoyu、chengzhangyuzhongxinzhaodaoxinlijunhengsuozuodexuanze。zunzhongtamendequeding，weitamentigongchongzukongjianheshijian，xiangxintazuizhongdouhuibaituotongku，yinglaiquanxinderensheng。