为什么男人得到女人之后这么善变

　　nvpengyoumeiyoutifenshoudanshihenleng，suiranmeiyoulijimingquetichufenshou，nvpengyouduiwodetaidubiandelengmojueqing，bushanyanci。tadeyanshenbuhuizaiwenxin，heyiwangdetianmeiduibi，dajiazhijiandegoutongbiandeshengse、mohubuqing。woyebuzhidaozaixiangxieshenme，neixinchongmanlemimangyujiaolvqingxu。liangrendeguanxihaoxiangzaiyiyezhijianbiandeshengshuerlengmo，wojinliwanhuiquenanyizhuiyiyiqiandeqinmi。nvpengyoubingmeiyoumingyanfenshou，danshitalengmoquezheiyangshuoleyiqie。

　　1. 感觉到的冷漠

　　nvpengyoumeiyoutifenshoudanshihenleng，yiwangdeqinmihewennuanhaoxiangyiyezhijianpiaoluowuying。tadeyanshenbuhuizaiyunhanzhezhenqing，fanershibiandelengmo，shiquguoqudewenhe。dajiacengjingneimeqinmiwujian，bulunshidianhuazhonghuoshilingjulishi，douyouwennuandexiaorong。danshirujin，tadebiaoqinglengmoershuyuan，haoxiangwochengweileyigemoshengren。tayudiaoyebiandebinglengde，buhuizaidaishangwenrouqieguanai。wojianjiantihuidaotaduiwodelengmo，zheizhongganjueyaowobeitongbuyi。

　　2. 沉默无言的烦恼

　　talengmojiwodailaideyizhongwuyiyanbiaodemimanghetongchu。womencengnenggouwuhuabushuo，gongxiangbicizhijiandesuoyouxinuaile。danshirujin，jiusuanwojinliquzhaohuatiliaotian，dajiazhijiandegoutongyebiandeshengseerchenmowuyan。tazhihuidechuyingyudancibanjianduanhuiying，buhuizaijijihewofenxiangtaderensheng。zheileichenmowuyanrangwoganjuedaobeiyiqihebeihulve，woyebuzhidaozaixiangxieshenme，xinlichongmanlejiaolvhebuan。

　　3. 之间的距离牵扯

　　yiqianwomenzhijiandejulifeichangjin，nenggouyiqifenxiangtianmeiyukuaile。danshirujin，woganshoudaoyizhongwuxingqianche，haoxiangwohetazhijiandejuliyuelaiyueyuan。wojinliquzhaodaoneileiqinmigan，dantachangchangraokaiwochupeng，huijueyuwojiejin。womenzijidegongchubiandeshuyuan，shiqucongqiandepeihemoqihehemu。zheileizhijiandejuliqiancheyaowokubukanyan，woshitujiechuzheiyiyituan，danyushiwubu。

　　4. 挽留的窘境

　　yingduinvpengyoulengmodexintai，wobuzhidaoruhewanliuliangrendeguanxi。woshitugoutongjiaoliu，changshichuliwenti，dantachangchangfuyanleshiertaobi。wogandaowulihejuewang，yebuzhidaozenmehuibiandeneiyanglengmo。woxunwenshifouyouwenti，dantachangchangjubuchengren。wobuzhidaoruhejianchixiaqu，xinlichongmanlekunhuohefanmen。

　　5. 将来的茫然

　　nvpengyoudelengmoyerangwojianglaiganjuemimang。wocengjingweiwomenjianlilemeihaodeyuanjing，danshixianzaiyiqiesihudouposuile。wobuzhidaozheiduanganqinghaiyoumeiyouweilai，buquedingxingdajiahainengbunengzhonghuozhiqiandelangmanheqinmiwujian。woshituxunzhaohuida，danyekeyiyingduibujiqishudenanti，zheiwuxinglengmochixuqinshizhewozixinxinyuxiwang。

　　6. 自我调节的实践探索

　　yingduinvpengyoudelengmo，wokaishifansizijishibushinalichulewenti。woshitudiaojiezijidejuexinyuxingwei，qidaikeyigaishandajiaxianghuzhijiandeguanxi。wojitagengdadekongjian，shizhelejietaxiangfaheganshou。wojiuxiangbierenxunqiubangzhu，zhengqiutadejianyiheyijian。wozhidaowobixuzhaohuizijidexinlijunheng，erfeiwanquanyilaiyuta。

　　7. 探索回答的坚持不懈

　　jinguannvpengyoubingmeiyoumingquezhichufenshou，danshitadelengmolingwojuedezheiduanganqingyaoyaoyuzhui。wobuyuanyijiucifangqi，fanershijianchibuxiezhuixunhuida。wojiangjixunuli，tanxungentagoutongjiaoliudejiyu，tansuotaxinzhongdetongkuhedanyou。wojianxinzhiyouxianzhangwowentidebenzhi，dajiacaikenengfujianlianggerendeganqing。buguanjieguoruhe，buhouhuicengjingdewodefuchuhenuli。

　　nvpengyoumeiyoutifenshoudanshihenleng，nvpengyoujinguanmeiyoumingquezhichufenshou，danshitadelengmorangwoganjuedaokunhuohemimang，shiquyiwangdeqinmiyuwennuan。yingduizheizhongjumian，womenjiangshenruyanjiuwentidebenzhi，bingbuduanxunqiujiejuefangan。wojianxin，jinyoutongguogoutongyulijie，dajiacaikenengfujianqicengjingdetianmiheqinmiwujian。wulunjieguozenmeyang，womenjiangjianchibuxiexunmishiqing，bingqieyezaizheiguochengzhongchengzhangyugaishanziji。