男人越有这表现，证明他越是在乎你

　　nanshengshuofenshouhehaodejilvdama？zheishiyigejingchangyingxiangzhehenduorendenanti。fenshouzhihoudehehaobingbushijianyi，tashejizhefuzadeqingganhetaidugaibian。zaizheiguochengzhong，nannvshengjianderenjijiaowang、goutongjiaoliujiqibicizhijiandelijieyubaorongdoufahuizhezhongyaodezuoyong。bingqie，yeyaokaolvbicidexiangfa、yuanyinyijichengshoudeshanghaishuipingdengduozhongyinsu。yiner，nanyijiandandehuiyingnanshengshuofenshouhehaodejilvdaodiyouduoda。meiyiduanaiqingquanshiyuzhongbutongde，weiyoutongguozhenzhidegoutongyuqinfen，caikenengbaituokunnan，zaicizoudaoyiqi。

　　nanshengyunvshengjiandeganqinglianxishifuzaqienairenxunweide，erfenshouhehehaodeyigeguochenggengjiashichongmanbuquedingxing。dangmianduifenshoudeyike，nanhaizihuibuhuitiaoxuanhehaodejilvdame？rangwomenyiqilaitantaoyixia。

　　1. 分手之后，爱情是不是还存在着

　　nanshengshuofenshouhehaodejilvdama，fenshoubingbudengyuaiqingjiuhuiyongyuanxiaoshi。youshihou，fenshouzhuyaoshiyinweiyishichongdonghuoduanzanzhengzhierchuxian，bingbudengyuaiqingzaoyiliekai。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，nanshengyunvshengzhongjianzaicihehaodejilvkenengbijiaoda，yinweitamenzhongjianbicizhijiandeqingxuyirancunzai。

　　2. 解决分手缘由水平

　　fenshouyibanshiyouyixiewentihewufadiaohedechabiesuoyinqide。nanshengyunvshengzhongjianzaicihehaodejilvyaozaiyutamenshifounengchengxinmianduizheixiewentiranhouzhaodaojiejuedefangfa。ruguoliangrenkeyiwanshandijiejuefenshouyuangu，bingyuanyiweigaishanguanlianerzuochudiaozheng，neiyanghehaodegailvjiuhuitisheng。

　　3. 沟通与了解的必要性

　　fenshouhou，fujiangoutongyulijiejiushizhongyaodeyibu。nanhaizibixunenggoulingtingnvhaizidetihui，lejietadeyaoqiu，bingbiaodazijideguandian。xianghuzhijiandejiaoliuheluojisiweinenglishihenglianghehaogailvdeguanjianyinsuzhiyi。ruguonanshengnenggouzhudongyunvhaigoutongjiaoliu，bingqienengfazineixindibiaodaguandianhetihui，neiyangzaicihehaodejilvjiuhuitisheng。

　　4. 彼此的想法和努力

　　nanshengyunvshengzhongjianzaicihehaodejilvhaiyaozaiyubicidexiangfahegerendenengli。zheijiuxuyaolianggerendoukeyifuchuganqing、chengxinnaixin，gongtongfendouxiubupoliedeaiqing。jiarunannvshengdoukeyiweilezheiduanganqingerfendou，bingqienengxianghuxinrenyubaorong，neitamenzaicihehaodegailvhuifeichangda。

　　5. 信赖的复建

　　fenshouhou，xinlaitongchanghuishoudaotiaozhan。nanshengyunvshengzhongjianzaicihehaodejilvyeyaozaiyutashifounenggouhuifubicizhijianzhijiandexinren。zheixuyaoyiduanshijian、zhenchenghechixubuduandeqinfen。ruguonanshengkeyizhanxianchuduinvshengdejiandingbuyizhenxinshiyihewendingxing，bingqienenggenjuxingweilaizhongxinhuodetaxinlai，neiyanghehaodegailvjiuhuitisheng。

　　nanshengshuofenshouhehaodejilvdama，zongdelaishuo，nanshengshuofenshouhehaodejilvshibushidazaiyuzhuduoyaosudezonghekaolv。bicijiandeganqing、jiejuefenshouyuanyoushuiping、goutongyulijie、yixianghenulijiqixinlaidefujian，quanshiquedinghehaogailvdeguanjianyinsu。buguanjieguoruhe，zuizhongyaodeshinannvshengkeyibaochilianghaodexintaiyingduibingyicifazhan，bulunshizaizaicihehaodeguochengdangzhonghaishifenshouzhihoudeyiduanxindelvchengzhong。