中国近半女性买婚房出钱不加名

　　nanrenfenshouhoubujiedianhuadexinli，dangnanrenfenshouhou，yibanhuixuanzebujiedianhua，zheiyixingweibeihouyinzangzhegengshencengcidexinlizhuangtai。yexutamenbuganmianduishiqudetongku，danxintingjianbeishangdexiangsheng；yihuozheshichuziyufangfanyishi，xuyaoduziyirenlengjingfenxihequanyuneixinshenchudechuangkou。bulunshiyouyuzizunsunshang、xunqiusuiyihaishixiangyaotuixiezeren，nanrentiaoxuanmorandexingshitongchangnengrangduifangmimanghekubukanyan。danshi，lejienanrenzaifenshouhoubujiedianhuadexintai，yexunengweilianggerenzengjiayixieshihuaihezhenchengkongjian。

　　失去的东西自尊与防范意识

　　nanrenfenshouhoubujiedianhuadexinli，dangnanrenjingliyiduanbeishangdefenshouhou，bujiedianhuajingchangbianchengtamendexuanze。zheizhongzuofayoushihoulingrennanyilejie，danshiqueshenshenqianshezhenanrendexintai。fenshoukenenghuishinanrenjuedeshiquzizun，tamenhuijuejiedianhuashiweilefangzhigengduodeshanghaiheganga。tamenhaipatingjianbeishangdexiangsheng，paduifangdezhizeheweiquhuijinyibuxiaoruozishendezizunxin。yiner，tamenxuanzelemoran，genjubujiedianhualaiweihuzishen。

　　bujiedianhuadoushinanrenziwobaohudeyizhongzhuyaobiaoxian。fenshouduimeiyigerendoushiyizhongwaishang，ernanrentongchangzaoyugengduoshengcunyali，beiqidaixuehuijianqiang、yingyong。tamenyexutiaoxuantaobishoujideyuanyinzhiyishixiangyigerenmianduiqingxudebodong，xiaohuaxishoufenshousuodailaideshanghai。zheileiziwofangyujizhishitamennenggouzhuanzhuzijiqingxuyuxinlidehuifu，xunqiudiaozhengqingxuhepinghengxiediao。

　　职责的躲避与随心所欲的追寻

　　zaifenshouhou，youyixienanrendouhuixuanzebujiedianhua，jiushiyinweitamenxuyaotuixiezerendezhigu。fenshouwangwangyiweizhejieshuyiduanzhangjiudeyingxiang，nanrenkenengjuedeyalihendayuzerenbeijiawangshenshang。tamenkendinghuiyuanhuiyingshoujishiyouyupabeizerenzhuijiuhuozhebeizhuize，tamenxiangyaobimianneizhongbeishufudejuede，xiangyaoyongyouziyouhebaituo。

　　suiyishisuoyourenzhuixundeyizhongjingshenzhuiqiu，nanrenzaifenshouhoubujiedianhuazhuyaoshiweilezaiyidingchengdushanghuifuziyou。tamenxiangbikaicongqiandeguanlian，jiejueshouyueshudeganjuele。genjubujiedianhua，tamenxiwangkeyizaiyiduanshijianneifangxiayiqiezerenyuyiwu，zhongshizishen，weizijiderenshengtanxunwuxiandekenengxing。

　　内心深处的纠结与寻求摆脱

　　nanrenfenshouzhihouxuanzemoranhuoxuhaiyuanyuneixindezhengtuohemimang。fenshoudailaideshanghai、fennuheshiwangrangtamenxianruleyizhongqingxuxuanwozhong。bujiedianhuayoushijiushitamenxunqiuyizhongjietuodexingshi，linshibikaiwaijiedeganrao，shizijiyouzugoudeshijianyukongjianquzhishanghezhongxinxingchengzijiderichangshenghuo。

　　zaifenshouhoudeyiduanshijiannei，nanrenkenengjingligezhongfuzadeganqingyusikao。tamenxuyaoshijianqusisuocongqiandeguanlian，fanshengzijizailimiandejiaoseyiwu。genjubujiedianhua，tamennenggouduankaiheqianrendeguanlian，rangshijiandanhuatongku，zhongsuzijiderenshengjingli。

　　理解和共情的必要性

　　nanrenfenshouhoubujiedianhuadexinli，zhenduinanrenfenshouzhihouxuanzebujiedianhuadexintai，renzhihetonglixinshishifenzhongyaode。jinguanzheizhongzuofahenyoukenengnengrangduifangmimanghetongchu，danshiwomenyinggaijiyunanrenzaikunanzhongxunqiudiaozhengqingxuhehuifukongjian。womenkeyichangshihetamengoutongyulejie，weitamentigongshizhangyuzhichi，rangtamenmanmandezouchutongku，zaicizhaohuizijidewanqianghezixin。